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I would give my entire fortune in exchange for a successful marriage.

You dont get hugged Christie by the RockBrinkley and Roll Hall of Fame, he says, and you dont have children with the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. I want what everybody else wants: to love and to be loved, and to have a family.

Billy Joel

Is a professor of Human Development and Family Studies in the College of Human Environmental Sciences at the University of Alabama

If you live in a strong family, please contact us. We know a lot about what makes families fail. We need to know more about what makes them succeed.

Secrets of Strong Families

6 Secrets of Strong Families


1. Commitment!

TNIV

Mark 10:9 Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate."

Mark 10:9

NLT

1 Corinthians 7:27 If you have a wife, do not seek to end the marriage. If you do not have a wife, do not seek to get married.

Strong families are determined to make it work;

Weak families sit back wondering if its going to work!

6 Secrets of Strong Families


1. Commitment!

2. Time together!

(Gen 2:24 KJV) Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

(Eph 5:15 KJV) See then that ye walk circumspectly, (BE CAREFUL ) not as fools, but as wise,

(Eph 5:16 KJV) Redeeming the

time, because the days are evil.

Strong families make time to be together; Weak families spend time on other things!

6 Secrets of Strong Families


1. Commitment!

2. Time together!

When 1500 children were asked, What do you think makes a happy family?,they didnt list money, cars, or nice homes.

They simply answered: Doing things together!

6 Secrets of Strong Families


1. Commitment! 2. Time together!

3. Appreciation!
(Eph 4:29 KJV) Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.

Strong families build one another up; Weak families tear one another down.

Number-One Predictor of Divorce?

Disrespect!!!

If I had to do it over again, Id still marry you. I couldnt get you out of my mind today. I will always love you. I can always count on you. Im so proud to be married to you. Im sorry. I was wrong. You make every day brighter.

Like a diamond You Sparkle Youre Strong and Enduring Youre Priceless! Like a diamond I like to take you with me when I leave the house And show you off in public. You make me proud! Like a diamond I like you next to my body! They say, Diamonds are forever. Honey, you are the diamond in my life!

One mother wrote saying,


Each night we go into the childrens bedrooms and give each a big hug and kiss. Then we say, You are really good kids and we love you very much.We think its important to leave that message with them at the end of the day.

Secrets of Strong Families


1. Commitment! 2. Time together! 3. Appreciation!

4. Communication!

6 Secrets of Strong Families

(Prov 25:11 KJV) A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.

Secrets of Strong Families


1. 2. 3. 4. Commitment! Time together! Appreciation! Communication!

5. Spiritual faith!
(Psa 127:1 KJV) A Song of degrees for Solomon. Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.

People who attend church even once a month increase their chances of staying married. Religion provides couples with a shared sense of values, ideology and purpose in life.

Secrets of Strong Families


1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Commitment! Time together! Appreciation! Communication! Spiritual faith!

6. Coping with crisis!

6 Secrets of Strong Families


1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Commitment! Time together! Appreciation! Communication! Spiritual faith!

6. Coping with crisis!


Naked I came from my mothers womb, and naked I shall return there. Job 1:21

6 Secrets of Strong Families


1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Commitment! Time together! Appreciation! Communication! Spiritual faith!

6. Coping with crisis!


The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Job 1:21

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