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after cancer
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A message
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THIS ISSUE:
eptember is Cancer Awareness Month. vivors, Karina Andersen, 5, and Jared Pagett,
ROCKLIN VIEW
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July 2008
Volume 3, Number 7
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orget about the little things that no one but you
will remember or even notice. A wedding day is
just that, a day to celebrate marriage. Stay
focused on your spouse to be and don’t stress on the
■ 1 NOTHING IS PERFECT uncontrollable things. No one in attendance will
remember if they served baked potatoes instead of
A
wedding day is no exception. Plan for things mashed or if the bouquet bow is dark blue instead of
to go wrong because it’s possible they will. If light blue.
the wedding is planned for outdoors, have a The day isn’t about what flowers you have, what
backup plan indoors in case of rainy weather. If the food you eat or what music you dance to. It’s about
photographer is running late, have someone take making a commitment to someone you love.
some snapshots until he or she arrives. If the food
arrives and isn’t what you’d asked for, try to go with ■ 9 COMPILE AN EMERGENCY KIT
the flow and enjoy the day.
J
ust in case something is forgotten, have an emer-
■ 2 STICK TO THE BUDGET gency kit on hand. Keep aspirin, breath mints,
deodorant, lotion, hair spray, dental floss, bobby
M
ake a budget and stick to it. You don’t want pins, Tums, tissues, cologne or perfume, extra
to get to a week before the wedding only to cufflinks and spot remover. Make sure both the bride,
realize you’re way over budget. Use budget groom and other people involved in the wedding
planning tools, a spreadsheet, whatever helps keep have a kit.
funds organized. Be sure to organize expenses and
spend the most on what is a priority to you. The last ■ 10 HAVE FUN AND RELAX
thing you need is to be stressed about the cost on the
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wedding day. his is a once in a lifetime event and you should
enjoy it. If pedicures relax you, plan for a wed-
■ 3 PICK A BRIDAL PARTY YOU TRUST ding day salon visit. If playing basketball is
calming, plan for a quick game in the morning.
B
ridesmaids and groomsmen should be people Anything that makes the day
you can rely on, people who will keep you more enjoyable and stress-
happy and focused on the day, not the little ■ 4 HIRE A WEDDING COORDINATOR free is worth it.
things that may go wrong. Make sure they’re trust-
I
worthy – you don’t want to be waiting on one of the f time is of the essence for planning the wedding,
bridal party members to get the day started. Give hire a wedding coordinator. A wedding coordinator
each bridal party member a schedule for the day and will worry about the little things so you don’t have
a list of things you need them to do. to.
■ 5 GET ORGANIZED
K
eep a list of vendor contact information just in
case. Give it to your best man and maid
of honor, parents and anyone else
who will help. If the caterer hasn’t shown
up, give them a call to see what is going
on. By having all the numbers with you,
it eliminates panic if someone is late or
lost. Also, make sure the vendors all have
your cell phone number or a number of
someone else who’s involved in the wedding
plans.
D
ecide the order of events at the recep-
tion in advance. Do you want to toast
before cake cutting, food after the first
dance? You want the event to run smoothly, so plan
ahead. Let the disc jockey and/or wedding coordina-
tor know the plans also – they’ll help keep the order
of things.
E
ven if you have butterflies in your stomach, eat.
You don’t want to be the bride or groom who
faints at the altar. Have a healthy breakfast,
munch on snacks and stay hydrated.
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policy: assuming the worst.
Communication is a or problems from your own 1. Your child is more likely 5. If you criticize for what
two-way street. The EASY experience unless your child to succeed when there is a your child tells you, your child
message must be received or LISTENING asks for the information. positive family communica- will close the door the next
listening doesn’t happen. BY 5. Convey confidence in tion. time. Be appreciative that your
Parents need to learn how SHERI your child’s abilities. 2. Keep communication child wants to communicate.
to be good receivers of their 6. Remember: Listening lines open. 6. Listen to understand;
child’s information. HITCHINGS effectively builds relation- 3. Your child is more likely listen more than you talk.
Remember: Important keys ships. to grow up healthy when par- 7. Be available when your
are: listen first, always lis- ■ Listen carefully to feel- ents model positively and have child needs you.
ten, create a special time and your child. For example, how ings and fears a hopeful attitude. 8. Remember: Don’t criti-
place to listen and use active many times have you said a 1. Effective listening is 4. When your child knows cize first, ask first.
listening. sentence that includes: reflective and nonjudgmental. you have an open mind and an ■ A Final Powerful Tool:
■ Effective listeners listen You must… The purpose is to help you open attitude, your child will “OWL”
carefully You ought to… understand what your child is share more feelings and infor- Observe cues, Wait for the
Focus on listening carefully You should… saying. mation with you. child to formulate thoughts
to your child without thinking You have to… 2. At times, it will mean 5. Remember: A child who into words, and Listen by giv-
about what you will say next. You better… respectful silence. Silence is listened to learns how to lis- ing enough time and your
Also, in attempts to help ■ Listen actively shows you want to listen and ten. undivided attention. Your child
your child communicate, par- 1. Show understanding and hear your child’s viewpoint. ■ To improve communi- will be much more excited
ents often bombard the child acceptance to your child by 3. Good listening skills cation: about communicating and
with questions and end up non-verbal behavior: need to be modeled. 1. Ask caring questions, doing so effectively.
answering them or don’t give – Tone of voice 4. Listen to fears and help have open ears and an open Granddaughter Kelly also
enough time for thinking. – Facial expressions your child work through their heart. reminded me or this valuable
Remember: think, and then – Gestures fears. 2. Ask your child’s advice poem she learned.
count to 7 before you respond. – Eye contact 5. Listening effectively or opinion about an important
■ Paraphrasing – Posture sounds like… matter. A wise old owl
An effective listening strat- 2. Put yourself in your “You seem to be saying 3. If you are upset about sitting in an oak.
egy (“I hear what you’re say- child’s place to understand that…” something else in your life, let The more he heard,
ing”) captures the essence of what your child is saying and “Sounds like…” your child know that you are the less he spoke.
your child’s message and asks how he or she feels. “You’re feeling…” not angry at him/her. The less he spoke,
for more information. 3. Restate the child’s most Tip: Listening thoughtfully 4. Create an atmosphere of the more he heard.
■ Avoid obligatory lan- important thoughts and feel- shows respect. communication being careful Why can’t we all be more
guage ings. not to be preoccupied or get- like that wise old bird?
Pay close attention to oblig- 4. Do not interrupt, offer ■ Benefits of communi- ting in the habit of half listen-
atory words that you use with advice or give suggestions. Do cating with an open door ing, jumping to conclusions or – Author Unknown
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O’Hanlon her lumbar spine and break-
down of her sacral bone.
“With a small percentage of
hey’ve been in the same kids the leukemic blasts cause
T
month.
fight for more than two
years, but just met last
breakdown of the bone,” says
Linda.
Last May Karina success-
Two Rocklin children, fully completed a two and half
Karina Andersen, 5, and Jared year clinical trial of chemo-
Pagett, 11, live on opposite therapy at UC Davis. Jared
sides of Breen Park. It’s their was nine when a recurrent
neighborhood playground. sinus infection and further
Karina loves to chase butter- tests showed his immune sys-
flies and observe ladybugs. tem was being ravaged by
Jared can pitch a ball all leukemic blasts that did not
afternoon. Both children have succumb to initial treatments.
extraordinary curiosities. And “We were told if he did not
their sophisticated vocabulary go into remission within six
makes you want to pull out weeks, he had about six weeks
the video camera. to live,” remembers his mom,
Just ask Jared; videotaping Carmen. “Thank God remis-
is one of his hobbies. Karina sion was achieved so he quali-
enjoys chatting about her two fied for transplant.”
new kittens. As his dad, Eddie, mom,
“They’re medium-haired and siblings, Jordan and
TERESA O’HANLON/ROCKLIN VIEW
gray and white kittens and James stood watch; Jared
Karina Andersen, 5, and Jared Pagett, 11, play a game of checkers in Breen Park recently with her they’re very playful!” she gig- underwent grueling prepara-
mom, Kris. Karina was 32 months old when Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia prevented her from gles. Jared talks about the tion for a bone marrow trans-
spending time in the park. At age 9, Jared was diagnosed with the same type of cancer. future with ease. plant at UC San Francisco
“Looking ahead, I think I where he received a complete-
want to be a doctor; probably ly new immune system from
an oncologist to help chil- precious stem cells, given by a
dren,” he says. donor through the National
Atrium
Salon Spa
There’s an instant connec-
tion between the two that real-
ly makes you wonder why
they’ve never crossed paths
before.
That’s about the time you
discover both Karina and
Jared have recently battled
through rigorous treatments to
beat Acute Lymphoblastic
Marrow Donor Program. Now
two years post transplant,
Jared is doing great and enjoy-
ing middle school.
And after spending her pre-
school years isolated from
typical childhood activities,
Karina is having the time of
her life in Kindergarten. This
month Karina and Jared come
Leukemia, the most common together to share their stories
type of cancer in children. as part of National Childhood
Also called ALL, this can- Cancer Awareness Month.
For Your Most cer of the bone marrow spews
aggressive and abnormal
It’s a well known fact in
oncology wards that pediatric
cancer patients are frontline
Memorable white cells into the body that
crowd out healthy cells.
Without chemotherapy, radia-
soldiers. More than 60 percent
of childhood cancer patients
Moments in Life tion, or a bone marrow trans-
plant, it’s a disease that can
participate in clinical trials,
compared to less than 5 per-
take a life in a few weeks cent of adults according to the
time, or less. American Society of Clinical
The National Cancer Oncology.
6851 Douglas Blvd Institute reports one in 330 “A lot of adults will drop
out of clinical trials because of
children will develop cancer
Granite Bay, CA 95746 by the age of 20. Karina was side effects,” says Kris, a vet-
erinarian. “Children don’t
916-791-8585 32 months old when the dis-
ease stopped her from visiting
Breen Park altogether.
have a choice. Parents want
their children to live and they
Her parents, Kris and Linda see to it they complete treat-
Andersen, spent three weeks ment. A lot of the successful
Bridal Packages Available To watching their daughter suffer
through intermittent episodes
drugs used in the children’s
trials are now used on adults,
of severe bone pain, eventual- but not vice-versa. The only
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ening their indoor air with ed filter devices that don’t pro-
match and wick. duce ozone. Her agency has
“There have been studies developed the nation’s first reg-
showing some very high parti- ulation, effective this month,
Teresa cle levels emitted from just a limiting ozone emissions from
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com) five years ago while
PARENT
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little more protected. You can
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(notice the
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my seventh-grader’s comput- some sort. and I moved KAREN aware that
BY into our new
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JOANNA home excited eral serovars
Clicking upon the URL JULLIEN ■ Establish a “profiling
revealed a social network of rule” in your home that about having a (types) of lep-
some kind that captured tons requires children to seek little bit of land tospirosis.
of very personal information parental approval before sub- and some space for our 3 dogs If you live near skunks ask
profile on MySpace and
including, age, sex, sexual mitting personal profile to frolic and play. What we for the full vaccination of all
asked her for a date.
orientation, favorite colors information for any medium didn’t expect was the family serovars currently available.
There is no doubt that in
and flavors, and “how you (paper, phone and Internet). of skunks who apparently Luckily, it is unlikely that the
order to keep children safe,
want to die.” This profiling rule should believe that our new property spray from a skunk carries the
parents must supervise their
It turned out that the URL also require that you know is really theirs. disease, only the urine.
online activities.
I had accessed was a profile the passwords for Internet Now, as a veterinarian, you Rabies is another potential
of someone attending a high Web sites accessed by your would assume that I knew all disease carried by skunks.
Hindsight/Lessons:
of the dangers and risks asso- Keep vaccinations current and
school in another city. And it ■ Internet access should child.
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only be possible in open
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common areas of the home
engage in this type of net- monitor what is going on. learned a lot. aggressive or neurologic
where it can be easily moni-
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tored.
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you how to utilize the Web-
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enabled programs and servic-
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story about his teenage lance contributor and the edi- is essential to have vaccina- sprayed. Not only is the smell
access.
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known as Baylisacaris colum- medical emergency. It is rec-
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