Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 7

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 7

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88998-6-5

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) In life we may each receive more or less unjust blows. No unjust blow should consume us, because if we consume ourselves we do not solve anything but instead we harm us and sometimes even very much and we also complicate some problems that we have. First of all when we receive an unjust blow, we should focus on finding solutions, actions to help us minimize the negative effects of the blow, unless we can reduce them to zero. Secondly, it is necessary to identify the causes and factors that led us to receiving them unjustly. Thirdly, it is necessary to remove the causes that led us to receiving them unjustly, so that we shall not receive them
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again or several times again. In the fourth line is necessary to take all necessary measures to prevent the causes that led us to receiving the X blow unjustly. Fifthly it is necessary to seek to identify whether there are other causes that might lead us to receive further blows unjustly. Sixthly it is necessary to discover other potential causes that could cause us to receive more unfair blows by taking the necessary measures: 1) to eliminate these causes, 2) where we can not prevent these causes it is necessary to take the necessary measures not to receive them unjustly, 3) if we receive them, to make the blow have as little negative effects as possible over us. In the seventh line it is necessary that our new situation caused by the unfair
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blow is used efficiently for us. It is possible that what we accomplish after the new situation created by the unjustly received blow is much larger and beneficial to us than the achievements that we had done if we had not received the blow unjustly. 2) Consensus is a situation that prevents many conflicts, trouble, divisive, arguments, loss of time etc... 3) Consensus helps us maintain harmony in the family. 4) To permit and to be passive in the face of dehumanization is a big mistake. 5) When you permit what is wrong sometimes we harm ourselves very much. 6) He who has the quality has to motivate others is likely to get great and many successes in life. 7) In life, through passivity and lack of activism we can not progress.
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8) We should never be beaten by troubles. 9) Out of some troubles sometimes we can realize much more than if we had not had those troubles. 10) He who is sparing is more likely to achieve outstanding successes. 11) The quality of being economical, if we do not have it, we can create and develop it continuously. 12) Those who have many successes are worshiped as idols. 13) For those who have many great successes we can always learn more effective behaviors that may lead us and to many and great successes. 14) He who is insidious in his behavior alienates people. 15) Kindness is a quality that helps us achieve many successes. 16) Persons with many qualities are
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especially dear. 17) Most of the time mutual love maintains a marriage. 18) Honor is a quality that prevents many problems. 19) Human qualities make many families happy. 20) We very much harm our marriage if we annoy with our insistence that whom we married. 21) We can make our life happier only if we respect the rules that make life happy. 22) By living our lives at random we can also only achieve happiness at random. 23) We can only build happiness by respecting those principles that lead us to happiness. 24) Our human experience gained so far, a part of it being stored in books and
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on the Internet, if we study it and apply it to achieve personal objectives, we will have much greater opportunities to achieve them. 25) Our talent helps us greatly in the achievement of our personal goals. 26) Our ingenuity helps us create and maintain a happy family. 27) The efficient management of our time helps us greatly to the achievement of our personal goals. 28) By studying how they manage time, those people who have had many and great successes can help us learn more effective behaviors than ours. 29) From now on, mankind has enough resources to solve the problem of illiteracy in a record time, an incredibly short one by mobilizing and effectively use all of our existing resources. 30) Positive thinking helps us solve
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positive actions. Those who do not have positive thinking have no way of achieving positive actions so they achieve negative actions. 31) Positive thinking is made up of all the positive ideas that positive thinking uses, the values on which it is based, the principles which it uses etc. 32) Positive thinking was the basis of all the large and small successes that people achieved. 33) No success, great or small can be achieved without positive thinking. 34) Positive ideas are the raw material of positive thinking but also the outcome of positive thinking. 35) Positive ideas can increase the capacity and efficiency of positive thinking and positive thinking can increase the number of positive ideas, creating new positive ideas.
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36) Only positive thinking can lead to personal projects. 37) Positive thinking can be developed continuously. 38) Positive thinking can greatly increase efficiency. 39) We continuously expand the effectiveness of positive thinking. 40) A goal of our life should be the continuous increasing of the effectiveness of positive thinking. 41) A goal of our life should be the continuous increasing of our capacity of positive thinking. 42) Creative thinking creates ideas. 43) Those who have no creative thinking can not create ideas. 44) If an individual does not have creative thinking, he can create it himself, and with the help of other people who have creative thinking.
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45) Those who have little capacity for the creation of creative thinking can increase their ability to continuously create creative thinking. 46) Those who have creative thinking have very big chances to achieve their personal goals. 47) Creative thinking enhances the ability to solve problems that people have. 48) The more we expand the capacity of creation of creative thinking the more the number of ideas and solutions designed to achieve personal goals will increase. 49) Creative thinking can find solutions to many problems that we believe to be impossible to resolve. 50) Creative thinking resolves issues that, if creative thinking would not exist, we could not solve them. 51) The ability of creative thinking can grow indefinitely.
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52) Peoples creative thinking will solve many global problems today in a period of time much smaller than almost all the people today believe they would. 53) Unfortunately today, creative thinking, developing creative thinking are assigned an unimaginable little time by most people in the world. 54) Unfortunately, today's creative thinking and its development is allocated a time inversely proportional to the importance and usefulness of them for every man and society. 55) Society needs to create and develop creative thinking for people from kindergarten to death. 56) Creative thinking was, is and will be one of the main engines of progress in each area. 57) Each of us needs and must have as a personal goal for as long as we live to
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continuously create and develop creative thinking. 58) At present, there are many books, studies and research that we can study and additionally the Internet that can help us in a very short amount of time, if we have desire and as a personal objective to continuously create and develop creative thinking and ability. 59) The world countries need and must take the necessary steps to create and develop every citizens ability and creative thinking, because they are particularly important for each country and human in part, for the country's problems, the worlds problems and the objectives of each man. 60) Investments made by each country effectively in the creation and development of creative thinking and ability will be the most effective
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investment that can be made, for several reasons. In addition the positive effects of investing in the creation and development of creative thinking and ability will enable it to allocate sufficient funds to achieve the objectives of creating and developing creative thinking and ability. 61) Effective preventive actions are very efficient in most cases. 62) Effective preventive thinking can create many ideas that become effective preventive measures and can contribute greatly to the achievement of personal goals. 63) The effective idea is a part of the effective action that generated it. 64) Only effective useful ideas lead us to achieving some bigger or smaller successes. 65) Any useful positive idea to the achievement of our objectives is necessary
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to be applied as soon as possible. 66) Personal goals can be achieved only if they are achievable. 67) To achieve personal goals it is necessary to effectively find and use all the resources that help us achieve them. 68) We can prevent errors through a better organization, and more effective personal actions. 69) Our conflicting behavior makes people avoid cooperating with us. 70) Those who have conflicting behavior can eliminate it by the selfcontrol of their behavior. 71) Pride can lead proud people to many failures in life. 72) Harmful behaviors can be prevented through self-control, through the values that we have, through will and by establishing personal goals to prevent harmful behaviors for us.
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73) The unthought-of actions of people can often harm than enormously. 74) It is always necessary to have as a personal goal the prevention of unthoughtof actions. 75) Some of the unthought-of actions of people have very high and multiple negative effects. 76) When we think about the positive actions we can no longer think of negative actions. 77) By occupying childrens time with positive actions they will not have time to make negative actions. 78) Life to very many people could become more beautiful if they would set a personal goal to achieve a more beautiful life, and if they would continuously act for as long as they live to achieve this objective. 79) Each of us has many chances to
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assert themselves in life. It is important to seek them, to find them and to work to make them become realities, successes. 80) We can increase our chances of becoming happy by discovering new chances through reading and analyzing the ideas of these idea books and magazines. 81) By applying one or more ideas from these books and magazines we expand opportunities for achieving our personal goals. 82) Good sense is a quality that helps us become economically efficient in actions and use our time efficiently. 83) If some people are reckless and have as a will the determining the personal goals of becoming prudent and if they continuously act effectively to achieve this personal objective, they will become prudent. 84) The desire to succeed at any cost
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and at any means is very harmful and will create many and very high problems. 85) In life it is necessary to achieve as many true friends as possible because they make our life more beautiful. 86) True friends help us very much to develop much faster our wisdom. 87) True friends help us greatly to accumulate more knowledge more quickly. 88) Many people's successes are due solely or largely to the true friends they had. 89) Positive behaviors are part of the previous happiness of many people. 90) A lot more people can become happy as long as they determine among other objectives the goal to become happy. 91) Unfortunately, today, many people still do not have among their objectives and personal goals the one to become
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happy. 92) Most people do not get of a lot of happiness in life because first of all they neither set the personal goal to become happy, nor seek to explore, to see how others have succeeded in life to have more happiness. Practically they do not do anything to become happy. 93) Those who have more skills have more opportunities to realize more and greater successes. 94) Each of us is necessary to determine what qualities we need in order to achieve the objectives we have set. If we do not have certain qualities, it is necessary to analyze and determine if we can shape and develop them. If we can shape and then develop them it is necessary then to form and develop them. 95) In order to achieve personal goals with greater opportunities it is necessary
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to develop the qualities needed to achieve these goals. 96) In the present, the world has sufficient resources so that more people achieve their happiness, yet people still do not use them at all or use them very little. 97) It is necessary to make people aware of all the resources and opportunities that can help them achieve their own happiness. 98) Unfortunately, incredibly many people do nothing or almost nothing to achieve their own happiness. However they do something bad, they lament the fact that they are not happy, they do not have luck, they are absurdly jealous of those who are happy forgetting that they are the only ones guilty for not being happy (in most cases) because firstly they do nothing to be happy. 99) Many people of the planets people
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which consider themselves unhappy, have the qualities necessary to start, step by step, in a thoughtful way to achieve their own happiness through setting their own personal goal to achieve their own happiness for as long as they live. 100) Happiness often does not come by itself but by work, continuous efforts, which we make every day, through will, our daily dedication to achieve our personal objective of being happy for as long as we live. 101) In order not to hinder the achievement of our happiness it is necessary not to consume ourselves for any trouble, accident, etc... no matter how big it would be, it does not help us solve anything but instead consumes our resources in an inefficient, unnecessary way. Logically, it is necessary to see that catastrophe, mistake, that failure and to:
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102) Take the necessary measures to stop the negative effects of that unhappiness, mistake, and failure. Both for us and for others. 103) Seek and detect whether it is possible not to repeat the catastrophe so to take the necessary preventive measures, not to repeat it. 104) Take all possible necessary measures to prevent the causes that led to the catastrophe, etc. or which may lead to other kinds of misfortune. 105) If each of us would be more unselfish on this earth there would be much more happiness, more joy and satisfactions, much more prosperity, harmony, understanding, more goodness, and much less trouble, misery, misfortune, accidents, diseases, illnesses, illiteracy, poverty, etc. Therefore each of us could and should be more unselfish in as many
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situations as possible. Acts of selflessness from each of us should lead step by step to creating a safer world with fewer conflicts, wars, acts of terrorism etc. 106) Happiness can be achieved much easier and much faster if we set as a personal goal to live to be happy and to act effectively on a continuous basis to achieve it. Without having this objective the chances of being happy are much smaller. 107) Each of us we could have more joy, more satisfaction and happiness, if we used more effectively our resources. 108) Many of us still use our time more inefficiently than we can. Each of us has very large reserves and resources to greatly expand the effectiveness of using our time and we should use them to continually expand the efficiency of our time.
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109) Each of us with the help of the qualities that we have with that of those that we can shape and develop, of the various resources around the world, of the human experience and knowledge acquired in books, on the Internet, in publications, etc. we can be optimistic in our future in achieving a happy future. It is necessary to mobilize the will, qualities given to us with all our being to achieve the personal goal of making a happier future for us. Good luck to all. The ideas exposed by me can help very much, use them. 110) When we have a psychological fall, we become pessimistic at that time, etc.; in order to become as soon as possible more optimistic in problem solving, in the personal achievement of our objectives, it is necessary to talk to optimistic people on the Internet or to read in books or on the
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Internet, in publications, optimistic ideas, ideas that can help us find solutions to resolve problems and achieve personal projects. 111) Lack of attention can create very large damages very often concomitant stop or delay the final achievement of personal goals. 112) It is not logical to be jealous of the achievements of others. 113) While some are jealous of the achievements of others they could use that time and energy consumed by envy to achieve something than nothing, rather then by consuming unnecessarily time with envy, especially because that time is extremely valuable. 114) Carelessness was often the cause of many failures. 115) Whenever we are able to reconciliate, it is useful and necessary to
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reconciliate. 116) Reconciliation can sometimes avoid many problems. 117) Anger can sometimes provoke more misfortune. 118) Laziness is a cause of poverty for many poor people. 119) Poverty for most poor people is caused by not thinking in many situations. 120) Poverty in many poor people is caused by the fact that they are not hardworking enough. 121) Poverty for most poor people comes from the fact that they do not know how to manage their incomes and assets. 122) In our time, most poor people can escape poverty by using the abilities they possess more efficiently, by preventing inefficient actions and flaws and by looking for effective solutions and actions. 123) The more unqualified we are in a
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certain area the more mistakes we can make. 124) If we are not qualified in a certain area, the best thing to do is not to act or work in that area because we can create a lot of damage both to ourselves and to the ones we work for. 125) The more nagging we are the more repugnant we become. 126) Often mistakes can teach us a lot if we want to learn from them and to prevent other future mistakes. 127) The more we learn from other peoples mistakes the more we can prevent more mistakes for ourselves. 128) Understanding maintains true friends. 129) Understanding maintains happy marriages. 130) Understanding maintains effective co operations.
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131) Understanding is a factor of many successful co operations. 132) True friendship helps us create other true friends, because it is a visible pattern that makes us more believable before others. 133) In life, we can continuously increase our credibility before people. This is accomplished when our actions are positive and visible and we continuously have positive visible actions. 134) Even though at a certain moment we are not very believable before people, we can become believable as long as we resolve more credible and positive actions. 135) True friendship helps us, in need, in dealing with the difficulties that appear in front of us. 136) In life, it is necessary to have as a personal objective the creation and maintaining of the biggest possible
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number of true friends. 137) True friendship gives us more power. 138) The more true the friends we have are, the more power we accumulate. This power helps us cope with the difficulties we have to overcome even the unfair hits we receive. 139) Those who have as a personal objective the harmonious development of their character will succeed in life to achieve more successes and far fewer failures than those who do not have personal objectives and do not target their own harmonious development of their personality. 140) Those who have as a personal objective the harmonious development of their character will succeed in life and achieve a more beautiful life than those who do not have among their personal
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goals the harmonious development of their personality. 141) Spiritual self-development is one of the personal self-developments that we can do ourselves. 142) Spiritual self-development helps us very much to develop spiritually. Spiritual self-development should be one of the main objectives of our personal life as it has many positive effects on us and on the others and for society. Having as a personal objective personal selfdevelopment and if we achieve it for as long as we live, we will be able to progress and develop incredibly much spiritually and we automatically create opportunities to achieve bigger or smaller successes in life. 143) Spiritual self-development is necessary, it is useful and it should become mandatory for each person as a
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personal goal due to the importance, necessity, and utility, the requirement for spiritual development of each person of this planet, of countries and of all mankind. Spiritual self-development is a major highly efficient form of the development of our spiritual life. 144) To increase the number of people who will set as a personal goal the spiritual self-development and who will create greater opportunities for spiritual self-development to be done by as many people as possible who aimed for selfdevelopment as a personal goal, it is necessary to continuously create and develop the science of personal development which encompasses the spiritual and scientific personal selfdevelopment. Until we create and develop the science of spiritual development it is necessary to develop the science of
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spiritual self-development because so many people from many countries are more active and effective than the countries in which they live and thus they can be models for other people with positive models of personal selfdevelopment and so they can help them create and develop, achieve their personal objectives. Unfortunately, at present there is no science of spiritual development, no science of spiritual self-development, and there are not many people who have set the objective of personal spiritual selfdevelopment, although spiritual selfdevelopment is extremely necessary and very useful to each person and society as a whole. Because of these shortcomings and large utilities for its individual and society, it is very useful and very necessary that as many people as possible establish as a
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goal the personal self-development and have personal dedication to this goal for as long as they live to achieve themselves continuously and not wait until society or certain private or state institutions will create the science of spiritual development and the science of spiritual selfdevelopment. Spiritual self-development will help us greatly in spiritual development that can be accelerated if we continually study the issues that can help us grow spiritually, issues that we find stored in books, publications, television, on the Internet, in the life experience of people who have values and ethics and have achieved many and great successes thanks to the development of their spirituality and ethic. The longer we self-develop spiritually the more opportunities we have to achieve more and greater successes that
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are made by spiritual self-development. 145) Spiritual self-development unfortunately although it is very necessary and useful both to each man and society, humanity, it does not exist as a personal goal to most people in the world. 146) Mental self-development helps mostly to our mental development. Mental self-development is necessary and required to become a personal goal for as long as we live for every earthling. 147) Spiritual self-development helps mostly the spiritual development of each human being. 148) Spiritual self-development is necessary and required due to its importance for each human to become a personal goal for as long as we live. 149) Mental self-development enormously increases our chances and creates much more to get more and greater
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successes for as long as we live. 150) Mental self-development enormously increases our possibilities to set more and greater personal life targets and achieve them. 151) Mental self-development enormously increases our efficiency and productivity of our thinking for as long as we live, on a continuous basis. 152) Mental self-development enormously increases with much efficiency, productivity our actions with tremendous positive effects so that we can cooperate with others and with society. 153) Mental self-development increases our efficiency with which we take personal decisions for others and for society, it greatly enhances the quality of the decisions we make, it greatly enhances the quality of our personal actions and those that co-ordinate them.
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154) Mental self-development is of enormous help in preventing a lot of failures, sorrows, mistakes, illnesses, accidents, conflicts, arguments, divorces, negative actions, inefficiencies, etc. 155) Mental self-development continues for as long as we live and it helps us infinitely in achieving much more grater successes, performances, records, good deeds, positive actions, collaborations, ideas, books or movies creations, etc. 156) The more time we dedicate daily to our mental self-development, the more chances we have to develop our mind more and more, and doing this, in its turn, shall help us even more in achieving a larger amount of personal objectives, and in a shorter and more productive time.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88998-6-5

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