Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 36

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 36

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-15-4

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) The wiser we are the more chances we have to achieve true friendships. 2) Those who do good deeds make true friends a lot easier. 3) An honest woman through her honesty and her qualities maintains a happy marriage. 4) Hesitating behavior reduces the chances of achieving efficient codevelopments. 5) The ability to stimulate creativity in others helps us a lot to achieve more and greater successes. 6) The ability to adopt visions helps us a lot to achieve our personal goals. 7) The ability to adopt visions helps us a lot to have more chances to meet more favorable situations.
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8) The ability to adopt visions helps us a lot in achieving efficient codevelopments. 9) The ability to anticipate peoples needs helps us maintain efficient co operations. 10) The ability to anticipate peoples needs helps us motivate people in different actions. 11) The capacity of anticipating peoples needs helps us a lot to make those people happy. 12) The ability to learn how to learn contributes in increasing the efficiency of our actions. 13) The quality of sensing situations helps us achieve efficient co operations. 14) The quality of sensing situations helps us a lot to discover danger. 15) The quality of sensing situations helps us increase our efficiency.
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16) The quality of sensing situations helps us avoid failures. 17) Orientation towards a future world helps us develop efficient codevelopments. 18) Orientation towards a future world helps us have more chances to meet more favorable situations. 19) The development of our ability to listen increases our chances of achieving efficient co operations. 20) Developing our ability of listening increases our chances of achieving true friendships. 21) Combining our knowledge increases our possibilities of achieving our personal goals. 22) Increasing the strength of our mind augments our possibilities of achieving more efficient co-developments a lot. 23) Increasing the strengths of our mind
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arguments are possibilities of achieving more and greater successes a lot. 24) A low tolerance for personal imperfections helps us a lot to achieve our personal objectives faster. 25) The ability to take rapid decisions increases our possibilities of achieving our personal goals a lot faster. 26) Orientation towards a goal increases our possibilities of achieving a successful marriage. 27) The capacity of rapid perception helps us a lot to achieve efficient codevelopments. 28) Flexibility helps us a lot to increase our chances of achieving efficient co operations. 29) Openness towards the world increases our chances to achieve a happy marriage. 30) New efficient ways of thinking help
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us a lot to achieve our personal objectives. 31) Optimism is an advantage in front of hardship. 32) Those who like very much what they want have trust in themselves. 33) Those who truly love people have more chances of achieving a happy marriage. 34) By doing the right thing we will succeed in increasing our chances to meet more favorable situations. 35) Efficient global co operations will contribute in the formation and development of future trust. 36) Past and present experience contributes a lot to preventing many failures. 37) Humanist global thinking creates great possibilities of development in many areas of activity from many states. 38) Humanist global thinking
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contributes a lot to the global humanization. 39) Global positive human solidarity helps us achieve more positive efficient human co-developments. 40) Enthusiastic behavior increases our chances of achieving efficient codevelopments. 41) Our self-trust makes us be able to achieve a happy marriage. 42) Consciousness increases our chances of achieving efficient codevelopments. 43) A positive conception of life helps us and increases our chances of achieving effective co operations. 44) People who produce useful ideas have much more chances to achieve happy marriages. 45) Very sociable and open persons have much more chances of achieving
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mature love. 46) Industriousness helps us and contributes to boosting our self-trust. 47) Our value system helps us and increases our chances to find the right partner for life. 48) Receptive persons have more chances to cooperate efficiently. 49) People who are confident in others have much more chances to meet favorable situations. 50) People who are resistant to stress have a greater credibility. 51) People who are calm in any situation have more chances to prevent many mistakes. 52) People with and innovating spirit have much more chances to meet more favorable situations. 53) An emotionally stable man has much more chances to find the right
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partner for life. 54) A cooperative man in activities more easily achieves efficient codevelopments. 55) An understanding man has more chances to find the right partner for life. 56) Continuous self perfection helps us a lot to achieve a true love. 57) Responsible people have much more possibilities of contributing to achieving a positive global future. 58) Concentrating our energies helps us a lot to find the right partner for life. 59) An energetic man has much more chances to achieve a happy marriage. 60) An open man has much more chances of finding the suited partner for life. 61) A man with imagination has great possibilities of contributing to the formation and development of global
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thinking. 62) Achieving the greater good is also based on the exchange of information. 63) Achieving exchanges of information prevents many possible mistakes. 64) Political corruption is a very great danger to democracy. 65) A man capable of self control in stressing situations has the power and the chances to achieve outstanding performances. 66) A man willing at any time to help somebody has much more chances of achieving more and greater successes. 67) A reliable man has great chances of maintaining his marriage happy. 68) A man willing to try new ways must be supported, promoted and rewarded for what he does. 69) A man who approaches and is used to approach problems simultaneously from
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different points of view has much more chances and a much greater potential to meet more favorable situations. 70) A man who is satisfied by his own way of behaving socially has the chances to achieve a true mature love. 71) A man open towards new ideas has much more chances and a much greater potential to become more creative. 72) A man who acts daily, continuously to become even more efficient, has much more and greater chances and a higher potential to become more efficient. 73) A realistic man in interpersonal relations has more and more chances and a greater potential to become more efficient. 74) A man oriented towards the outside world has more chances and a greater potential to have more and greater successes that involve many social relations.
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75) A man full of life has more and greater chances and a higher potential to achieve his personal objectives. 76) A man who acts continuously, day by day, to become more organized has more and greater chances of becoming more efficient. 77) A man with an orientation towards the distant future has much more and greater chances of meeting more favorable situations. 78) A man who faces uncertainties has much more and greater chances of achieving effective co-developments. 79) An efficient man has also had a lot of happiness. 80) A man who has the ability to mobilize people influences progress in many areas of activity. 81) A man who has a diversity of interests must know how to effectively
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manage his time. 82) A man who acts continuously, day by day, to become more economic achieves his financial independence all on his own. 83) An optimistic man more easily and quickly achieves true friendships. 84) Most of the times and optimistic man is also a sincere man. 85) A man who faces uncertainties has more and greater chances to achieve his personal goals. 86) The sociable man has many interpersonal relations. 87) A realistic man in everything he does most of the times succeeds in life. 88) A man sure of himself has much more and greater chances to meet more favorable situations. 89) A man with practical values manages to accomplish efficient co
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operations. 90) A man who knows how to protect himself permanently takes preventive measures. 91) A man who continuously expands his horizon has more and greater chances to make true friendships. 92) The richness of our experience helps us a lot to prevent many mistakes. 93) The ability to react with understanding helps us a lot to maintain a happy marriage. 94) Those who have independence have more and greater chances to achieve more and greater successes. 95) Those who know and have the power to change their inefficient behaviors when it is necessary have great chances to achieve outstanding performances. 96) The efficient management of our time helps us a lot to become more
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effective. 97) People who have the ability to take risks have more chances of achieving a more beautiful life. 98) People who deal with contradictions have more chances of achieving a happy marriage. 99) People who have the ability to finalize ideas make many exchanges of information. 100) People who have spiritual values have great chances of achieving outstanding performances. 101) We can meet favorable situations when we do not expect it to. 102) The desire to succeed in life is a very great impulse to achieve something. 103) Those who passionately live their life will mostly succeed in achieving many accomplishments. 104) A neat aspect must always be
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promoted, supported, appreciated, respected and rewarded. 105) A quiet and reserved man has great chances of maintaining a happy marriage. 106) A broad horizon must always be promoted, supported, appreciated, respected and rewarded. 107) An honest man is appreciated, respected and esteemed by other people. 108) An intelligent man also acts for the greater good. 109) A man with a broad horizon mostly has a global thinking. 110) Responsibility in any action is a necessity. 111) A responsible man more easily achieves many social relations. 112) A competent man has great possibilities of achieving effective codevelopments. 113) Fatigue reduces our functions a lot.
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114) A man with imagination many times also makes exchanges of information. 115) A man with courage makes many friends. 116) A man with self control efficiently manages his time. 117) Many times responsibility is the key of many successes. 118) People with tact know how to succeed in life. 119) People who are forgiving know how to maintain a true mature love. 120) People with good mood very easily succeed in achieving many social relations. 121) Creative people are engines of progress in all areas of activity. 122) People who are polite are also kind. 123) People who are in love are usually more cheerful. 124) Communicative people have more
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and greater chances to achieve successes. 125) Industrious people mostly know how to motivate other people. 126) People who help others must be appreciated, respected, esteemed and rewarded. 127) People who help others have great chances of achieving efficient co operations. 128) Those who wander without an objective in life have no way of achieving outstanding performances. 129) The ambition to act effectively that people have helps us contribute a lot to achieving a more beautiful life. 130) Mans need to succeed is a powerful engine of progress in all areas of activity. 131) Mans need for safety makes many men not take chances. 132) A full compatibility of training with the objectives is achieved also through
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efficient accomplishments of social reality. 133) An excellent physical health helps us a lot to achieve a happy marriage. 134) A balanced marriage helps us a lot to achieve efficient co operations. 135) A non hostile but aggressive behavior helps us increase our credibility. 136) Working in teams of people with similar values helps us a lot to make exchanges of information. 137) Working in teams of people with similar values helps us a lot in achieving our personal objectives. 138) Advanced education contributes a lot to achieving the greater good. 139) Advanced education facilitates the exchange of information. 140) Advanced education contributes and facilitates the creation of true friendships. 141) Self imposed discipline contributes
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a lot to achieving the future. 142) Self imposed discipline helps us and contributes a lot to finding our suited partner for life. 143) The big desire to succeed contributes a lot in achieving some effective co operations. 144) The big desire to succeed contributes a lot in preventing many failures. 145) The big desire to succeed contributes a lot in achieving a more beautiful life. 146) Those who prefer uncontrolled positive activism have great chances and potential to become happy. 147) Those who prefer uncontrolled positive activism have an even greater power. 148) Those who are preoccupied with creating an optimal cooperation in a team
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make many exchanges of information. 149) Those who are preoccupied with creating an optimal cooperation in a team have the quality, the great potential and chances to achieve true friendships. 150) Those who are emotionally balanced have a greater potential and more chances to prevent many mistakes. 151) A wider area of interests increases the potential and chances of achieving our personal goals. 152) Human communication is good for our health. 153) Those who have efficient communication have more chances to succeed in life. 154) Efficient communication contributes a lot to maintaining social relations. 155) Efficient communication contributes a lot to achieving true
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friendships. 156) Efficient human communication contributes a lot to preventing many human mistakes. 157) Efficient human communication contributes a lot in achieving effective global co operations. 158) The sense of responsibility contributes a lot in achieving some correct social relations. 159) The sense of responsibility contributes a lot in achieving a happy marriage. 160) The sense of responsibility increases our chances to meet more favorable situations. 161) Those who have organizational sense make many exchanges of information. 162) Organizational sense helps us a lot to achieve a beautiful life.
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163) Organizational sense contributes a lot in achieving more and greater successes. 164) Organizational sense must be appreciated, promoted, supported and rewarded. 165) Organizational sense contributes a lot in achieving global co operations. 166) A winners mentality prevents many mistakes. 167) The lack of neurotic symptoms helps us achieve outstanding performances. 168) The lack of neurotic symptoms helps us become more efficient. 169) Those who build their life on rationally conscious bases prevent many mistakes. 170) Those who build a life on rationally conscious bases become more effective. 171) Those who build a life on a
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rationally conscious base must be appreciated, promoted, thanked and rewarded. 172) Those who have the sense of efficiency are also economic. 173) Those who have the sense of efficiency contribute a lot to achieving the greater good. 174) Those who have the sense of efficiency prevent many failures. 175) Those who possess the ability to dissociate emotions from their responsibilities have a great ability to achieve a more beautiful life. 176) Those who possess the ability to dissociate emotions from their responsibilities have more chances and a greater potential to contribute more to many global co operations. 177) Those who cherish their collaborators have a greater potential to
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achieve happiness. 178) Those who value their collaborators have a greater potential to maintain their marriage happy. 179) Those who voluntarily assume certain risks only when they have an increased chance of reaching their objective have a greater potential to achieve their desired future. 180) Those who voluntarily take certain risks only when they have an increased chance of reaching their objective have more chances to find the suited partner for life. 181) A low tolerance for personal imperfections helps us a lot to achieve effective co operations. 182) A low tolerance for personal imperfections helps us a lot to achieve true friendships. 183) Sometimes luck only appears
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because of efficient co-developments. 184) Sometimes luck appears only because of our efficiency. 185) Sometimes luck appears only because we have a character. 186) The more qualities we have the more chances we have to be lucky. 187) Efficiency many times brings us luck. 188) Exchanges of information bring us luck many times. 189) Experience often brings us luck. 190) Successes most often bring us luck. 191) A happy marriage brings us luck many times. 192) Unfortunately enormously many people do not to give the importance, the attention or the time needed for a true marriage. 193) The creative man has much more chances and a higher potential to achieve
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more and greater successes. 194) The greater good prevents many conflicts. 195) The participation of more people in achieving the greater good is beneficial for the entire human race. 196) Young man should participate all together in achieving the greater good. 197) Young men have an enormous amount of energy that can contribute greatly with enormous immediate positive effects to solving all local or general problems of mankind. 198) Young people need and must be very careful not to make the same mistakes as their predecessors by taking from their experience only positive models and experience. 199) The Internet is an unimaginable force that can and must contribute to its full capacity in achieving progress in all
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fields of activity. 200) States need and must assure access to the Internet for all its citizens. 201) The desire to succeed many times contributes to achieving many positive forces. 202) The desire to succeed brings luck many times. 203) Positive deeds sometimes bring luck. 204) Organization sometimes brings luck. 205) A man full of life is very often lucky. 206) A man involved in many projects has many chances of getting lucky. 207) Careful men have fewer failures. 208) Balanced men make fewer mistakes. 209) Professional people have fewer failures. 210) Responsible people make fewer
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mistakes. 211) Curious people are more creative. 212) Curious people are usually more efficient. 213) Organized people make fewer mistakes. 214) An efficient man has fewer failures. 215) An unrealistic man makes more mistakes. 216) The lack of responsibility leads to many tragedies. 217) The lack of responsibility many times produces troubles for those who are irresponsible. 218) Unfortunately there are still enormously many people in functions with high responsibilities but who unfortunately prove much irresponsibility. 219) Self control can be obtained through experiences, through training, through imitation, through study, etc.
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220) An agile man makes fewer mistakes. 221) An agile man has fewer failures. 222) An agile man succeeds to come out good from complicated situations. 223) An agile man knows how to prevent conflicts. 224) An agile man knows how to rapidly solve many problems. 225) An agile man knows how to prevent many arguments. 226) Those who are very honest are much appreciated. 227) Those who have hopes will have successes. 228) Hope creates good humor. 229) Hope creates confidence in the future. 230) Hopes are engines of progress in all areas of activity. 231) Positive personal goals are other
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peoples energies in achieving a positive force. 232) Positive personal goals are more easily and quickly achieved by those with the sense of efficiency. 233) Positive personal objectives are achieved much faster by those with the sense of efficiency. 234) Positive personal objectives are faster and more easily and much faster achieved by those who are agile. 235) Positive personal objectives are more easily and much faster achieved by those who have a greater ability to face mental stress. 236) Positive personal objectives are more easily and faster achieved by those who have a great desire to succeed. 237) Positive personal goals are more easily and much faster achieved by those who work with commitment.
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238) A pessimistic man has fewer and smaller achievements than the optimistic one. 239) An efficient man is more optimistic than an inefficient man. 240) Efficiency must be appreciated, promoted, supported and rewarded. 241) AGC mediations help us achieve a happy marriage. 242) AGC mediations help us maintain a happy marriage. 243) AGC mediations help us raise and educate our children better. 244) AGC mediations help us take more care of our children. 245) AGC mediations help us each achieve what we desire. 246) AGC mediations help us each achieve a more prosperous life. 247) AGC mediations reflect a minimal part of reality.
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248) AGC mediations reflect a part of what should be good in a reality. 249) AGC mediations reflect on what should be inter-human relations. 250) Our time is of fortune given for free. 251) Our time is most of the times used insufficiently enough by most of us. 252) Our time can be used more efficiently if we have this as our personal goal. 253) Increasing the more useful usage of our time must be a personal goal of ours for as long as we live. 254) Unfortunately, a lot of people still do not have as a personal goal the efficient management of their time. 255) Those who have succeeded in more efficiently using their time have managed to achieve more and greater successes. 256) Those who succeed in more
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efficiently using their time must become models for us. 257) The models of more effectively using our time must become models for us. 258) Those who succeed to more effectively use their personal time must be appreciated. 259) Those who succeed to more effectively use their personal time must be supported. 260) Those who succeed to more effectively use their personal time must be rewarded. 261) Those who succeed to more effectively use their personal time must be encouraged. 262) Those who succeed to more effectively use their personal time must be given a workplace corresponding to their efficiency.
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263) Human errors can be prevented most of the times. 264) Human errors must be prevented. 265) Human errors create more breaks in achieving progress in all areas of activity. 266) Human errors can be prevented through experience. 267) Human errors must always be prevented. 268) Loftiness must be prevented. 269) Loftiness can be prevented. 270) Loftiness stops the achievement of friendships.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-15-4

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