Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 5

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 5

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88998-4-1

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) Only if we have objectives to achieve certain successes we can actually achieve successes. 2) We meet with favorable situations for us if we have as an objective finding them. 3) We can encounter more easily favorable situations for us if we continue to focus on our activities. 4) We can encounter more easily and faster favorable situations for us if we also seek them in books in which we can find them. 5) Our objectives help us gather resources to attain them. 6) Our objectives in themselves only motivate us to achieve them. 7) It is necessary to create and develop
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the science of personal goals. 8) The science of personal goals should be studied in schools and universities, etc., because it is very important for us to achieve a quality life. 9) The quality of our life depends very much on how we continue to set goals. 10) Human resources are enormous, incalculable, a fact which can make people's lives achieve a much better quality. 11) Our life is influenced by a very large number of influences. 12) The quality of our lives can be mostly influenced by us, using in our favor the influences that may affect more or less the quality of life. 13) Due to enormous progress of human knowledge that is continuously growing daily, daily, the number of new opportunities to create a better quality of
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life is getting better. 14) Unfortunately, enormously many people are not concerned to find and use human knowledge that can help enormously hard to achieve a much better quality of life. 15) Human knowledge should be used effectively, organized, planned, impersonal, humanist for the good of our people and, in an incredibly short time, the quality of life of billions of people would grow incredibly much. 16) Most people today do not know how to use all of human knowledge that they could use to make their life much better. 17) Each of us can come, by using the Internet, to get to know human knowledge that can help us greatly in increasing the quality of our life. 18) Our objectives increase our energy;
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they give us additional power to attain them. 19) Our personal goals give us confidence in the future. 20) Our objectives gather all our energies together in order to achieve them. 21) When we have realistic goals that we believe in and act with dedication to achieve them, we are confident in our future. 22) When we have realistic goals that we believe in and act with dedication to achieve them, some of us feel happy. 23) Life is very beautiful and pleasant to us if we make it nice and pleasant. 24) The actions of our past, present and future affect the most the quality of our life. 25) The actions of our past, present and future affect and will affect the quality of our objectives.
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26) Those who do not have realistic objectives to believe in and act with dedication to achieve them, they do not believe in the future. 27) People who live from hand to mouth do not have realistic objectives on a long term in which to believe and to whom to dedicate themselves to achieve. 28) People who live from hand to mouth do not have outstanding achievements in life. 29) Many of the people living from hand to mouth are not happy. 30) Most people living from hand to mouth are very easy to manipulate. 31) Most people living from hand to mouth are not satisfied with the life that they lead. 32) Most people living from hand to mouth do not feel that they are really alive.
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33) Incredible facts are made mostly by people who have long-term objectives and work with dedication to achieve them. 34) Very few people of those who live their lives from hand to mouth realize incredible deeds. 35) Most people who perform incredible deeds had achieved that incredible objective that they believed in and to which they have dedicated themselves until they have achieved it. 36) Usually, only incredible objectives can lead us to incredible facts. 37) We can solve problems if we have confidence that we can solve them. 38) When we work with dedication to resolve problems most often we will solve them. 39) When we work with dedication and confidence in our personal objectives, often we will solve them.
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40) When we are in situations that seem impossible to solve, we should not be discouraged. 41) People have already made enormously many facts that were once incredible to achieve. 42) The facts that are incredible to achieve and that have been achieved show us that many problems that many people still have at the moment can be certainly solved if they believe that they can resolve them if they act with dedication to their resolution. 43) What is needed is also mandatory. 44) A necessity needs to be satisfied. 45) An unsatisfied need creates problems. 46) An unsatisfied need creates psychological discomfort. 47) When we achieve an objective we feel happy.
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48) A failure creates revolts. 49) Repeated failures can sometimes harm our health very much. 50) The prevention of failures prevents our revolts. 51) The prevention of failures prevents us from troubles. 52) The prevention of failures prevents our deterrence. 53) Most of us think about the future, our future, and the future of our children, the future of our loved ones, the future of our country, and the future of the world, of what it will be like in the future and how it will be. 54) We all think about what we will do in the next or more distant days. 55) Happiness depends on each of us knowing how to choose, preparing and carrying out the objectives for the future. 56) The longer we are able to choose,
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prepare and carry out projects and objectives for the future, the more realistic the chances are of building a happy future. 57) Our future depends mostly on us. 58) The happiness of our future depends mostly on us. 59) Our facts of the past, present, or future most influence our future. 60) We can easily achieve outstanding deeds in the future if we choose, project them from now on and persevere to achieve them. 61) The future is not predestined; it very much depends on what we do, more or less, from person to person. 62) There are many people who have very little influence on their future. Instead there are many people who influence the future of a much larger or smaller part of the rest of the people. 63) Some people greatly influence the
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future of tens of millions or even hundreds of millions or even that of over billion million people. 64) Along with many potential influences on our future, if we propose and act, we can mostly influence our future. Depends on how much and how we want to influence it; it depends on how much we let others influence our future. 65) When we talk about the future can talk about: 1) our professional future, 2) our future as a husband, 3) the future of our marriage; 4) the future of our wife, the future of children in its various forms; 5) the future of the hobbies that we have; 6) our future careers; 7) our future work place, etc... 66) Our distanced future can be greatly influenced by what we do in the future before that distant future. 67) The more distant the future is the
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more the factors that will influence it will be more numerous and some more unknown to us. 68) Our distant future can be changed more or less by what we decide now, primarily for our continuing concern of building a certain future of the great changes taking place in society, of the relations, the contacts that we have with various people, of the information that we come in contact with, of the depth and accuracy of the analysis of information we come in contact with, of the creative capacity of our ideas to create new projects, new objectives in the light of our experience, our present , the information we find and receive etc. 69) Unfortunately, neither people nor society address the future, are not concerned with the future that is so important to us, with how much it
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influences our future happiness. 70) Short-term thinking refers to short term projects, actions, activities, etc. 71) Short-term thinking is necessary to be combined with long-term thinking. 72) In most people's concerns regarding their objectives, their projects in different future aspects virtually do not exist neither in theoretical approaches nor do they speak about plans, projects, targets achieved. This fact makes their life one lived largely at random from hand to mouth, as many are not happy in the future ahead. 73) Man can be happy in his life in a greater or smaller degree, depending on how he sees life, on how the philosophy of his life is, on the values he has. 74) In life it is good, it is necessary to continuously enjoy each achievement of those close to us and of any man we see.
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This way of seeing life, this principle maintains our health, make us deal with any failures, unachieved goals, received blows, etc... 75) The fact that we do not have certain assets, accomplishments, etc. during certain periods of our life must not fret, consume, frustrate, make us unhappy, but it is necessary to enjoy what we have, what we have achieved, the projects that we have to achieve, the qualities, the skills that we have, etc. 76) Thinking long term refers to long term projects, actions, activities. 77) Unfortunately, most people in most cases use only short-term thinking which mostly harms those around them. 78) The great and special achievements of mankind have been carried out by people who have used long-term thinking. 79) Long term thinking can also be
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called futuristic. 80) It is necessary and required that society develops studies and research about the future, thinking futurologically, long-term projects for faster implementation and development of some theories, a more complete knowledge of them to be able to handle projects for the future and prevent mistakes made previously by society. 81) Futurology could help prevent the recurrence of many mistakes made so far and would achieve more progress in many areas much faster and could solve more problems more quickly. 82) Our future is composed of all the facts, feelings, etc. that will be done, that we shall live from now on in our entire life. 83) It has been written a lot about the woman, about women but there will still
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be more and more necessary things to write. 84) Still being a woman, women were given the opportunity to do everything they can do. 85) Women have made many outstanding deeds, have contributed enormously to progress in many fields, but from now on they will have a much greater contribution. 86) A man without a woman can not be truly happy or fulfilled. 87) Women bring much in the life of a man, much joy, much happiness and satisfactions. 88) The salt and pepper in a marriage is the woman. 89) Many women have had very high positive influences on men, and have helped them achieve outstanding performances.
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90) The true fulfillment of a woman is in a happy marriage with children. 91) Having a happy marriage is a necessity for both men and women and especially for children. 92) Unfortunately, although women bear in their wombs a child for months, give them life, many divorce easily, enormously damage children in a divorce. 93) Divorces are extremely harmful to both men and women but more harmful to children. 94) Many women do not think enough before making children if their marriage is viable or not. 95) If women are more cautious, they could prevent much more divorces. 96) Most of the time it is too easy to divorce, for both men and women, not thinking enough about their children, about the negative effects of divorce on
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children and their spouses and harming themselves. 97) I esteem women very much, appreciate and respect them very much for what they are, for the special qualities that they have. 98) I am not saying that women should not be concerned with their outer beauty but to occupy themselves more with their inner beauty, to achieve and maintain a happy marriage. For these targets women fortunately have unlimited capacities but unfortunately very few use them. 99) Women still have enormous reserves to prevent divorce and many unhappy marriages. 100) It is essential that much more women set as goals the prevention of divorce, of unhappy marriages and that they work to achieve them, because fortunately they will most certainly
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succeed because many have the qualities and capabilities required to do this. 101) It is sometimes very easy to write and very hard to do what is needed and what we write, but fortunately, what is written, can often help us very much. 102) Unfortunately, many women fail to develop inner beauty, though it would greatly increase their chances to achieve more happy marriages and prevent much more divorces. 103) By developing their inner beauty, the qualities, skills, abilities and feelings that make them happy, women can create more joy and satisfactions. 104) On the other hand there are many women who do the almost impossible to achieve and maintain happy marriages, to prevent divorce. These are, some of them, living models which deserve all the respect and appreciation in the world and
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they deserve to be known both them, by all of us, and their outstanding deeds in order to imitate them. 105) There are many great deeds of many women that seem incredible and hard to imagine. 106) Women very often give enormously additional power to the men whom they love and by whom they are loved. 107) Women very often make a mens life more beautiful, with many joys and many satisfactions. Unfortunately some men do not know how to assess the fair value of these particular facts of many women. 108) If some men would behave properly with women, there would be much less divorces and unhappy marriages in the world. 109) Often, many men do not respect, do not appreciate, do not help women enough
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as they have to. 110) Inner spiritual beauty makes a woman special, permanently young and a magnet for many men, this makes her much more appreciated, respected and esteemed. 111) Protecting people is a necessity and an obligation of society. 112) Unfortunately, the protection of people who need protection from society is not even a primary objective. 113) Unfortunately, many times no protection by the society of those who need it has enormously negative effects and multiple ones that are irreversible on them, sometimes resulting in suicides, deaths, self-mutilations, killings, physical and psychological damage, some irreversible, crimes with many years of conviction, inhuman life under the open sky, on the streets, in ditches, etc.
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114) It is inadmissible that in the XXIst century human tragedies exist in such an incredibly high number. 115) The lack of protection of people by society is very damaging and costly not only for those who need it but also for society, for the other people, etc... 116) There are certain situations when people for one reason or another need more human protection. In these situations it is necessary and required that society provides the necessary protection for as long as they need it. 117) It is necessary and required of society to prevent through various measures people arriving to a point when they need protection from it. 118) Various and continuous changes in society make that sometimes some people need protection more or less. 119) A smaller or bigger number of
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people who at a certain time need protection varies a lot according to many causes. Causes that can make people need protection from society are very many and they can not be controlled by single individuals. They are some unpredictable causes that adversely affect some individuals who can not cope with some individuals. It is necessary and imperative that society always has institutions and an objective to ensure effective and not formal protection of those who need it. 120) Society needs and must provide much more care and protection than ever before for all the people who compose, it is necessary and mandatory that it is more humane, it takes much more care and human protection of man. 121) The society makes "n" abuses against the unprotected, by not protecting them.
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122) Many problems created by those who should be protected, would not exist if they were protected by society. 123) One of the causes of many crimes is also that generated by the fact that society has not provided, although it was necessary and obligatory, human protection for those who have committed certain crimes. 124) Many crimes could be prevented by preventing the causes that lead certain people to the need for human protection by providing human protection from society to people who have arrived in a position where they need it. 125) Unfortunately, society is not concerned enough, does not take the necessary measures to prevent the causes that lead certain people in a position where they need social protection and ensure the needed and obligatory human protection
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for people who need it. In fact, through this inhuman, ineffective, irresponsible, illegal, selfish, abusive, etc. behavior, society, unfortunately, has a great contribution to the achievement of many crimes committed by people who needed human protection and were not given any. 126) It is much more effective, humane, legal, responsible, necessary and required for society to prevent the causes leading to situations in which some people have the need for human protection and to ensure the human protection of people who need it rather than: build prisons, increase the number of police, gendarmerie and other repressive forces, spend large sums on various formal activities of the states institutions without any actual positive finality, etc. 127) The systems, the formal measures of the state made to solve human
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problems, the judicial system with certain behaviors typical to slave-owning, feudal, totalitarian, communist, inhuman, against man etc. societies. Many times in many situations people can decay morally, degrade mentally and physically, degrade their health, be an expert in crimes. 128) Societies that do not prevent the causes that create situations where people need human protection, that do not have a system of effective human protection corresponding to human needs is necessary to consider the best systems from other countries and also to create and implement it as soon as possible. 129) Society, among its priorities should also have the following priorities: 130) To create the necessary institutions and to take the necessary measures to prevent with maximum effectiveness, efficiency and safety all the causes leading
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to the creation of situations where some people need human protection; 131) To create the institution: The Authority of Human Protection (to verify the states institutions, individuals and private or illegal entities if they prevent the creation of the causes leading to some situations where people need human protection (and if they provide the human protection necessary for people who need this protection. 132) We should never be defeated by trouble. 133) Consensus prevents many arguments. 134) Consensus is a factor of progress, success and performance. 135) By allowing what is bad can sometimes cause us much harm. 136) He who has the quality to actuate others is likely to achieve many successes
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in life. 137) Through passivity we can not progress. 138) When we are indisposed it is better to sleep. 139) Those who are most effectively active have much greater opportunities to achieve success. 140) Successes create a lot of friends. 141) Wise advice is always needed. 142) We must not reject positive advice. 143) Seriousness is a factor of many performances. 144) Solidarity helps us become stronger. 145) Through solidarity we can achieve much more progresses. 146) Through solidarity we can achieve much more true friendships. 147) Some problems we can sometimes solve more quickly only because of relations of friendship.
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148) Problems can be solved most of the time through a creed, a positive thinking or through a performant education. 149) Some problems can be solved most of the time through co-development. 150) Acting continuously and effectively to achieve positive goals we will surely achieve them. 151) It is always necessary to be fair, because fairness leads us to success and happiness. 152) It is always necessary to be effective in any situation because in this way we are able to achieve bigger or smaller successes and a lot of enjoyment, joy, happiness. 153) When we are aggrieved it is necessary to act until we obtain justice. Through perseverance we will succeed. 154) Through cooperation we can become wiser more quickly.
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155) Seriousness is an earnest quality that helps us progress, keep our marriage, become happy, keep our friends and get more enjoyment and joys out of life. 156) Objectivity helps us become happy and achieve and maintain a happy marriage, make friends and keep them, lets us find friends and keep them, and achieve much bigger or smaller successes. 157) Objectivity is essential to effective and positive actions. 158) Understanding is a quality that helps us make more real friends, keep, maintain our marriage, co operations, unity and solidarity. 159) Perseverance is a special quality that helps us achieve many bigger or smaller successes, face any difficulties, cavils, obstacles, achieve outstanding performances, achieve our objectives, become happy, achieve and maintain a
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happy marriage. 160) Perseverance gives us power, strengthens us, and makes us honorable, respected and appreciated. 161) Regardless of what the problem is, it should not scare us. We can solve any problem through perseverance, solidarity, unity, cooperation and by using the Internet. 162) Always, when we have problems to solve and we have not found solutions to solve them it is very useful to use the Internet because we can find possible solutions in the information we can obtain on the Internet. We can also ask those who are on the Internet for possible solutions. 163) Knowing yourself is very necessary and very useful to us in order to achieve a happy marriage, to maintain it, to make friends and to maintain them, to use cover our qualities and flaws, etc.
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164) The more we know ourselves better, the deeper, the more chances we have to obtain what we want to achieve, our objectives, to obtain successes. 165) The continuous surpassing of ourselves is a series of continuous successes. 166) The continuous surpassing of ourselves helps us a lot to achieve more easily our goals and it is also a guarantee of our future successes. 167) Men need to appreciate, respect all the qualities of women no matter what the situation is, even in this situation when these have more qualities than them. 168) The husband who has a wife with more qualities than he does needs to be proud of her, to respect her, appreciate and support her, help her use her qualities for her sake, their childrens sake and her husbands sake.
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169) Before talking we need to think about what we want to say. 170) Positive thinking makes us do positive deeds, makes us be able to solve our objectives, obtain smaller or greater successes, be appreciated, respected and esteemed, achieve and maintain our happiness, a happy marriage, etc. 171) Tact is part of our wisdom. (Those who have tact will succeed in having more and greater successes.) 172) Those with tact succeed in avoiding many arguments. 173) Those with tact succeed in avoiding misunderstandings, conflicts, arguments, annoyances within the family. 174) Tact is a necessary quality for negotiators and for us in many situations. 175) Many times we can solve problems with tact rather than solving them if we did not have tact.
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176) Tact can be learned, developed and we can also diversify its ways of action. 177) Tact within the family contributes a lot to maintaining harmony and understanding. 178) It is permanently necessary to develop our ways of acting with tact, to find new methods, strategies of acting with tact. 179) Those who have tact have more chances to achieve more joys, satisfactions and much more happiness. 180) In many situations it is necessary to be tactful. 181) If we do not have tact we can grow it, develop it through exercises, perseverance, studying and will. 182) It is never too late to have tact or to learn how to have tact. 183) We should have the same time available daily, but we are very different
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from one another through the efficiency of using our time, through the percent of using our time. 184) Wisdom is not given to us through birth. We form and develop it along our life. 185) The developing of our wisdom is a treasure that we can continuously grow if we continuously act in that sense.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88998-4-1

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