Agony of death –

Friday Khutbah

And the stupor of death will come in truth: "This is what you have been avoiding!"
And the Trumpet will be blown – that will be the Day whereof warning (had been
given) (i.e. the Day of Resurrection). And every person will come forth along with an
(angel) to drive (him) and an (angel) to bear witness. (It will be said to the sinners):
"Indeed you were heedless of this. Now We have removed from you, your covering,
and sharp is your sight this Day!" [50:19-22]

O Servants of Allaah! Fear Allah, Your Lord did not create you in vain and will
not leave you unavailing, so take provision from this life by which you can protect
yourself tomorrow.

The time of death is concealed and wishes are deceiving. Funerals pass by people,
and they prepare them, pray over the deceased, accompany them and carry them
to their final abode. You see people viewing them causally and perhaps they
might get slightly saddened or grieved, but very soon they become overwhelmed
again with the ravishment of this life and the heedlessness of living.

Respected brothers! Life is evidence against those who are heedless and their
days lead them to wretchedness. How can one hope for the reward in the
Hereafter without righteous deeds? How can someone wish to repent while being
heedless and hoping to live longer?

Woe to the people of heedlessness! When they are given something, they are not
satisfied and when they are deprived of anything, they become discontent. They
enjoin that which they do not do themselves and forbid what they do not refrain
from. They continuously criticize others and compromise with themselves.

O people! How many people trusted life but it betrayed them and how many
were assured by it, that were let down? How many swindlers got deceived in it?
And, how many arrogant people became degraded and honourable ones
humiliated by it? Power in this life alternates, it is never stable. Its sweetness
soon becomes bitter and its bitterness sweet. People of might become
overpowered. Life is short, the great things in it are few in number and this life
very soon turns out to be as though it never even existed. Its happiness eventually
turns into sorrow, health into sickness, and wealth into poverty. Its days are
deceiving and it commands people with evil. It consists of vanishing pleasures,

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afflicting adversities or death. Its structure is soon destroyed, people unite but
soon separate, and everything on earth turns into dust.

People of heedlessness are never satisfied, regardless of how much they may
accumulate. They do not achieve all they wish for and are not prepared for what
they are approaching. They collect but do not benefit from it, build that which
they will not live in and hope for things that they will never achieve. Allaah says
that which means:

“Let them eat and enjoy themselves and be diverted by (false) hope,
for they are going to know.” (Al-Hijr: 3)

One who wishes to live long, builds and demolishes and estimates but with a
wrong estimation. He says something but does not do it, plans but does not
implement them, and things happen which are the opposite to that which has
been planned. He does wrong and delays repentance, then death comes and then
he will not benefit from his deeds; his family and friends leave him and there are
no longer any excuses. Allaah says that which means,

“Then have you considered if We gave them enjoyment for years.

And then there came to them that which they were promised? They
would not be availed by the enjoyment which they were provided.”
(Ash-Shu’araa’: 205 – 207)

Oh people of heedlessness! O Muslim brothers and sisters! The Prophet

sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said in a Hadeeth:

“Abundantly remember the destroyer of pleasures (meaning

death)” (An-Nasaa’i). This is the advice of your Prophet Muhammad
sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam which consists of a few words but is concise; short
but effective. Indeed, he who remembers death as it should be remembered will
hold himself accountable and question himself about his deeds and aspirations.
But one who has a heedless heart, as Imaam Al Qurtubi, may Allaah have mercy
upon him, said: "Needs long speeches and embellished statements." Abundantly
remember the destroyer of pleasures, which will separate those who are united:

“None will remember it (meaning death) while in hardship but will

feel ease and while at ease but will feel disturbed”. (Tabaraani)

I swear by Allaah! Each one of us will come to an end, and each soul will die. The
earth will eat our flesh and drink our blood - just as we walk over it, eat from its
fruits and drink from its water. Then it becomes like Allaah says, which means:

‫وَنُفِخَ فِى ٱلصّورِ فَصَعِقَ مَن فِى ٱلسّمَـٰوٰتِ وَمَن فِى ٱلرْضِ إِلّ مَن شَاء‬
68:‫[الزمر‬ َ‫]ٱلُّ ُثمّ نُفِخَ فِيهِ أُخْرَىٰ فَإِذَا هُمْ قِيَامٌ يَنظُرُون‬

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 “And the Horn will be blown, and whoever is in the heavens and
whoever is on the earth will fall dead except whom Allaah wills.
Then it will be blown again, and at once they will be standing,
looking on.” (Az- Zumar: 68).

Your Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam stood at the edge of a grave and cried
as related in a Hadeeth; he then said:

“O my brothers! For this, prepare yourselves”. (Ibn Maajah) A man

asked the Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam: “Who is the most wise of
people O Messenger of Allaah?” He replied:

“The one who remembers death most often and the one who is well-
prepared to meet it; these are the wise; honourable in this life and
dignified in the Hereafter.” (Ibn Maajah & Tabaraani). In another
Hadeeth, he, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said:

((‫))الكيّس من دان نفسه وعمل لما بعد الموت‬

“The wise one is he who reproaches himself and acts in preparation

for what is after death.” (Ahmad)

Al Hasan, may Allaah have mercy on him, said:

“Death has exposed the reality of life and left no reason for one with a sound
mind to be happy in it."

Yunus Ibn ‘Ubayd said:

"The remembrance of death deprived us from enjoying our families and

wealth." Also, Mutarrif said:

"Death spoils for the people of pleasure, their enjoyment. So look for pleasure in
which there is no death. The people of Paradise do not die, so their lives will
become comfortable, and they do not become sick, so they live a pleasant,
eternal life.”

O Muslims! Remember death and all its hardships, the rattling of ones soul in the
throat and remember the terrifying screams one will give; for he who remembers
death often, Allaah will bless him with three things: immediate repentance,
contentment of the heart, and vigour for worship. Moreover, he who forgets
death will be afflicted with three things: delay in repentance, discontentment, and
laziness in worship.

Death is enough of a reason to break hearts, shed tears, destroy pleasures, divide
people and ruin all hopes. The dead are made to be lonely after having lived with

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their families; they live in darkness after having been in the light; in tightness
after having lived in wide space, and under the soil after having walked the earth.
They become bare-footed, naked and alone. The grave is their dwelling, dust is
their shroud, and mortal remains are their neighbors, who cannot hear a call nor
respond to it. They lived long and owned much, but it did not benefit them when
the command of their Lord came. So their homes became graves and what they
collected was lost. Their money went to their inheritors, their wives re-married
and what they were promised came to them. Allaah says that which means:

:‫[المؤمنون‬ َ‫أَفَحَسِبْتُمْ أَنّمَا خَلَقْنَـٰكُمْ عَبَثاً وَأَنّكُمْ إِلَيْنَا لَ تُرْجَعُون‬

115]
“Then did you think that We created you uselessly and that to Us
you would not be returned?” (Al-Mu’minoon: 115)

Have you ever thought, O servant of Allaah, about the day that you will die? - The
day that you cannot delay and in which regret will not benefit you? Remove the
cover of heedlessness from your heart for you will soon be standing before the
One who knows the whims and whispers of the hearts, Who asks about the
actions of the eyes and holds one accountable for what he hears. Allaah says that
which means:

18:‫[الحاقة‬ ٌ‫] َيوْمَئِذٍ تُعْرَضُونَ لَ تَخْفَىٰ مِن ُكمْ خَافِيَة‬

“That Day, you will be exhibited (for judgment); not hidden among
you is anything concealed..” (Al-Haaqqah: 18)

Contemplate death, for it prevents one from disobedience, softens a hard heart,
stops one from trusting this life and makes one feel ease at the time of hardships.
Remember death so that you may be saved at the time of regret. Al Hasan, may
Allaah have mercy on him, said:

.‫ سكرة الموت وحسرة الفوت‬:‫ ل يجتمع عليك خصلتان‬،‫يا بن آدم‬

‫احذر السـكرة والحسـرة يفجأك الموت وأنـت على غرة فل يصـف واصـف‬
.‫قدر ما تلقى ول قدر ما ترى‬
.‫احذر ل يأخذك ال على ذنب فتلقاه ول حجة لك‬
"O son of Aadam! Fear Allaah, and let two things not happen to you at the
same time: the hardships and agony of death, plus sorrow and regret. Beware
of agonies and regrets, for death will come to you suddenly and no one can
describe to you what you will face and see. Beware, so as not to die while in a
state of disobedience, otherwise you will meet Allaah with no excuse."

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Respected brothers! Where are those who are afraid of not having enough
provision? Where is he who is terrified of the lengthy distance of the journey and
hostility of the road? All he took from this life is an old garment and a morsel of
food. He was chaste through life, guided, and so little provision sufficed him. He
was ashamed of himself in front of his Lord, remembered death, and therefore
preserved his head (meaning his senses: eyes, ears and tongue) and stomach
(meaning did not eat or drink except that which is lawful). He sought the reward
of the Hereafter and gave up the adornments of this worldly life. He favored that
which is everlasting over that which is vanishing - this is indeed the wise and
clever one.

So fear Allaah, may Allaah have mercy on you, and be aware of Allaah, and
watchful of that which He entrusted you with. Remember that you will be
standing before your Lord, being judged according to your deeds and you will
regret your negligence. Allaah says that which means:

ِ‫كُلّ نَفْسٍ ذَائِقَةُ ٱلْمَوْتِ وَإِنّمَا تُوَفّوْنَ أُجُورَكُمْ يَ ْومَ ٱلْقِيَـٰ َمةِ فَمَن زُحْزِحَ عَن‬
ِ‫ٱلنّارِ وَأُدْخِلَ ٱلْجَنّةَ فَقَدْ فَازَ وَما ٱلْحَيَوٰةُ ٱلدّنْيَا إِلّ مَتَـٰعُ ٱلْغُرُور‬
3:185[ ]

“Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your (full)
compensation on the Day of Resurrection. So he who is drawn away
from the Fire and admitted to Paradise has attained (his desire).
And what is the life of this world except the enjoyment of delusion.”
(Aal ‘Imraan: 185)

O Muslims, repent to Allaah before death. The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa

sallam said:

"Hasten to do good deeds before you become busy. Are you waiting
for such penury which will make you unmindful of devotion? Or
such prosperity which will make you corrupt? Or such disease which
will disable you? Or such senility which will make you mentally
unstable? Or sudden death? Or the Dajjaal (Anti-Christ), who is the
worst apprehended (sign of the hour)? Or (are you waiting) for the
Hour? - that will be most grievous and bitter”. (At-Tirmidhi)

Now that you are aware of the suddenness of death, do not be like those who
hoped for the reward of the Hereafter without performing righteous deeds, and
who delayed repentance, due to the false hope of living longer.

Visit the graveyards frequently for it reminds one of the Hereafter, and take a
lesson from those who are under the earth and have lost connection with their
families and loved ones; death came to them at a time which they did not expect
and horror came to them in a way which they did not anticipate. Let he who visits

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the graves ponder and think of the situation of those who have passed away from
his friends. They gathered money and had a high hopes, but suddenly they lost all
their wishes and their wealth did not benefit them. The soil of the earth changed
the nice appearance of their faces and their bodies became scattered in their
graves. Their wives became widows and their wealth and homes were all
distributed. Allaah said, which means:

‫وَلَقَدْ جِئْتُمُونَا فُرَادَىٰ كَمَا خَلَقْنَـٰكُمْ أَوّلَ مَرّةٍ وَتَرَكْتُمْ مّا خَوّلْنَـٰكُمْ وَرَاء‬
6:94[ ْ‫ركُم‬ ِ ‫ظهُو‬ ُ]

“(It will be said to them), “And you have certainly come to Us alone
(i.e., individually) as We created you the first time, and you have left
whatever We bestowed upon you behind you.”(Al-An'aam: 94)

So, fear Allaah, may Allaah have mercy on you, and work for the Hereafter, for it
is a dwelling in which there is no death for its inhabitants. Its structure does not
wear out, youth does not age and its pleasure is never-ending. Its beauty,
enjoyment, and women do not change and its people live under the mercy of the
Most Merciful. Allaah says that which means:

ّ‫دَعْوٰهُمْ فِيهَا سُبْحَـٰنَكَ ٱللّهُمّ وَتَحِيّتُهُمْ فِيهَا سَلَمٌ وَءاخِرُ دَعْوَاهُمْ َأنِ ٱلْحَمْدُ لِّ رَب‬
11:10[ َ‫]ٱلْعَـٰلَمِين‬

“Their call therein will be, “Exalted are You, O Allaah,” and their
greeting therein will be, “Peace.” And the last of their call will be,
“Praise to Allaah, Lord of the worlds!” (Yoonus: 10)