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Chapter 9

Role-playing in the Garden

Fantasies that stay within your moral boundaries are a great way to add sizzle to your sex life. Role-playing allows both of you to explore and exceed your comfort zone in the protected environment of your relationship. You can be naughty or nice, hero or villain. Dress the part, set up the place, and create your lawful fantasy. For example, playing the roles of doctor and patient, along with the many others listed below, are ways to break free from the monotony of our day-to-day roles. Start with fantasies that are more in line with your personalities and then get more creative. Your imagination is the creative power; your faith and inner moral compass will set the boundaries. To start, one must discuss ones fantasies in a way that is not demeaning in any way to the other person.

Fantasies sometimes involve status or authority, and that imbalance adds to the experience, but could be a source of potential tension. Keep in mind how these imagined roles make him or her feel. Fantasies should be those that stretch the imagination. Any fantasy that could lead to adultery is sinful. We are accountable for both our thoughts and actions, and any thought that would be wrong to act out is off limits. It is preferable if you maintain your marital status in the fantasy, but just add some twist that makes it more exciting. Variety doesnt have to come in the number of sexual partners; it can come in time, place, technique, positions, and more.

Begin by imagining that you and your spouse are traveling to Fantasy Islanda place where most anything can happen and change at a moments notice. Bring the island to your bedroom with the right music,
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bikini, swimwear, suntan lotion, and island theme drinks with umbrellas. Pretend you are a tourist looking for a romance with a native in a grass skirt and coconut bra. Set scene with leis, grass skirts, and cardboard palm tree cutouts. Get tropical fruits like mango, papaya, pineapple, and coconuts, and cut them into small pieces to feed each other. Mix up a couple of pina coladas topped with hot pink paper umbrellas. A bottle of tropical massage oil for massages can start the conversation about what destination you both will travel to next.

For your Fantasy Island escapade, you can make your own aphrodisiac smoothie. The following are some basic ingredients you need. Create your own recipes after some experimentation. Just blend the ingredients and serve. Ingredients: 1/2 cup combination of papaya, mango, pineapple, berries, watermelon, banana 1/2 cup skim milk, or soy milk or coconut milk 1 tablespoon soy protein powder 1/2 cup ice

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Roles to Play

There are many kinds of roles you and your spouse can play. For instance, you can play master/mistress. Toss a coin to see who takes which role. The person that is not in a position of power has to carry our all actions asked of him or her. How about a priest/priestess and confessor? Set up two chairs with a sheet or net hanging between you both. Confessor says, Forgive me for I have sinned, and the priest/priestess job is to interrogate. After the person has confessed to repent, he or she is told, To repent for your sins you must, perform following naughty acts. Play the role of a seducer from Hollywood, and see if you have the cut to charm your spouse. You can sing in the rain or whatever your heart desires.

Geisha You can play cultural themes, for instance the Japanese Geisha. You can wear kimonos or colorful robes. Women can put powder on their face, red lipstick, and black eyeliner. Hang a wind chime and use a fan to turn it on. Use sandalwood or other Eastern scents.

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Bollywood Diva You can be a Bollywood dancing diva. Put on colorful sari, with a blouse underneath. Put on some Bollywood music and unwrap the Sari, and then the blouse and undergarments to turn your man wild.

Arabian Nights Maiden Another popular game is to take a story from the Arabian Nights, like Aladdin, Ali Baba, Sinbad, and use the language of those characters.

The dialogue around Open Sesame will open up your imagination. Create a royal bedroom or harem with satin sheets and luxurious accessories. Put a small rug or fur as your magic carpet. Meet your man at the door dressed like a genie or princess with the welcoming Your wish is my command. Do a belly dance for him.

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The following are some basic moves for belly dancing. You can find a lot more details in instructional videos and online.

Again there is no limit to the ideas; here are a few more roles to get your creative juices going.

25 Roles to Play 1. Fireman and Victim in the House 2. Maid and House Owner 3. Race Car Competitors 4. Strangers meeting in a public location like a train station 5. Secret Agent and the Femme Fatale 6. Interrogator and Captured Spy 7. Enemy Pirates 8. Sailors Lost at Sea 9. Doctor/Nurse and Patient 10. Knight and Captured Maiden 11. Executive and Secretary 12. Lawyer and Defendant 13. Belly Dancer and Audience Member 14. Japanese Geisha at Tea Ceremony 15. Bollywood Sari Diva 16. Hula Dancer and Hawaiian Drummer 17. Wrestlers playing in a pillow fight match 18. Pretend you and your spouse are on your first date 19. Foreign Exchange Student and Teacher 20. Batman and Catwoman 21. Teenagers trying not to get caught by their parents 22. Lead singer of a band and a groupie 23. Super hero and bystander. Dress in your favorite super hero costume 24. Teacher and student. One seduces the other. 25. Wild West town with outlaws and police officers

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