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VOLUME 3 | NUMBER 4
Editorial
oung love, sometimes anguished, sometimes euphoric, is probably the most complex of all relationships. This issue of Youth Hong Kong explores young relationships by speaking to four couples from very diverse backgrounds. Readers can enjoy the wry comments of a young mainland writer discussing expectations, and find out more about difficult relationships. There are case studies and statistics from surveys done by HKFYG and other organizations indicating trends and changing attitudes. We also examine the new phenomena of online and speed dating as well as special features of dating in Hong Kong. We hope you will enjoy this Christmas issue, not entirely lighthearted, and be reminded of your own experiences. Please feel free to write in and let us know what you think. As we wind down the year, allow me to wish you, on behalf of everyone at Youth Hong Kong, all blessings for the Season and a Happy New Year!
Overview
December 2011
It's so easy, To think about love, To talk about love, To wish for love, But it's not always easy, To recognize love, Even when we hold it In our hands. Victor Hugo
Changing attitudes
Most local young people in their 20s are quite worldly-wise and surveys done this year show attitudes to partners are changing, especially in women. Young women here used to have the reputation of caring more about money than good looks in partners and more about a potential partners career prospects than his demonstrativeness, but intriguing figures show that this is less and less true. A survey4 of the 26-40 age group found that 45% of Hong Love padlocks
Later dating
Hong Kongs post-80s generation is more relaxed about relationship choices than their parents were but their first experiences with girlfriends and boyfriends come quite late. Many students spend spare time studying instead of dating, in sharp contrast with the West where falling in and out of love is a normal part of growing up and the majority of teens not only date but have sex too.1
Young people are in no great hurry... they care about shared values and attitudes
Kong women would now consider dating a man who earns less than themselves although over two-thirds expect the man to pay on the first date. When it comes to looks, again attitudes are changing. 25% of
By mid-way through Hong Kong secondary school, most teenagers know about the mechanics of sex but only about a twelfth are sexually experienced, according to the Hong Kong Family Planning Association.2 counterparts. Teens say they lack information on how to cope with real life relationships.3 In this way they share views with their overseas
men here say they would end a relationship if their partner became overweight or obese but the vast majority of Hong Kong women are more tolerant, saying they would standby their man, thick or thin, if they really loved him. Surprise findings in another recent report5 revealed that 50% of over 500 women aged 18-40 were fine with premarital sex and 40% said they had sex when unmarried. [For more statistics generated by HKFYG surveys, see pages 24-27.]
Overview
Cross-border demographics
Hong Kong young peoples choice of partners is extended because of the proximity of mainland China. Young men have tended to look towards China for a possible bride, believing women there to be more submissive. However, recent studies reveal that young locals are no longer predominantly predisposed to seek mainland partners.6 They say that differences in lifestyle and personality are a disincentive. 40% of 26-30 year-olds say they are willing to marry someone from across the border but 47% are not.7 However, women seek partners in China because there are more men there. The ratio of women to men in Hong Kong in 2010 was 1000:881.
The young couples interviewed for this issue of Youth Hong Kong say that reciprocity is important in their relationships. Some traditional attitudes to marriage and children persist but the city is following a world-wide trend when it comes to finding the right person. Young people are in no great hurry to saddle themselves with families. They care about shared values and attitudes. Some are more conservative than others, but the majority want to enjoy their freedom while they can. ?
Sources 1 Manning, WD. Adolescents involvement in non-romantic sexual activity. Social Science Research 24 (2005): 384-407. 2 The Family Planning Association of Hong Kong. Report of Youth Sexuality Study 2006. FPAHK, 2009. This survey is conducted every 5 years. The 2011 survey is now underway. 3 Hong Kongs Education Bureau plans to implement a new subject on interpersonal relationships. http://www.edb.gov.hk/FileManager/EN/Content_3241/l&s_curriculum_guide_eng.pdf 4 Survey of over 1,895 people in Hong Kong, Singapore and Malaysia, August-September 2011. 450 respondents were from Hong Kong, nearly 80% aged 26- 40, over 86% were degree holders, over 90% had never been married. http://fasttrack.hk/mini-blogs/what-short-men-spurned-in-hong-kong 5 Lau, S. Premarital sex shows signs of casting off taboo. South China Morning Post 15 October 2011. 6 Hong Kong Institute of Education Roundtable and Powersoft Consultancy survey. April-May, 2011. 724 respondents aged 16-35. http://www.ied.edu.hk/fas/news/IEdFAS-RC%20Youth%20 Monthly%20Survey_Topic%203.pdf [in Chinese] Reports by Deng, A. China Daily Clips. http://www.cdeclips.com/en/hongkong/fullstory.html?id=66934 and Lee, S. The Standard. 1 June 2011. 7 Fei, M. China Daily Clips. 25 October 2011. http://www.cdeclips.com/en/hongkong/Anyone_got_a_match/fullstory_70044.html http://www-news.uchicago.edu/releases/06/images/060419.sex.pdf
Highlights
December 2011
"Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, and half shut afterwards." Benjamin Franklin
HKFYG has conducted several surveys on relationships, including online dating. Findings are highlighted on pages 24-27.
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Ambivalence online
Online dating is the internet equivalent of personal ads in the newspapers. Given its apparent potential to match up ideal couples, its popularity is hardly surprising. Some companies claim over 80% probability of success. The number of Hongkongers who say they have tried some form of online dating is climbing. Among the under 40s, its up from 36% in 2010 to 43% in 2011, significantly higher than in a current major US survey, where 21% of 18-24 year-olds and 32% of 25-34 year-olds say they have used a dating website. 1 However, as one young commentator said, everyone I know who has got involved with someone they met online would say it was a huge disappointment. After all, who is going to put their worst pictures online? The whole time I did online dating I made sure I looked really gorgeous in all my pictures.
As an aficionado writes, Its fun and helps you get rid of your inhibitions. But when I first went to do karaoke with my boyfriend I had to keep his comfort level in mind. I didnt really know if he was interested in singing or was just being polite when I suggested it. I told him it was fine as a spectator sport too but that the main thing was that we could be alone, in our space for once At the vast majority of karaoke clubs, sometimes known as K-boxes in Hong Kong, you can rent a private room and croon love songs with your girlfriend or boyfriend. Think of the opportunities it offers for expressing all sorts of emotions, from break-ups to unrequited love. In a city where space and privacy are at a premium, this kind of dating has really taken off.
One 2009 survey3 found over 60% young people met friends via discussion forums, instant messaging or social networking sites. Amongst them, a fifth said they would form an intimate sexual relationship with an online friend. Young people tend to seek fun and fantasy in love relationships which may explain this.
Men and women who date online frequently lie, according to a 2011 survey2 of 1,000 singles commissioned by the online dating community. 58% of the respondent women lied about their looks and 20% used old photographs to make themselves look younger. 32% lied about their jobs to make themselves seem more glamorous. Over 40% of men were also inclined to lie about their jobs and their appearance.
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A young correspondent commented: The speed dating event I joined was organized by a psychologist who used scientific matchmaking. A screening process selected compatible partners according to factors such as education, income, height and habits. There were also ice-breaking games which put like people together according to their drawings. Because Hong Kong has far more eligible females than males, some of the boys were fake candidates. They were actually friends of the organizer. I would give this experience a mixed rating. It was fun to meet different kinds of people but I wouldnt say it could lead to my next romance. Words of advice, if you try it, go in with an open mind. Dont be on a mission to find Mr or Miss Right. After all, you and science cant hurry love.
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Up to date on ICQ
ICQ has been in and out of fashion with young people but the latest smartphone app for ICQ (I seek you) has brought it back into the limelight. The fact that ICQ, especially on smartphones, allows intimacy to develop in private, with relative ease, gives it definite appeal. The dense living conditions of Hong Kong are, again, a significant factor. However, a report on adolescent use of ICQ published in 20095, notes that dating and intimacy on ICQ often involved lying, as did online dating in general, but that the vast majority of the participants were aware of this and enjoyed using multiple identities, as long as they did not meet face-to-face. One of them recounted: My friend searched on ICQ for a girl to be his girlfriend. He went to meet her and asked me to go with him. He was so excited. Both of them held a red flower [to recognize one another]. Before dating, they had sent their photos to each other. She was quite beautiful. However, the girl we met was not like the one in the photoWhen my friend saw he threw the flower away and we left
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Photo by Piedra Lubitsch (Flickr/ Creative Commons)
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I like hanging out with my friends theres nothing to be jealous about, no other girls.
Thomas We laugh at the same things and we get on well. We both love good design and the arts. We both wanted to be qualified designers when we were at school, but I thought it was more rational to study finance and earn more. May Thomas is trying hard to save. We dont have a joint bank account or a shared saving plan. Im not ready for that. He is the one who thinks about our future and stability. I prefer to stay focused on how we are today.
Thomas I like hanging out with my friends and going for a drink. Theres nothing to be jealous about, no other girls, but May wants to spend the entire weekend with me. I have to give her a few weeks notice if I want to go out on my own! I think thats a bit immature.
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Thomas We havent talked much about marriage and Im not as family-oriented as May. Im always expected to go to her familys gatherings but I feel embarrassed because I dont have much to say and I dont think Mays mother likes me. She likes to control.
Thomas I love my freedom now but in the long term, I want a family. I think its natural. Friends dont care about you in the same way as a partner. They have their own lives. May Sometimes I dont feel easy about having a boyfriend who
May Mum is a single-parent. Shes afraid Ill get into bad company and she doesnt want me to date when I am studying. She accepts Thomas now but I know she wouldnt like it if we lived together. Actually, I dont want to share a flat with him yet. I think I should save something for marriage. We do sleep together sometimes but I dont think our relationship would last if we moved in together.
spends so much time with his friends. Im always afraid he will meet someone else. If he cheats me, Ill leave him. As a child from a singleparent family, this is my Achilles' heel. If you cheat, I leave. I know I kind of hold back. It takes me a long time before I trust a person, especially a boy. It is difficult for me to fall in love but Thomas makes me feel safe. I do trust him but marriage is still a big decision. May Thomas May May Thomas Thomas Thomas Thomas May
Thomas graduated in 2011 and now has a job in a bank. May is still studying part-time and works on a magazine. They first met each other while at school.
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William and Quinny met when studying social sciences at Lingnan University in Hong Kong. That was in 2004. They didnt start dating for another two years. Five years later, they explained how their relationship grew. Early days
Quinny When we met I had about six or seven different suitors. They proposed, but I turned them all down! I chose William because he seemed a very good person. William It was different for me. I had a car accident in 2003 and lost my memory. It made me worry about losing other things, and people. In fact, Quinny was my first date. That was when we were both 22. The way she looked really attracted me. Quinny As time goes by, its not always so easy to share all your problems. It depends on your partners reaction. I used to complain to William about work. He said I should quit if I felt like that. But it wasnt so simple. I was sharing my feelings, not a rational thought process. So I stopped complaining, even though I felt the same. William Instead of talking, Quinny writes about how she feels. Just a William We did a Gender Studies joint project about equal opportunities together and realised we shared core values, even though its not possible to be completely equal. Quinny Actually, Im quite conventional in some ways. I think a man should support the family. Ive always wanted a financially stable husband who is older than me. You see, there are some ways in which I dont want total equality! note on a card, usually with a picture. I keep all of them. Thats how she tells me about her life and it helps me understand if shes been angry.
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Good communications
William The best thing about being long-term partners is learning more about each other all the time. Relationships are like gardens. If you want them to flourish you have to nourish them every day. That means communicating daily. Actually Quinny tells me I say too much sometimes!
We believe in reciprocity.
Resolving differences
Quinny I write the cards but I dont expect any solution!! His answers to my problems are sometimes too rational. William I have to admit that I think men and women are different in this way, but there are never simple rights and wrongs in a relationship. Nobody is perfect. You work things out. Thats how you get comfortable with each other. Quinny We come from different backgrounds and have different points of view. We cant always expect total agreement. But we always resolve arguments within 24 hours. If we disagree we say sorry the next morning after a good nights sleep.
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Being organized
Quinny Well both carry on working after were married though. Having a family is like running a business. You have to be well organized as well as loving. William Love is also about self-sacrifice. You have to be able to think from the other persons perspective and know how to say sorry. This is central to our relationship.
Relationships are like gardens. If you want them to flourish you have to nourish them every day.
William It may seem abnormal, but thats how our relationship has developed. It doesnt mean we dont show affection. Ive learned how much simple human touch means. Quinny Parents are a big influence on behaviour. Mine are not very demonstrative, either in words or gesture, but you can still sense the relationship between them and their awareness of each others needs.
Planning ahead
William Weve decided to get married next year and two years later well think about children. After the wedding, we plan to live with my parents. Quinny We might live together for just a few months before we get married. I think that would be different from simple cohabitation because we would have already decided to marry. William In my 5-year plan, the family is central. It comes ahead of my career. My father told me that the greatest success a man can have in the world is to have his own family.
William Chan and Quinny Li are both Dragon Foundation alumni. William is currently the chairman of DragoNation, the foundations alumni association. He gave a touching presentation to a 2,000-strong audience when announcing his engagement. However, the couple say they would prefer a quiet wedding.
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Cultured partners
Hong Kongs melting pot of cultures has always been a fertile place for young people from different countries to meet. In this interview, Youth Hong Kong discovers what brought one such couple together. They explain the glue that keeps them that way and how they became acculturated. How it began
Lewis is from Italy and Carmen is from Hong Kong. Both in their 20s, they knew of each other through alumni groups. They were both at the same overseas school but at different times. Lewis We met when I was in Hong Kong on business. I knew that Carmen was working at the Hong Kong Maritime Museum and went there to seek her out. The first thing that struck me was her sheer happiness. I found that very attractive. Not just her looks, but her personality. I found her a very beautiful person. Carmen I was feeling very confident then, about opportunities and the future. I had just finished one relationship and wasnt yet ready for another. What attracted me to Lewis was his kind-heartedness and how thoughtful he was of others. We had such good conversations and I knew he would make a really good friend. I also found the way he kept pursuing me very attractive. He never gave up! Lewis I think the language issue will intervene when we have children. I would not like them to be brought up with English as their mother tongue because they would speak it at a different level to me and Carmen. Its also important for our children to be fluent in Cantonese and Italian. Carmen The fact that Lewis is Italian is important because I lived in Italy and understand the culture and its classical history. English is a shared second language for both of us and although Im not fluent in Italian, nor is Lewis in Cantonese, there is only a very small gap in our English.
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Shared attitudes
Lewis Both of us have had other partners from different cultures, so a cross cultural relationship was nothing really new. We are familiar with each others background and I think I know how Hong Kong works better than Carmen does. However, we share the same attitudes and values about partners, children, work and family.
cultural roots, when there is an accident, a small problem, or things dont go according to plan. My upbringing means I try to avoid mistakes like that. Lewis There is a cultural divide here. If you make mistakes or break the rules in Italy its not a big deal. Its different here. Ive also realized, when thinking about continuing to live here, that I do not want to raise children outside a normal democratic society, nor in a place where they lack much direct contact with nature.
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Carmen I dont feel so strongly about democracy or mother tongue issues, but I do want my children to have the things I didnt have. I remain very strongly attached to my core family here, but I think Hong Kong people in general are very narrow-minded. Hong Kong does not have enough cultural diversity.
Carmen Personally, Im not a big fan of marriage! I see us getting married one day but it doesnt have great meaning for me and the idea of marriage rituals puts me off. Parties, yes. Photos? No. Lewis Most of the rituals of engagement and marriage dont make any sense to either of us. Social standing is not an issue. Respect and sincerity are, plus agreement on marriage and children. We will probably get married when we have children. Carmen We both expect to carry on working. Im very attached to my work, professionally and personally, but children might change that. Feeling comfortable together is important, as are shared passion and sexual fulfillment. Love is most important of all.
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And next?
Carmen We have no burdens, no children, no worries and a good income. Because we dont feel Hong Kong is permanent theres no urgent wish to own more property here. If we raised children here and needed somewhere bigger, wed rent. Lewis We agree that the best age for marriage is late 20s or early 30s. For us marriage is only important because of children. I think it makes more difference to women than men because of the legal security and the public affirmation.
Carmen and Lewis went to the United World College (UWC) of the Adriatic near Trieste. It is one of few schools in Italy with English as a working language. Entry to the school is by merit alone, with no private or fee-paying students.
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An education in romance?
This story from our mainland correspondent paints a picture with parallels for young Hong Kong people now in their 20s. With wry humour, he sets the scene, complete with its frustrations and embarrassments. Yet he concludes theres a chance of a different story for the next generation.
Good chance of failure What has been the outcome of this process? If you accept that self-knowledge through self-exploration has, for the majority, a great chance of failure, you also have to accept that on the Chinese mainland today, with its large population of young people, massive failure is possible. But before I go more deeply into all the negative aspects, lets look at some of the typical
by Shen Weihuang
December 2011
heard as often as you hear the word hello, was that girlfriends would ruin our chances of academic success. Personally, I found this was perfectly true because my own studies really did go nowhere when I started dating. However, my parents never explained the underlying reasons behind their advice. There was no logical connection between cause and effect. As a result it sounded as if they Pathway to Eternal Love, Hua Shan, Shaanxi Province Ambiguous chitchat Thinking about my own recent past, Ive come to the conclusion that so-called parent-and-child talk about relationships is basically nothing but pointless, ambiguous chitchat. I believe many young people of my age have had the same experience of enlightenment about romance. So, without pride, Id say we learned it all ourselves, through a process of self-exploration. Too young The second most important reason that parents and teachers gave you for not starting relationships was as familiar then as the boss, shouting at work is now. were giving an unreasonable order rather than good, sensible guidance.
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Youre too young! Theoretically, it was also true. We can never grow up in our parents eyes. Ironically, most of the people of the same generation as my parents got married when they were much younger than parents of my age today. Don't come back! The two reasons above could never match this one. It was the solution to everything. It meant that many budding flowers of love flew away gone with the wind. This reason was a threat even to your home comforts Well never let you come back home if you do xxxx; never again.
bad reason, it resulted in great pressure, and it meant that our parents and teachers paid great attention to what we said and did.
Bad debts Once you combine bad sex education with secret relationships, you get social headaches: unwanted pregnancies, abortion, and all the associated psychological problems. And the truth is, although the
Combine bad sex education with secret relationships and you get social headaches: unwanted pregnancies, abortion, and all the associated psychological problems.
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problems for teenagers are now at last being faced, debts of ignorance have already been accumulated. The debts are so big, that I really dont know whether we can pay them off. What next? All those notions we accepted as teenagers totally disappeared when we went to university. Suddenly, there was an explosion of freedom. We could choose our own lifestyle and start a relationship. Even though our parents were still talking about things we shouldnt do, they changed their tone from forbiddance to suggestion. Learning the ropes At university, freshmen start seeking their own way to love. Lack of education makes it hard. First, we had to try to re-establish a healthy attitude, all by ourselves. But how? You could no longer send a love letter or say, I like you face to face. The magic internet played a crucial role. It made it easy to find out how to date a girl, but the cold facts couldnt be applied in real life. So we started from nowhere, desperate to know the ropes and use them to pull ourselves closer to love. But these virtual ropes trapped us. They dragged us down into sadness where we felt lost.
Empty threats Now, we all know how ridiculous such a threat really was. Seldom would any parent actually carry it out. But in our innocent teenage years we believed it. It was really a big deal to be told we could be thrown out of house and home. We, who had grown up spoiled, always getting everything we wanted easily, for nothing, had never really thought seriously about having to look after ourselves one day. Some of us might have fought back, perhaps even saying, OK, I never will come back then. Few ever actually did so.
17-year-old student being found out, being censored by their parents and teachers for their relationship status, even though it was just human nature. I have seen many such under-the-table couples being forced to write jian cha (a written confession) after being reported by students and parents, or found out by teachers. I remember those couples faces, depressed and guilty. So how does the story end? Academic study back on the pedestal again. Misleading sex education A more serious
Secrets, secrets There were other threats, and many of them were used to perfect effect on us, young souls. Under such pressure, its hard to believe how we could have ever formed a healthy concept of relationships. As a result we got into some bad practices. For example, many high school students, and some middle school students, kept their dating secret. Whether it was for a good or a
side to the problem of twisted education about relationships concerns safe sex, or even how to have sex. We did have lessons of this kind in school, but basically they made things seem more weird, more unclear than ever. Teachers never really explained, and students never asked. Even now, surveys indicate that many mainland teenagers get their sex education from porn movies.
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The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end. Benjamin Disraeli
December 2011
Failed romance How did we manage? The most useful information seemed to come from those who had failed in relationships. They could have been ourselves, but how many of us were willing to share our experiences? I think the number was very small. Luckily enough, we had four years to learn, but I give a big round of applause to all those who succeeded, before they got yet another lesson in romance, Chinese-style. Marriage conditions After graduating, the issue of marriage becomes inevitable. As I understand it, marriage is based on two people who love and understand each other, not houses, cars and money. Unfortunately, the last three conditions have become the top three concerns for marriage. Its as if we are doomed. All over? At this point, our main education in romance is nearly over. The only task left is choosing a partner. That decision will govern the next 10 to 30 years of happiness. Passing on lessons The only question now is how to present the subject of love to our children? Will we carry on the same tradition as our parents? Or will we tell a different story. Lets wait and think about it carefully and peacefully. Lets try to see clearly before we have to start offering the next generation our own children an education in romance.
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Will we carry on the same tradition as our parents? Or will we tell a different story?
Road block ahead Sadly, we are overwhelmed by such ideas. Given the soaring prices and barely changing salaries, if we still want to marry a wonderful wife or husband and live happily after, without getting help from our parents or doing anything illegal, it seems we need great Buddhist faith and patience to help us. Even if we had used our four golden university years to acquire the right attitude, it would be hard to preserve in the face of a real-life road block ahead like this.
But lets look at the divorce rate. Beijing, Shanghai and Shenzhen rank as the top three for divorce in China according to a 2010 survey conducted by a national government organization. The percentage has grown more than 5 to 7 times in the last decade. Many made the wrong decision. Accumulating assets Those born in mainland China in the 70s and 80s will all have encountered such problems as these. We didnt have much option, but our children will. Many analysts say my generation is a wealth-accumulating generation. The reasons are reduced birth rate and growing personal assets. These will make our children far less worried about houses and money than we are.
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Brooke and Terry met about a year ago. They both admit that their family and friends do not really support their relationship and they find this difficult. We feel marginalized by society and face huge pressures, said Brooke, with intolerance and lack of understanding most difficult to cope with. However the young women say that with the support and understanding of each other, they manage. Terry believes that it is harder for single sex couples to make their relationships last than it is for opposite sex couples. Both agree that trusting and accepting each other, faults and all, is crucial just as it is for all couples.* Attitudes changing significantly according to Hong Kong Family Planning Association survey findings Acceptance among youth of other peoples various forms of sexual behaviour in Hong Kong was one of the attitudes included in the latest Report of Youth Sexuality Study published by the HK FPA in 2009. A significant trend of increasing acceptance of public shows of affection between partners of all orientations was identified.
Being sincere and tolerant of different opinions, just feeling comfortable are essential for me. Shared passions and common interests are important to both of us. But in my view a good relationship means, most of all, the end of loneliness, concluded Brooke. *New Hong Kong survey: agreement on relationships across diverse couples Young people value trust above all other aspects of love, according tour interviewees with these four very different couple, and according to survey results published in Hong Kong in December 2011. Over 3,200 secondary students, aged 1223, between October and November were asked about their perceptions of love. Among 39 traits, the youngsters rated trust, consideration, loyalty, good communication and honesty as the most important. Brooke and Terry, interviewed above, mirror these attitudes, also stressing the importance of trust, sincerity and good communication, as do our other interviewees in this section.
Source Church of United Brethren in Christ social service division survey. http://www.thestandard.com.hk/news_detail.asp?we_cat=4&art_ id=117657&sid=34665501&con_type=1&d_str=20111205&fc=1
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by cutting his name on their skin. By talking to each girl separately, we discovered that they all came from single-parent families. They admitted that they were looking for a male to give them attention and affection, a new experience for them. They shared their feelings with the other girls in various ways, including writing in an online forum. In class, the boy had no idea how to deal with them and treated them all as normal students, but if one of the girls went near him, the others couldnt stand it and reacted as jealous rivals. The boy had been their target. They were hoping for an idealistic happily ever after outcome, based on an immature understanding of relationships that had been gleaned from comics, television, books and student peers. Mei
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We understood that not only did they lack a male role model, they also had inadequate understanding of human relations and general sex education. Unfortunately, in many schools, this type of scenario is fairly common. Our response was to discuss love and sex education with the whole class and try to help the individual girls deal with the pain of a broken family.
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It took a while, but Yee finally realized that her infatuation was short-lived and that she had a lot more to learn, both in terms of relationships, and about herself. We have seen similar cases in other schools where same-sex infatuations are a normal part of growing up.
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Amy is 18. She came to us seeking information about contraception, saying she had recently broken up with her boyfriend after becoming pregnant. Bit by bit, she revealed that the relationship had been based entirely on sex. Her boyfriend wanted sex with her all the time, in public toilets, in shopping malls. He even encouraged his friends to have sex with her, something Amy agreed to so that her boyfriend did not lose interest. As she talked, she came to understand that she behaved this way because she wanted to feel loved. She had assumed that love meant being available for sex any time, any place. She described her difficult background, her absent father and needy siblings and came to realize that she was substituting sexually risky behaviour with a man who didnt care for her. Now, hurt but thinking more clearly, she is trying to recover her own sense of self-worth.
One night he hit her. Thats when Corrine moved out. She went to live with her parents, but Joe would not let go. He even climbed up a drain-pipe and broke into Corrines parents flat. The neighbours saw him and raised the alarm, stopping short of calling the police only when he said he was the son-in-law. Joe tried everything in his power to persuade Corrine to come back to him. He swore the stress of married life had made him hit her. He said he was committed to saving his marriage and willing to seek outside help. But Corrine told him that she wanted a divorce. She believed Joe would trap her and that her elderly parents would not be able to protect her. With neither side willing to compromise, but neither ready to give up entirely, Corrine needed to talk.
The only advice that can be given to these two young people who entered into a marriage hastily is not to end it with the same haste. Neither Joe have changed their minds. Corrine wants divorce and Corrine Joe does not.
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While Amys case might be considered extreme, we are finding more and more young people who are willing to have sex in order to maintain relationships, often with people they know are not good for them.
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Having a child involves difficult adjustments for most couples. Social workers suggested that the grandmother might take Justin back to his parents home and sometimes cook, thus reducing Jennas burdens. Jimmy said he would try to be a more active father and help with household chores.
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Young peoples views on these complex subjects are collected by HKFYG on a regular basis. The charts on pages 24-25 represent opinions of over 1,650 secondary students at 31 schools sampled from 22 November 3 December 2010.1 The remaining charts are based on data collected in surveys of 15-39 year-olds for HKFYGs Youth Trends in Hong Kong 2011.2
As the festive season approaches many young people with no partner often feel left out of all the fun. Over 60% said they craved an opportunity to party, with over 50% hoping to go out all night. About 9% said they would feel embarrassed if they didnt have a date and about 19% said it would boost their confidence if they did.
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In some western countries, a quarter of people in their 30s are cohabiting or have always been single. In South Asia and China marriage is a fact of life for 98% of men and women. Even though marriage takes place later and the fertility rate is very low in Hong Kong, traditional attitudes to child-bearing persist. Couples tend to have children soon after getting married. Delaying marriage is therefore a way of delaying the responsibilities of parenthood.
The mean age for marriage in Hong Kong is steadily rising. It is now 29-30 for women and 30-33 for men, several years later than in America where the average is 26 for women and 28 for men. The
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In 2010, 27% of all Hong Kong women their early 30s were single.5 The same was true of over 30% of all Japanese women of that age. 37% of all Taiwanese 30-34 year-old women were single. Changing marriage patterns reflect increased autonomy for women in Asia. They have more education and therefore more jobs. On the other hand, in mainland China there is the phenomenon of guang gun (bare branches) men who will not marry because sex-selective abortion has resulted in fewer women than men.
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Attitudes to premarital sex and intimacy have changed markedly in Hong Kong youngsters in the past 15 years. This phenomenon has been reported in surveys by The Family Planning Association of Hong Kong,6 and is corroborated by the HKFYG polls. A global study7 of attitudes and sexual well-being in 29 countries, including Hong Kong, found that there was a consistently low level of sexual well-being in Asian countries. In Hong Kong, sex rated less important for well being than in any other country.8
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Interview
Inspiring innovation
Innovation and technology, one of the six priority industries, holds the key to Hong Kongs future. Miss Janet Wong, Commissioner for Innovation and Technology, shared details with us of the initiatives implemented by the Innovation and Technology Commission to nurture a new generation of innovators for the city.
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InnoTech Month
The club, which was 440 members strong by August 2011, organizes interactive activities regularly, such as a future technology seminar series, a mentorship programme, summer camps and a technology ambassador programme. These activities help inspire students intellectual and career interest in science and technology. InnoTech Month (ITM) 2011, organized by ITC, featured a wide range of activities for the community, including technology-related roadshows, exhibitions, seminars, workshops, an industry conference and a large-scale carnival. HKFYG was a campaign partner of this anchor event. The highlight of ITM 2011 was the nine-day InnoCarnival at the Hong Kong Science Park held in November.
InnoCarnival 2011 offered a diverse array of activities such as exhibitions, an electric vehicle exhibition and test drive, interactive games, talks, workshops and guided tours. Members of the public could gain hands-on experience of the convenience and fun brought by innovation and technology to daily life. InnoCarnival 2011 concluded with a record-breaking number of over 180,000 participants, fully demonstrating Hong Kong peoples passion for and support of innovation and technology.
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Dr Rosanna Wong, Ms Elizabeth Tse, Miss Janet Wong, The Hon Greg So, The Hon Wong Ting-kwong with students at the InnoCarnival 2011
Organizations undertaking R&D projects funded by ITF, including local universities, the five R&D Centres, the Hong Kong Productivity Council and private sector companies, can join the programme and recruit interns as project assistants. For first degree holders, ITF provides a monthly allowance of HK$10,000. For those with Masters or higher degrees, the allowance increases to HK$12,000. As of October 2011, 920 intern positions have been approved under the programme with a total funding of HK$145 million.
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Guest column
by Shelley Lee
December 2011 You might think from the happy faces in the photo that the young people were enjoying their normal weekend escapades. In fact, along with 500 youngsters from Hong Kong, mainland China and 18 other countries, they were toiling away in a remote part of Taiwan in the heat of July, preparing a small clearing for farming. I accompanied them on this very interesting visit to Rinari, a born-again Christian community where we saw what sharing, sacrifice and service can really mean in today's world. The experience left me touched and the young people inspired. In August 2009, over 3,000 millimetres of rain fell in southern Taiwan during the 4-day passage of Typhoon Morakot. The floods displaced hundreds of people. In Pingtung County, over 1,400 millimetres of rain fell in 24 hours. 700 people died and 1,766 homes were destroyed. The Rinari community at Majia Farm in Pingtung County is now home to former residents of three destroyed villages, Haocha, Majia, and Dashe. Collaborative efforts of local government, private donors and volunteers resulted in the completion of, the Majia housing project in November 2011, now home to 300 indigenous families. Rinari was the original Paiwan name for the area where the community has been created as a result of the willingness of nearby villages to share their land with the unfortunate victims of rainstorm disaster. The name means The place we wait for happiness and connotes respectful acceptance of all the residents various cultures. With the help of World Vision, HKFYG Executive Director, Rosanna Wong, enabled the Dragon Foundation to fulfill its dream of raising a 1000-foot dragon in Taiwan, the final destination for the Dragon Series*, following Beijing, Shanghai, Hong Kong and Macau. But before this grand event, there was a lot of toil and sweat. Back in Taipei, the symbolic Dragon was raised and we fasted for charity We warned the students participating this years Dragon Series event that instead of visiting eminent universities they would be rolling up their sleeves and getting down to very basic service. Instead of eating in restaurants, they would be sharing farm-style lunchboxes with the locals. Instead of seminars in air-conditioned halls, they would be squatting down with picks and hoes, digging up pebbles to create arable land. I braced myself for the usual complaints, but none came. *For more, see Caring Dragons in Taiwan, Youth Hong Kong September 2011. at a 30-hour signature event of World Vision. Five months later, I find myself recalling with pride how a group of youngsters from Hong Kong and the rest of the world made a difference to the life of disaster victims not just with donations or pledges, but with an honest day's work. Instead, as I walked through the village, I saw beaming faces. Even in the drizzle that lasted all day, tireless energy emanated from the young volunteers, many of whom had travelled thousands of miles just a few days beforehand. By helping with the farming or housework, by teaching local children basic English or playing with them, Dragon 100 delegates and a team of other supportive secondary school students, showed what it means to offer service with good cheer. The village children warmed to them quickly and at the end of the day when it was time to say goodbye, we all chanted "RINARI, RINARI" with empathy and familiarity.
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NEIGHBOURHOOD First
This major community-building project, initiated by HKFYG and led by Hong Kong young people, aims to bring the community together and cherish a sense of neighbourhood, emphasizing the importance of civility and friendliness.
Neighbourhood First was launched on 18 December in Morse Park Amphitheatre with Guests of Honour The Hon WONG Yanlung, SC, JP, Secretary for Justice, HKSAR, and Mr Wang Zhi-min, Deputy Minister, Liaison Office of the Central Peoples Government of China in the HKSAR. 1,500 young people aged 14-35 have formed over fifty teams working throughout Hong Kong. Participants include youngsters from HKFYGs Youth SPOTs, Dragon Foundation programmes, Youth Support Scheme, Youth Outreaching Social Work Teams and the Centre for Leadership Development. This mobilization is only the beginning of a massive project which is destined to continue well into the future.
Neighbourhood Day 14 January 2012 As part of the Neighbourhood First project, young people will offer refreshments to their neighbours, needy people and members of their community on Neighbourhood Day, Saturday 14 January 2012. Over 50 young teams will be at work, setting an example and showing how considerate acts of kindness are appreciated.
Street of Kindness This preliminary programme, in advance of Neighbourhood First, is in Sham Shui Po. Discount food coupons are being distributed there to street sleepers by HKFYG leadership students. 19 yearold participant, Keith Leung said: Many people living here have no homes and no money. Some of them only eat once every few days. They thanked us warmly but we could only persuade two shops to take part. The others said they too were struggling to survive because of competition from chain stores. The Street of Kindness programme will continue in parallel with Neighbourhood First in 2012.
More information about Neighbourhood First and its associated programmes Web http://neighbourhoodfirst.hk Email neighbourhoodfirst@hkfyg.org.hk Call 3755 7072
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C i t y s p a c e Education
Terry Wong Chi-ho graduated from the Hong Kong Polytechnic University this year. He took part in the 2007 HKFYG Hong Kong 200 Leadership Project.
Source Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (2009) Hong Kong Education Bureau (2011)
Small class teaching has been a hot topic in recent years but in 2010, Mr Michael Suen, Secretary for Education, rejected introducing small classes in secondary schools, doubting their effectiveness. Professor Peter Blatchford of the Institute of Education, University of London has argued against this view. His research2 examined the effects of reducing class size and found increased interaction between teachers and students, especially for less able students. That is exactly what students, parents and teachers want to see.
Notes and Sources 1 While student numbers for secondary schools worldwide are climbing rapidly, the Hong Kong Education Bureau anticipates a decrease in the city's annual intake of Secondary One students over the next few years, from 75,400 in 2010 to 53,900 in 2016 - a fall of 28.5%. A report in China Daily,16 September 2010 is at http://www.cdeclips.com/en/hongkong/ fullstory.html?id=51792 2 Prof Peter Blatchford has done large-scale research on this subject in UK secondary schools. He presented his findings at a seminar at the Hong Kong Institute of Education in December 2010, urging further research on the effects of small class teaching on pedagogy. A report is at http://www.ied.edu.hk/csct/task_result/20101202/20101202.htm
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by Armstrong Cheng Yuen-chung Hong Kong Observatory With the increasing popularity of smartphones, especially among young people, the Hong Kong Observatory developed a weather app last year, called MyObservatory. This article describes the service and its attractions for the younger generation.
both iPhone and Android platforms. It was well received by the public and visitor figures for the Observatorys website during the first nine months of 2011 were double the total for all of 2010.2
Location information
A notable feature of MyObservatory is its adoption of location-based technology to present real-time, location-specific weather information including temperature, relative humidity, winds, and weather photos from nearby weather stations. This is delivered to users automatically according to their geographical position which is detected by the smartphone. MyObservatory also comes with a UV index report and forecast, the forecast track of tropical cyclones, satellite and radar
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images, lightning locations and rainfall map, astronomical and tidal information, radiation information, weather tips etc. Members of the public can access the latest weather information conveniently even while they are on the move. The iPhone version of MyObservatory also has a push notification function by which the latest weather warnings are pushed to the users smartphone automatically.
Going global
The popularity of the Observatorys weather services on mobile platforms has gained the attention of the World Meteorological Organization (WMO) of the United Nations. WMO recently entrusted to the Observatory the task of developing a mobile application called MyWorldWeather. It delivers official forecasts from weather services around the world and is now available for the iPhone mobile platform. In an information era, when everything evolves at an unprecedented pace and everyone is connected more frequently than ever before, the Observatory will continue to ride the crest of the wave of the latest technologies, enriching and enhancing its weather services for the betterment of society and its future generations.
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Notes 1 The Hong Kong Observatory has won the Yahoo! BUZZ Award in the government department category for four consecutive years since 2007. 2 MyObservatory won Gold and Silver awards in two different categories of the Hong Kong Information and Communication Technology (ICT) Award 2011. 3 There are blind-spots in the country parks. Some of these are mentioned at http://m.www.gov.hk/en/residents/communication/mobilecomm/stayingintouch/mobilecoverage.htm
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While conducting research into youth culture in Hong Kong, we looked at how young people negotiate the challenges of growing up in a hub of the global economy. Most of the work done on youth culture has focused on western, working-class resistant subcultures such as Mods or Skinheads. There has been a tendency to look at the spectacular and extreme. We were far more interested in seeing how young people perform their identities in their everyday lives.
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December 2011
Youth SPOT a blast for cultivating dance talent A dance showcase called "Toy Story" was held at the Y-Theatre in Youth Square, Chai Wan in September. There were some great movers on stage. Check them out at http://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=t-mrCnK-Clc&feature=youtu.be or contact Terrence, tel 2715 0424, for more information.
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boutiques and local brands. What is emerging is a distinct heterogeneous cultural form constructed from an assemblage of external influences that have been appropriated, transformed and internalised to create a unique identity that is relevant to Hong Kongs young people. Such identities and cultures are characteristic of a new global city.
Toy Story Youth Dance 40 years of Iso-Locking and Wacking Wacking is a creative form of street dance that originated in American nightclubs. Arms and hands move very fast to disco music with a strong beat, accompanied by more relaxed hip and leg movements. It started out as a gay black and Latino dance form but entered the mainstream by the 1970s and was originally called Punkin. Iso-Locking was originally funk dance style, typically performed to music by James Brown. It also has origins in Indian dance. Today it is associated with hip-hop. Locking movements which hold a position provide a strong contrast with fast wacking, and include acrobatics which are physically demanding in terms of flexibility and strength. Videos at http://refreshdance.wordpress.com/2010/01/18/waackinwaackingwhackinwhacking/ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWhFTOvGxTg Information at http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waacking, http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tecktonik. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Locking_(dance) Andrew Halton and Tara Lam Hoi-ling came from Cambridge University to do research on Hong Kongs youth culture in summer 2011. They visited the Federations Youth Research Centre and interviewed students at both the Shaukeiwan Youth SPOT and Farm Road Youth SPOT before going to the Project Dance Summer Showcase, organized by Farm Road Youth SPOT.
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The Tai Hang Fire Dragon Dance is performed every midautumn festival. Based on a Hakka folk tale about an escaped snake and an outbreak of plague, the 67-metre long "dragon" is carried by 100 boys and men on a weaving dance through the narrow streets of old low-rise Tai Hang village. They cross Wun Sha Street to the nearby Lily Temple, purging evil spirits as they pass. The procession is preceded by dances performed by children with lanterns and accompanied by music played on drums and cymbals. The dragon is made from grasses on a cane base which is stuffed with thousands of joss-sticks.
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Starring Ko Chen-tung as Ko Ching-teng ( ), and Michelle Chen as Shen Chia-yi ( ) Release date June 2011 in Taiwan, October 2011 in Hong Kong Genre Drama, romance Original language Mandarin Reviewers rating
Synopsis
The story opens at a Taiwanese secondary school in 1994. Shen Chia-yi played by Michelle Chen, is the dream girl of many male students and an outstanding class representative. Ko Ching-teng, a character based on director Giddens Ko himself as a teen, is the class trouble-maker who initially is not interested in Chia-yi.
Comments
William Many have reacted to the the movie by saying that every
boy has his own Shen Chia-yi ( ). This is true for me too. Ultimately, whether you are boy or girl, you will be touched by this movie.
Carman We all want be the apple of our lover's eye, yet how many
Magic happens when the always-misbehaving Ching-teng saves good girl Chia-yi from teacher punishment by lending her his English text book. Having rescued the princess, the brave young man is rewarded when Chia-yi voluntarily helps him with his homework. Ching-teng then falls for Chia-yi and romance blossoms. After leaving secondary school, the pair are separated by going to different universities. They strive to maintain their relationship longdistance, but the magic doesnt work in the end and the two drift apart. Still, their importance to each other doesnt fade. When Ching-teng goes to Chia-yis wedding reception it is perhaps the biggest gift he could offer. His presence bestows a heartfelt blessing on the couple, coming as it does from the boy who loves her unconditionally. There is no regret between Chia-yi and Ching-teng. Both keep the best memories of their love alive in their minds. Ching-teng tells Chiayi that he believes their true love develops in a parallel universe and that it is never-ending. This is perhaps the best conclusion the movie could have, conveying the message that with limitless love, there can be no tears, only smiles.
of us will have this dream come true? Chasing and searching, we still dont give up and never lose hope.
Theo True love is more than just being physically together with the
one you love. Losing someone or being rejected by somebody is not the end of the world. Think positively. Try to feel her happiness even though she has someone else. You will then know what true love is. Romance is not the only selling point. The film also brings back memories about school life and friendship.
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HKFYG news
December 2011
Hong Kong Arts Festival 40th Anniversary Opening Ceremony with the Hong Kong Melody Makers
On Tuesday 31 January, The Hong Kong Melody Makers will perform at the opening of the 2012 Arts Festival from about 6pm, singing contemporary a cappella in the lobby of the Hong Kong Cultural Centre.
More about the HKFYG Hong Kong Melody Markers on YouTube and Facebook
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Youth Band Marathon 2011 The carols come hot on the amazing heels of the Youth Band Marathon 2011 at the Hong Kong Cultural Centre Piazza when HKFYG groups and troupes took part and Art Jamming was organized by the HKFYG Lohas SPOT.
Contact Michelle Ho or Connie Wong 2395 5753 for more information. http://hkmm.hkfyg.org.hk
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December 2011
How to order from the HKFYG Organic Farm Tel: 2838 4808 Fax: 2488 9034 www.organicfarm.hkfyg.org.hk email organicfarm@hkfyg.org.hk Delivery to Kowloon and New Territories: Monday and Friday To Hong Kong Island: Wednesday Free farm-to-home delivery for purchases of over HK$300 4 retail outlets Caf 21 21 Pak Fuk Road, HKFYG Building, Jockey Club Farm Road Youth SPOT, Heng Fa Chuen Youth SPOT and LOHAS Youth SPOT
Method Soak the mushrooms and black fungus, remove stems and any hard woody parts Wash all the vegetables Slice all ingredients into strips or bite-sized pieces Stir-fry mushrooms and black fungus for 2-3 minutes over a medium heat then add the other vegetables and continue cooking for another 5 minutes until they are tender but still crisp Season to taste and serve with steamed rice Nutritional information String beans are rich in fibre and help to lower cholesterol. They also contain vitamins A and C, and magnesium and potassium which can help to stabilize blood pressure and are good for the heart.
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Ingredients 150g glutinous rice flour 300ml of warm water 2 tablespoon beetroot juice (for colour, optional) 5g dried osmanthus flowers (osmanthus fragrans) 1/2 slices of yellow slab sugar 1 tablespoon of sweet fermented rice from rice wine, usually available in jars from Shanghainese food shops. Method Add warm water to glutinous rice flour Divide into 2 portions. Add beetroot juice to one portion to make a pink dough Roll white and pink dough into small balls, or roll into a thick string and cut into small cubes. Boil the dough balls until they float, then drain Bring 1 litre water to the boil, add dried osmanthus flowers, yellow slab sugar and sweet fermented rice for rice wine to make the soup base Put small rice flour balls into soup base and bring back to the boil. Serves 4-6 Osmanthus fragrans The plant has deliciously fragrant flowers with the scent of ripe peaches or apricots. It is known as Chinese cinnamon and in Chinese, the plant is called x ( ) or guhu ( ) which is also the name for the flowers and means literally "cinnamon flower" or "cassia flower" It is a traditional symbol of love and romance in Taiwan. For more information visit http:// toptropicals.com/html/toptropicals/plant_wk/featured_plant.htm
Ingredients 500g beetroot 50g dried bak choy; use fresh ones if dried are not available 100g dried soybeans and 80g black-eyed peas, soaked overnight 150g lean pork loin 3 litres water 4 dried glazed dates 12 heads of sweet corn 3 slices of fresh ginger small piece of dried mandarin orange peel (optional for extra flavour) Method Wash and cut the beetroot and sweet corn into big chunks Parboil pork loin on high heat for one minute then skim off the scum and drain Put all ingredients into a large pot with 3 litres of water Bring to the boil, then reduce to low heat and continue cooking for an hour Season to taste Tip Vegetarians can replace pork with carrots/ add double portion of beans to give extra sweetness and body.
Some regular prices choi sum $30/ catty white cabbage $30/ catty cherry tomatoes $40/ 200g Shanghai cabbage $30/ catty regular tomatoes $45/ catty beetroot $25/ catty cactus $90/ catty cauliflower $40/ catty broccoli $40/ catty lettuce $30/ catty French beans $30/ catty daikon $25/ catty Indian lettuce $30/ catty strawberries $40/ 20g
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H K F Y G p u b l i c a t i o ns
December 2011
Web Positive 2.0 A Collection of Youth Online Blogs 2.0 Price: HK$80 / ISBN: 978-988-19689-7-5
Five youngsters share their positive energy in writing, photos and drawings in these five winning entries to the positive blog competition organized by the Youth Online Outreach Counselling Scheme.
Draw and Tell Projective Drawing in Youth Counselling Price: HK$80 / ISBN: 978-988-19689-4-4
A picture says more than a thousand words, and drawings can reflect feelings. HKFYGs team of school social workers have been use projective drawing in schools and this book contains some of the examples which illustrate the theory behind this creative counselling technique.
Ten Years with Young Night Drifters Price: HK$80 / ISBN: 978-988-19688-9-0
In this tenth anniversary year of HKFYGs outreach service for the young night drifters who hang around Hong Kongs parks and street corners instead of going home at night. The authors explain how the service developed and how it works.
LEAD Creative Class Learning to Change for the Creative Class LEAD Price: HK$80 / ISBN: 978-988-19688-5-2
This is the second in a series about the LEAD Creative Class programme organized by HKFYG. Examples are given of eight participating schools, pioneers in building a new type of learning and a new facet of the creative class.
Easy LEAD Family Fun with Scratch Easy LEAD Scratch Price: HK$80 / ISBN: 978-988-19689-2-0
This book provides good creative activity resources for primary and junior secondary students, their parents and educators. It includes interesting examples to help the reader understand Scratch, an MIT-developed programming language. The CD-ROM includes the Scratch programme.
Youth Trends in Hong Kong 2011 2011 Price: HK$120 (hardcover), HK$100 (paperback) / ISBN: 978-988-196886-9 (hardcover), 978-988-19688-7-6 (paperback)
This compilation and analysis of statistical data and research findings about Hong Kong young people is organized according to areas of concern including population and family, education, and financial independence. It also has Indicators of Youth Values and is the tenth in the survey series conducted by the HKFYG Youth Research Centre since 1997.
Life Planning: Your Future from the Youth Employment Network Price: HK$60 / ISBN: 978-988-19689-1-3
The book reflects the experience gained by HKFYGs Youth Employment Network (YEN) helping young people understand their own strengths and make good decisions about career paths. It describes some of the learning tools built up by YEN, including guides to interview techniques.
Factsheet
Go Organic, Give Life a Choice Price: HK$120 / ISBN: 978-988-19688-0-7
Organic food is a life-style choice and HFYG has established its own organic farm to help young people learn about it. Groups of students visit the farm and see organic farming in practice. This beautifully illustrated book introduces the farm and its crops with a selection of recipes. See more on pages 44-45.
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Discounts: Students and u21 members 30% off Bulk purchase Schools and NGOs, 1-29 copies 30% off, 30 copies or above 40% off Other readers 1-29 copies 20% off; 30 copies or more 30% off All books available from 21/F, The Hong Kong Federation of Youth Groups Building, 21 Pak Fuk Road, North Point, Hong Kong, or online at u21.hk. Please contact Ada Chau tel 3755 7108 or email cps@hkfyg.org.hk
Youth SPOT Magazine its cool its free available now at all HKFYG Youth SPOTs loft cafes & salons contact Andrey tel 3755 7041