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FIVE PHYSICAL S I G N S T H AT S H E S ATTRACTED TO YOU S C O T M c K AY

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FIVE PHYSICAL SIGNS THAT SHES ATTRACTED TO YOU


Were about to cover something that just about every guy struggles with at one point or another. That would be how to tell FOR SURE that a woman REALLY likes younot just as a friend, but that she is honestly sexually attracted. Now, we as men are famously inept at reading women in this way. Its as if shes got to hire an airplane to skywrite in the clouds overhead that shes into usright after she whacks us in the head with the proverbial 2x4. Go ahead and laugh, but thats pretty much true. OK, so before I give you five absolutely foolproof ways to tell that a womans touchie feelies are an indisputable sign of real attraction, Ive got to throw something on the table for you. Look, if a woman finds you gross and repulsive (read: not sexually attractive), she WONT touch you. So then, if a woman is touching you AT ALL, it means AT THE VERY LEAST that she finds you somewhat interesting sexually. Truth be told, whenever a woman (notwithstanding relatives here, of course) goes out of her way TO touch you, its a solid bet shes attracted REGARDLESS of what that touch entails. So bear that in mind before we even get into the ensuing list. With that out of the way, here are five VERY CLEAR ways a woman can physically touch you that leave ZERO DOUBT in any rational persons mind that shes into you:

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1) She Grooms You You may know about this one already, so I wont harp on it much. Scientific study has shown time and again that all members of the primate world tend to GROOM others of their own species that they feel affection toward. So chimps and orangutans of the same social circle might sit in the forest and pick nits off of each other all day. Meanwhile, a girl you know might pick some lint off of your jacket for you or straighten your collar. Its all the samejust the somewhat more evolved human version. She digs you. (And youve got to love my analogies, right?)

2) Shes Cold And Wants You To Keep Her Warm Either women really are more cold natured then men are, or 90% of them have simply figured out the perfect way to get guys they like to embrace them. You could spark a pretty good debate with that topic, couldnt you? But either way, when a woman starts going on and on about how cold she is, shed not only like you to give her your jacket, she wants you to wrap your arms around her as wellif at least for the moment. And that, friends and neighbors, can only mean shes attracted to you. Sometimes a womans signals in this particular realm are a bit more subtle, but equally unmistakable. One of my favorites, for example, is when you are on the couch watching a movie with her, and she turns a bit and tucks her toes under your thighright while youre sitting there together. Get The Master Plan: www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/subscribers Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/scotandemily E-Mail Scot McKay: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
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Personally, I find that to be a very sensual and unmistakably feminine move. That half-playful, half-affectionate signal has Im crazy about you written all over it. It also is a strong sign that she feels 100% safe with you. One time I read a womans profile on Match.com that actually mentioned the toes under the leg for warmth thing. I wrote her.

3) She Hits You On The Shoulder While I personally believe that ANY time a woman hits you on the shoulder (or your arm, or your chest) its a sign of POSSIBLE attraction, I have to make it perfectly clear that not EVERY whack on your shoulder from a woman is created equal. If youve just done something that causes a woman to seriously buckle down and belt you pretty hard, it could be because you flat-out deserved itand shes bold enough to realize, at least, that youd never hit her back. I wouldnt call that a definitive sign of attraction, but its really not necessarily a sign shes NOT attracted, eitherbelieve it or not. But if youre bantering with a woman and you end up saying something that causes her to playfully whack you because youre bad, then its very likely game on. The strength behind the whack really doesnt matter at that point, by the way. She may lightly tap you or hit you pretty hard. Either way, its not only an indication of attraction, its likely also a bit of an insight into what shed be like in bedno kidding. But whats the highest-percentage incident of this type? That would be when a woman randomly hits you on the shoulder out of the bluefor no apparent reasonand starts giggling. Thats pretty much the first stage of foreplay.

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4) She Paws At You Like A Cat Oh man, I love this one. Some women really get into the whole feline aspect of femininity, and tend to literally act it out when theyre in the presence of a guy they like. Amazingly, this can be either conscious OR unconscious on their part. But no doubt, some women (i.e. the particularly smart and intuitive ones) know that this tends to drive most guys wild. Welcome to why hotties LOVE to dress up in cat suits (or even like Catwoman) for Halloween. So basically, if shes talking to you face to face and starts patting at your chest like a cat would while shes talking to you, Id bet $1000 that shes not only attracted to youshes HOT for you. The example I just gave is kind of a blatant one, but you can be on the lookout for ANY kind of feline touch. Look for her to swipe at you like a cat would, even lightly across the face if youve just made a smart-aleck remark. And if she swipes at you with claws like a tiger? Well, then youre in big cat territory. Thats moneyespecially if she actually verbalizes a growl or a meow.

5) She Touches Your Hair Or Face Im about to tell you something SO obvious that youre probably going to shake your head and laugh. By now you know about the kiss test made famous by David DeAngelo. Essentially, if a woman will let you touch her hair, shell let you kiss her. (That principle has NEVER failed me, by the way.) Well, heres a disarmingly simple variation on that theme that ALMOST NOBODY ever considers. Get The Master Plan: www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/subscribers Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/scotandemily E-Mail Scot McKay: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
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If a woman wants to touch YOUR hair (or your face, or anywhere on your head, for that matter) it means SHE probably wants to kiss YOU. Think about it. Touching another persons head is a pretty personal thing to do. Whenever a woman does it, its sensual. [Ed. Note: For what its worth, by the way, if another dude you dont know very well ever touches your head its an aggressive actyou can bet on it.] From now on Id say you have no more excuses when it comes to reading a womans physical signals. Sure, if she touches you AT ALL its a positive sign of attraction. But if she touches you in any of the five ways I just revealed, its a FOREGONE CONCLUSION that shes into you. Now, if youre familiar with how I go about things at all, you know that I dont do anything half way. I always like to deliver more than I promise. So stay tuned, because Ive got a surprise for you. Now its time to follow up with five physical signs that shes giving you SEXUAL PERMISSION. Thats rightwere taking the conversation one step further. Lets talk about how to tell for sure that she not only that she LIKES you but that she wants you to TAKE HER sexually. Unfortunately, tons of guys misread those signals alsoso what follows might possibly be the most important part of this report. Just like there are clear indicators that women send you when theyre attracted, there are also signs they give you when theyre 100% ready and willing to have sex with you. And Ive got great news for you. Theyre also PHYSICAL ones, like the first five I gave you above. Now obviously, if a woman grabs you by the collar, looks you in the eye and whispers take menow youre going to know whats up. Get The Master Plan: www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/subscribers Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/scotandemily E-Mail Scot McKay: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
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But remember always, women want YOU TO LEAD. As such, theyre more likely to drop hints about their horniness (possibly even STRONG ones, like youre about to see)all the while HOPING youll get the memo and make a bold move. Again, some of these might seem obvious to you. And yes, at the purely theoretical level it might SEEM really easy to interpret these signalsas long as were observing them as they happen to some OTHER guy, right? But based on the e-mails I get, the problem clearly arises when this amazing stuff happens TO USin the REAL WORLD, with REAL WOMEN around. Lets just put it this way, if you see ANYTHING on the following list in real life and do NOTHING to get the ball rolling sexually, dont at all be surprised when the woman youre with silently gets up and leaves your apartmentslamming the door behind her. You may think you were being a gentleman, but in her mind youll have REJECTED her in humiliating fashion. Anyway, enough. Heres what to look for

1) Spontaneous Tickling OK, heres the first GEM of a takeaway youre going to get here. When it comes to women, this secret formula is just about bulletproof: PLAYFULNESS = HORNINESS You see, I didnt like calculus much in school so I keep my equations as simple as possibleand thats about as easy as formulas get. Lets face it though. NOTHING is more playful than busting out and tickling someoneespecially right out of the blue. Get The Master Plan: www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/subscribers Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/scotandemily E-Mail Scot McKay: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
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When a woman tickles you, shes not only demonstrating a strong, immediate desire to run her lady paws all over you, shes also initiating something thats INHERENTLY DESIGNED to key up your nerves. She tickles, you laugh. And hey, if you want to look cool and play the Im not ticklish card for as long as you can take it, so be it. But sooner than later youd better erupt into tickling her back or youre going to BLOW IT here, Mr. Macho. So yes, you tickle her backand she squeals and giggles. The next thing you know youre writhing together on the couch, or better yet the floor. Youd then better start kissing herwith some enthusiasm. etcetera, etcetera. Dont worry, shell keep giggling. Etcetera,

2) Pillow Fights Similar to tickling, getting whacked with a pillow serves notice that she thinks its time for the two of you to start getting physical with each other. The subtle difference is that while tickling is mostly about direct stimulation of your sense of touch, starting a pillow fight is more of a hybrid stimulation involving your imagination as well. I mean, when she hauls off and clobbers you in a playful way, the whole idea of starting a play war indicates that shes daring you to try to subdue her. Now, obviously she trusts you not to physically harm her. But if you know the first thing about female sexuality, you know that women LOVE to be taken by a man in a way that demonstrates his physical strength to some degree. Get The Master Plan: www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/subscribers Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/scotandemily E-Mail Scot McKay: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
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So when she initiates playful aggression like this, you know shes absolutely, positively thinking about getting pounded in returnby another pillow, that isat least at first. By the way, if she starts play wrestling with you the underlying message is pretty much the sameonly LOUDER. In fact, if a woman has ever started play wrestling with you ON A BED and you STILL failed to deploy, call me IMMEDIATELY for 1-on-1 coaching.

3) The Hip Bump Let me give you a caveat here. This is the one physical sign of sexual permission out of the five on this list that MIGHT NOT indicate that shes ready for sexual activity right then and thereif only because the environment might not be appropriate. But make no mistake, if a woman bumps the side of your pelvic region with hers its an UNMISTAKABLE sign that shed also be very interested in the two of you bumping each others pelvic regions from other angles also. I remember one time in particular a girl I knew gave me a surprise greeting in the form of The Hip Bump at a bookstore. I didnt know she was there, and thats literally how she said hello. When I looked up and saw her, she giggled and said, Hi there. It was on.

4) Touching You In Personal Places Look, if she grabs your crotch, youll probably get the message. also if she grabs your butt. Probably

But the arguably more subtle signals come in the form of her touching you in other places on YOUR body that you wouldnt even dream of touching on HERS unless you knew she was good and ready for it. The prime example here is, of course, the chest. Get The Master Plan: www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/subscribers Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/scotandemily E-Mail Scot McKay: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
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Her chest is more personal of an area than yours, but make no mistake about itif she touches yours, you have sexual permission to touch hers. That goes for anywhere else on the body. Thighs, neck, etc. General rule: Any time a woman touches you somewhere, you can reciprocate without any trepidation whatsoever.

5) Modeling Clothes In Private Believe it or not, once you get inside a womans mind and figure out exactly what goes on in there youre very likely to LOVE what you discover. Personally, Ive grown to absolutely crave both the playful, teasing nature of femininity AND womens apparent subtlety when it comes to waiting on a guy to take the lead sexually. And I love how they really like to make sure foreplay happens whether we as guys think we want it or not.and whether WE REALIZE thats what they actually have in mind, or not. Women are truly the mistresses of making sure sexual chemistry simmers until ready. And wowdo they LOVE to be sexually appreciatedbut ONLY by guys theyre attracted to in return. Where am I going with all this? Check it out. ANY TIME youre at a womans place and she suggests shed like to model some new clothes for you, youd better OBLIGE HER. Otherwise, youre a total bonehead. Thats because whats about to gloriously unfold before your very eyes is pretty much the ULTIMATE demonstration of every premise of feminine nature I just described. So yesyou should relax and enjoy the show. Get The Master Plan: www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/subscribers Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/scotandemily E-Mail Scot McKay: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
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Oh sure, on the surface it sounds boring. It may even sort of sound like your masculinity is potentially going to be insultedas if youve just been asked to hold her purse or something. But not so fast. Thats not what she has in mindbelieve me. Quite the opposite, in fact. Her full intention is to IGNITE your masculinity. After all, were not talking about her dragging you to shop for dresses at the mall like a gay friend here. Im specifically talking about when she dreams up the idea of modeling clothes for you IN PRIVATEas in AT HER PLACE. Sure, you can perpetrate like youre not interested in a bunch of womens clothes, etc. But dont put up TOO much of a battle here. This is not about the clothes...its about whats UNDER THEM. What shes going to do is take you into her room, andsure enoughshes going to change. Shell probably go into the bathroom or the closet so she can do so out of your sight. But dont kid yourself. Shes intentionally planting the seed in your imagination that shes GETTING NAKED in there. It wont be long at all before she comes out and asks you what you think. Dont be surprised when she has something on that brings out just exactly how FEMALE she is. The proper response from you might be, Hmmmnot bad. But maybe youd better give me something else to compare it to. Shell smile and skip back into hiding. When she returns shell have something EVEN SEXIER on. Go ahead and give her some approval. But then ask, Im guessing theres more, huh? Get The Master Plan: www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/subscribers Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/scotandemily E-Mail Scot McKay: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
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The next time she comes out, shell be wearing something she KNOWS looks good on her. ANDits altogether likely that shell be holding another blouse or dress in her hand as she makes little catwalk moves before you. Wait a sec, shell say. shoes. See if you think this looks better with these

This time, if youve shown just the right amount of flirtatious intrigue, shell spontaneously change shirts without returning to the bathroomgiving you a nice view of the bra shes wearing. Pleasein the name of all thats right in this worlddo the right thing once she puts on the other blouse. Tell her you greatly prefer the blouse-free optionat which time you walk up to her and kiss her. Importantly, dont just grab at the blouse just yet. Her message has been clearly communicated, and she knows you got it. The rest will happen on its own. Now, Id be remiss if I didnt mention a couple of variations on this theme. The first is when she decides to model swimsuits for you. This adds a more overt twist to the whole exercise, while also demonstrating that shes VERY comfortable with her bodynice. The other variation, of course, is when she just throws caution to the wind and goes straight to modeling underwear for you. Some very confident and relatively forward women will indeed actually go in this blatant a direction, ESPECIALLY if youve been guilty of letting the sexual tension go on for way, way too long. Having read this list, any red-blooded guy would no doubt be pretty happy to have ANYTHING on it happen to him. The key is, of course, to actually RECOGNIZE the signals for what they are and make sure to RESPOND accordingly. Get The Master Plan: www.deservewhatyouwant.com/masterplan/subscribers Facebook Page: www.facebook.com/scotandemily E-Mail Scot McKay: scot@deservewhatyouwant.com
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Before we wrap this up, I want to grant honorable mention status to two other playfully sexual signals women send:

1) Playing footsie 2) Biting you somewhere on your body, especially while kissing you

Both of those mean that shes sexually interested and is having a hard time containing the sexual energy she feels toward you. Id stop just short of deeming them full-on sexual permission signals, though. When you see either of these, shes definitely thinking horny thoughts in addition to feeling attraction for you. But its possible she might not be quite ready for you to take her just yet. Nevertheless, if you keep doing all the right things youve been doing up until that moment to attract her and drive her wild, youre likely to see at least one of the five signals on the main list above VERY SOON thereafter. Be Good,

Scot McKay

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ABO U T TH E AU TH O R

Scot McKay graduated from Messiah College in Grantham, PA in 1988 with a


Bachelor of Arts in Education. From there, he did graduate work in psychology and counseling while working as a life coach for "at risk" kids in Yuma, AZ. After a difficult divorce years later, Scot heard from virtually everyone that "it wasn't his fault" and that "there was nothing he could have done" to have been a better husband. Not accepting the victim's mindset, he researched exactly what it is that attracts men and women to one another, andmore importantlywhat keeps them together for years. This research has been ongoing for seven years to date, and has literally been a life-changer for himgoing from divorced and alone to happily married to the woman of his dreams during that span. The findings have been so profound and meaningful that Scot went back to his roots of life coaching after a successful management career in the IT world...and thats how X & Y Communications was born. Scot lives in San Antonio, TX with his wife Emily and three children (David, Danielle and Scot Jr.).

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