On 7 Steps

For Club Seduction

by Papa and Tyler Durden

Mystery thought out his model while we were in NYC. We'd talk about it 24/7. Basically, he combined the 13 steps with the shit from my 50 page spastic ramblings post, and came out with a 7-steps model. The reason that Mystery is so into these models and methods, is that he is like a PUA super computer. Whatever softwear you plug into Mystery will be instantly executed in field, with utmost frightening precision. For the rest of us PUA-mortals, this may still be found useful, so I will post it. This is from the top of my head, and probably not totally accurate. ===== VALUE: 1) OPEN: HB 10 / PUA 1 You are the NEXT GUY OF THE NIGHT to come hit on her.

2) NEGS, WORK THE GROUP: HB 1 / PUA 10 You SWAP values, by negging the chick, and demonstrating higher value to her OBLIQUELY through chatting her friends and showing yourself to be attractive. 3) QUALIFY - SAY TO THE TARGET "BEAUTY IS COMMON.. WHAT DO YOU HAVE THAT MAKES YOU STAND OUT?: HB 8 / PUA 10 The chick now has demonstrated herself as worthy at your request, and feels better about herself, having re-gained your acceptance. 4) RAPPORT: HB 8 / PUA 8 Now you divulge VULNERABILITIES and COMMONALITIES to bring yourself down to her level. You MEET at the rapport level, and CONNECT. 5) SEX: HB 10 / PUA 10 You get with the chick, and you both feel great for having found someone new. ---------By making a chick go from HATING you to LIKING you in such a short period of time, she is pushed through major drama-states. You stand out to her, because you were so larger-than-life (friends loved you, you had social proof, you conveyed attractive qualities to her obliquely through her friends), but then it turned out that she COULD indeed find connection with you. -TD The 7 steps are the foundation of how men and women interact from first meet to sex. The new Mystery Method is constantly in my head while I am interacting with women. It allows me to have a model in my head of when to shift gears from ATTRACT mode to QUALIFYING to RAPPORT to SEDUCE. Nice diagram, TD, especially how you use numbers to show the self-esteem levels of the HB and PUA. Although you have mastery of the Method, Id like to add a few critiques of the diagram and elaborate to more thoroughly explain the Mystery Method to the seduction community brothers on the board.

1. FIND [PUA (How HB Views PUA), HB (Her Self-Esteem level)] Look around and find a particularly attractive girl. If you are in a nightclub, you'll often find the worthy girl in groups. Ideally, pawn some girls off...make instant pivots...so you'll have some social proof. Pawning is especially useful in a 2-set, whether the pawn is a pivot or wing. If you are a particularly gorgeous guy, the HB may be immediately attracted to you. You may also find a lone wolf during the daytime, where simply opening is attractive and fascinating the the HB. In these cases, you usually start with RAPPORT mode. However, below are the steps most PUAs face in the bars/clubs. 2. APPROACH [PUA (5-6), HB (9-10)] Open her and/or her set and start the conversation. You may follow the Tao of Stevie with a NEO or one of TD's C&F opener or blow it up with something really unique (Mystery's magic, crappy sketch, or even dancing if on the dancefloor). [Check out my future Dance Club Method post for a linear D-floor system] When you open a girl at a bar of particularly high beauty, her value of herself will be high (in TD's graph...maybe a 10) and in her eyes, you will be lower than her (in TD's graph...maybe a 1...for generally exaggerated purposes). You must change this by shifting into ATTRACT mode. 3. ATTRACT [PUA (9-10), HB (5-6)] Demonstrate higher value with your sense of humor, confidence, attitude, creativity, and social proof...while simultaneously negging, teasing, using push/pull, takeaway body-language, and conveying your personality. Show that you are a wonderful guy, different from the rest. While you are demonstrating what a catch you are, the hot babe will give you more regard and respect. Simultaneously, you tease the girl and are playful, which shows that unlike most guys at the bar, you dont put her on a pedestalyou are the prize, not her. This will knock her off her pedestal fast. You do this right and you will be viewed as MONEY!!! C&F frames will definitely help you to build your value up above hers in the social dynamics of the nightclub/bar/group. Calibrate when you have done enough value conveyance and begin to qualify her. 4. QUALIFY [PUA (8-9), HB (6-7)] Demonstrate to the girl you notice something about her (other than her looks) attractive to you. You can do this with a compliment or simply open conversational threads about mutually important and fascinating topics. Let her know how much you are enjoying talking about with her. Do this if you genuinely find there is something about the girl that is attractive to you...if not, eject, buddy. After you have qualified her, the girl will feel like she has value to you and that you respect her as a person. Now, it's time to focus on deeper levels of rapport. 5. RAPPORT [PUA 7-8, HB (7-8)] Develop a common ground, share a secret and/or childhood experience, work on a "yes" ladder. When you find you share opinions, say "Me too!" Find out about who she is and lead the conversation with subjects that are fun to talk about. Elicit her values and be a good story-teller. It's time to show this girl that you have a lot in common, you are a conversationalist virtuoso, and share a positive attitude, spirit, and have a lot going for you that she wants to find out more about. You guys really like each other...kiss her...makeout...have fun...and seduce her.

6. SEDUCE [PUA (8-9), HB (8-9)] Get her isolated, phase-shift into sexual state if you haven't done this. If you've been making kissing...keep doing it. Project your sexuality. Make your SOI known. Escalate kino into more personal areas. Start thinking about where to have sex. Bring up sensual topics. If you know Speed Seduction, this is a good place to use those skills. If not, work on projecting your sexual state with your body language, confidence, and if congruent with your personality, you may want to go caveman, and lead the intereaction towards sex with your body language/kino. 7. SEX [PUA (10), HB (10)] It's time for the act...the inevitable...sex!!! This is where you both share the passion you have for each other. Be creative in bed, enjoy the experience, make it something that both of you can look back on and enjoy the memory of it. And, most importantly, use a condom. Now that you have had sex, both of you feel like 10s. It was an amazing experience that you both really wanted to have happen. Tell your sex partner that you really enjoyed the experience, thank her for sharing such a wonderful moment, and make the decision to keep it a one-night stand OR start the foundation for a successful relationship. Cheers, Papa