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Ice Breaker
Whos My Best Mentor in this group? Interview any 5 participants Ask them any 4 questions Write down your questions & their answers Score them on a scale of 1=low to 10=high Tell them your score Who has the highest total score in the group? What were the most important questions? What did we learn? Slide 2
Introduction
What is mentoring? Benefits of mentoring Mentor Skills Mentoring process Mentoring guidelines Mentor quotes Case studies
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Course Introduction
Course Facilitator Participants Course Objectives Your Objectives Course Schedule Ground Rules Logistics Any Questions?
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Individual Introduction
My Name What I like to be called My Greatest Success My work background What mentoring means to me My course expectations How I will use my mentoring skills
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Course Objectives
Aim: To provide information & practice skills needed in working as a mentor Objectives: Consider how to communicate effectively as a mentor Clarify how the mentoring programme works Explore support & resources
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Ground Rules Participation Interaction Confidentiality Mobile Phones Questions Manage Time Have Fun!
Review Slide 7
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Participation
Participation
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Having Fun
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Questions
Please Ask Questions Any Time Be ready to answer Any Aspect Develop your reasoning
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Introduction - Agenda
Introduction What is Mentoring? Benefits of Mentoring Mentor Skills Mentoring Process Mentoring Guidelines Mentor Quotes Case Studies
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Introduction What is mentoring? Benefits of mentoring Mentor Skills Mentoring process Mentoring guidelines
Mentor quotes
Case studies
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Exercise 1
In small groups discuss these questions & record the responses on flipchart. 1. What is mentoring? 2. What are the benefits of mentoring for mentors & mentees? 3. What skills and qualities do mentors need?
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What is mentoring?
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Mentoring Definition
A one-to-one, non-judgmental relationship, in which an individual mentor voluntarily gives his/her time to support and encourage another, the mentee. Organized relationship: (partners carefully selected) It is voluntary It is confidential Serves mentee needs
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Mentoring Definition
Mentoring is a means for sharing experience between two parties a two-way street with benefits for both sides Mentoring is actually a form of informal learning
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A mentor is
a good listener open to challenges non-judgemental non-intrusive 100% reliable 100% committed. constructive
trustworthy
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Introduction What is mentoring? Benefits of mentoring Mentor Skills Mentoring process Mentoring guidelines
Mentor quotes
Case studies
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Benefits of Mentoring
For Mentors: increasing personal effectiveness as a result of experiences as a mentor experiencing the satisfaction of helping mentees to gain clarity and achieve their goals becoming informed about the services & resources available to mentees in their area being able to use the experience on your CV to enhance your career prospects
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Benefits of Mentoring
For Mentors: interpersonal skills such as negotiating and listening communication skills, including clear oral communication report writing and recording skills target and goal setting skills confidence, self esteem and resourcefulness
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Benefits of Mentoring
For Mentees: Experiencing the positive effects of being deeply respected Having a clearer understanding of the issues that face them Becoming clearer about ways to solve difficulties
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Benefits of Mentoring
For Mentees: Realising that they have knowledge and skills regarding their situation Increased self esteem and confidence An increased sense of direction and purpose The acquisition and development of new skills
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The Mentor is
respectful genuine empathetic humble personal integrity quiet enthusiasm a good listener
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The Mentor is
constructive open to challenges non-judgemental non-intrusive trustworthy 100% reliable 100% committed
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Discussion Dos
Agree on the framework of the discussion. Maintain a constructive & supportive atmosphere and tone. Be certain you have all the necessary information. Encourage your mentee to reflect on her responses, performance, attitudes etc.
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Discussion Dos
Encourage trust and mutual responsibility. Be prepared to discuss and negotiate. Be comfortable with silences. Recognise when you dont have the skills to deal with a problem and find appropriate help and advice
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Discussion Donts
Allow outcome to dominate the process. Allow paperwork to dominate the discussion. Inhibit the mentee from talking. Be a know it all. Be bland or over-cosy
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Discussion Donts
Use inappropriate language. Pressure the mentee to adopt your own views. Appear rushed or pressed for time. Show extreme agreement or disagreement. Only praise or approve behaviour because it only conforms to your own standards.
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Exercise
In groups of three: Take turns to play mentee, mentor and observer This is the first or second meeting. Each person speaks for 5 mins with 2 minutes feeback and then swap over.
Mentoring Focus
Directing (Tell)
Intellectual / Skill Need Emotional Need
Coaching
Facilitating
Mentoring
Networking Counselling
Non-Directing (Ask)
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The Mentoring Focus Finding the right balance (Between Protg Needs and Mentor Approach)
Telling Intellectual / Skill Need Intellectual / Skill Need Directing (tell) Emotional Need Emotional Need
Mentor Approach
Coaching
Facilitating
Networking
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Styles of Mentoring
High Assertiveness
High Expressiveness
Low Expressiveness
Spirited
Tells
Systematic
Considerate
Low Assertiveness
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Style of Mentoring
Direct Spirited High Assertiveness
Tells
High Expressiveness
Low Expressiveness
Facilitation
Coaching
Hides Emotions
Mentoring
Asks
Shows Emotions
Networking
Counseling
Systematic
Low Assertiveness
Considerate
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Mentoring Styles
Style
Direct Spirited Description
High assertiveness, low expressiveness High assertiveness, high expressiveness.
Mentors By
Taking charge Inspiring Building group harmony Planning carefully
Systematic
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Mentoring Styles
Produces quick results Gets people moving Takes charge no matter how
challenging the situation Most Effective in crisis situations or rapidly changing situations in which bold action and quick decisions are needed
Direct Direct
Less Effective in situations requiring careful planning and in situations requiring tact and sensitivity to others feeling
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Mentoring Styles
Inspires others to develop fresh, new approaches Create a fun atmosphere by acting spontaneously
Spirited
Most Effective in situations in which people need to be motivated to develop fresh, innovative ideas. Less Effective in urgent situations in which deadlines must be met and in situations in which long-term planning is vital.
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Mentoring Styles
Provides a space for mentee to explore feelings Creates an opportunity for selfreflection and challenging
Considerate
Most Effective in situations in which people need to problem solve & deal with setbacks. Less Effective in situations which there is not enough time and the mentee is not relaxed
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Mentoring Styles
Makes decisions based on facts Asks for specific details Is analytical
Systematic
Most Effective in situations calling for careful, long-term planning, accuracy, and objective analysis.
Less Effective in situations requiring quick decision-making or flexibility because of ambiguity or interpersonal conflict.
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Habit 1 Be Proactive
Stimulus The Initial Reaction Model Response
Initial Reaction
Stimulus
Response
Choice
Understand First
Then
Be understood
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Questioning
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Exercise Paraphrasing
Listen Repeat in own words
Reflect emotion
Ask for confirmation
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Learning Styles
Understand and adapt to the learning style your protg
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Socrates
Answer
Mentor
Question
Mentee
Direction of learning
Answer
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The Activist
Testing new knowledge or skills immediately and then correcting
The Reflector
Thinking carefully about how to apply new learning before acting
The Theorist
Conceptualizing how the learning fits with coherent models and theories
The Pragmatist
Highly practical; only learns if new knowledge makes sense and can help achieve goals
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Goal Setting
Good stretch
For synergy
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Mentor quotes
What would you like to talk about today? You have said very little about X, but that seems to be central to this issue It seems you dont feel comfortable talking about this I went through a similar experience 25 years ago Tell me about your experience of What I understand youre saying is The way you are talking now reminds me of the time I Lets look at the pros & cons of this option. Lets explore this issue some more Shall we start by recapping on our previous meeting?
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Boundaries
Boundaries help the mentor and mentee to know exactly where they stand on issues of confidentiality, conduct and working limits. If boundaries are not clear this could cloud the development of the relationship. An example of a boundary is time: mentors need to be reliable and consistent.
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Boundaries
Your relationship should be friendly and supportive. You should not get over emotionally involved. You should not be a bank or a taxi service. Your mentee may want to give you a thank you gift at the end of the mentoring relationship and while you wont be expecting this, it is fine to accept.
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Boundaries
You should never give or loan money Do not gossip, but be aware that if something serious is raised you are obliged to seek advice. Always be aware of your personal safety when visiting your mentee at home and leave if you are not comfortable. You should not become involved in complex personal, domestic, or political issues with the mentee.
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Boundaries
You should not talk about the personal/intimate areas of your life. You should not provide advice on anything that is beyond your knowledge or skills.
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Types of questions
Open: To gather information and opinions Probing: To explore and extend Summary: To check/clarify what has been said Reflective: To get views and opinions
Types of questions
Factual: To get facts Comparison: To explore similarities and differences Hypothetical: To think more widely
Mentor/Mentee Contract
This contract is to encourage both Mentor and Mentee to think about the relationship and what you expect from the mentoring process. Some examples of mutual agreements are: Attend all mentoring sessions as agreed Arrive on time for mentoring sessions Let each other know if there are any changes to the arrangements Respect confidentiality Add your own: Contract Points Mentors Name Mentees Name Signature Date
SUPPORT NETWORKS
Mentoring is about enabling and supporting others. The notion of support needs looking at closely. All of us have people and other sources of support to which we can turn when we need it. But what one person finds supportive another may find inhibiting.
SUPPORT NETWORKS
family member partner
work colleague
doctor
health visitor
Mentoring Tools
Mentoring Wheel Mentee Assessment Form Mentor objectives & targets
MENTORING WHEEL OF LIFE Physical Environment Career Fun and Recreation Finances Health and Fitness Personal Development Significant Other / Romance Friends and Family Our life can be represented by the eight areas above. When they are all in balance we feel fulfilled and successful. Assess how fulfilled you feel in each area by drawing a straight or curved line in each segment to create a new outer edge. The centre of the wheel represents 0 ie no fulfillment and the outer edge equals 10 ie complete fulfillments.
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Socrates
Answe r Mentor
Question
Mentee
Direction of learning
Answer
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