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You Inspire It
and
Context
security
a strategy of ego
social standing and expectations
attachment strategy
feeling needed
economic strategy
All I Want is a
Billionaire, Bisexual,
Nymphomaniac Chef
.. (whos enlightened)
Homo Inspiratum
- Claire W. Graves
Spiral Dynamics
My working hypothesis
Anything less than living from your
inspired self sells your evolving
love/life short
Identity?
so that
Step #1
Step #2
Inspire Her With
Your Relationship Skills
Step #3
Support Her Expansion
into Her Inspired Life
www.AdamGilad/Inspired
Category #1
In The World
The Inspired Man
Inspires Love
by Living an Inspired Life
(* EDGE beyond mental filters)
Category #2
In her world
The Inspired Man
Inspires Love With
Inspiring Partnership
Skills
Applied Character
Safety
Felt and Seen
Validated and Valued
Special and Unique
Cherished
Category #3
For Her World
(* beyond her mental filters)
Dianne
Ive been inspired by the feeling of
being safe and looked out for.
There's nothing more sexy and
inspiring that a man who's got it
handled
(Physical Competence, Relationship
Skills, Safety)
Deb
My short answer is: His Mind. That's
typically the biggest turn on for me. It both
inspires me and excites me to BE a better me
and think bigger, be better, and reach levels I
never imagined as a little farm girl just
wanting to escape my town and travel the
world.
(Intellectual)
*opens new landscapes
Annie:
I fell in love with Eben at Burning Man
when he was giving a talk about he
future of mankind
Mariana:
His brain, his spirituality, his
commitment to his work.
Athleticism. And math skills
Samira
Passion for what he creates in the
world for the greater good this is a
contagious joy and an inspiration. If
there is a level of mastery within the
creative realm, this makes him
sexier still
(Social, Creative)
Trez
I have been inspired by men who can be
strong, independent, respected leaders in
their community, work and family while being
tender and passionate with me. l I can respect
and honor him for his strength and feel safe
and cared for when we are together. Having
this man in my life inspires me to really step
into my beauty, grace, power, love and joy.
(Social, Partnership skills) * threshold
Katja
Doing the Work that is "him" and of a high
integrity and impact (there is always impact if
there is purpose) to me is a huge eye catcher.
I simply adore such men as I know they Love
humanity. Obvious Masculinity is a huge one,
I personally Love Masculine Men. And the
way he treats me. If he is present, this means
worlds. If he cares to learn and grow another big turn on.
*Character, Social, Relationship skills,
Intellectual/Emotional growth)
Sarah
I am inspired by A. because he is
HONEST. He is so genuinely kind and
good that it feels innocent. I can and
always could see that in his eyes,
and then in his loving nature. It
inspired my trust which #1. Then, he
is fun
First Level:
Second Level:
The surge of freedom the ability
and desire to self-express that
women experience when they are
inspired by their man
Phase 1: Attract
Physical Realm
The Oxygen of Sex
Egobonking
Trust
Cocky/Funny
Indifference
Status
Electric Contrast
Erotic Forward Pacing
Kindness
Generosity
Purpose
Friendships
Passion
Empathy
Vulnerability
1st Oxygen:
Desired, Infatuated/Physical
Face of Love
Three Things..
(1) what you do in the World
(2) what you do in her World
(3) what you do for HER World
1st:
What Inspiration Is
2nd:
How You Can Turn it On and Up
in the world, in her world,
for her world
more than
Connected to grandeur
Business Secrets of the Trappist Monks: One CEOs Quest for Meaning and
Authenticity, August Turak
How do We Wake Up
Our Most Inspired Selves?
#1:
How Can You Be Inspired in
Your Physical Life?
(1) achievement
(2) capability
(3) fitness, flexibility, endurance
(4) performance
(5) healing/recovery
(6) craft, home skills
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*
*
Inspired Sight
To see the universe in a grain of
sand
Scale of space and time
We are a visual species shortterm thinking long term problems.
Wake up to art, nature, patterns,
beauty
Sense of Smell
Sense of Hearing
Sense of Taste
Sense of Touch
Ever refining subtlety...
* Connected to environment
* How You Move Through Space
* Do you feel the joy of being alive
#2
How Can You Be More Inspired
in Your Financial Life?
#3:
How Can You Be More Inspired
in Your Intellectual Life?
#4
How Can You Be More Inspired
in Your Social Life?
#5:
How Can You Be More Inspired
in Your Emotional Life?
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#6:
How Can You Be More Inspired
in Your Sexual Life?
* Prowess
* Presence
* Erotic Connoisseur
* 24 Hour Foreplay
* Expanding your sexuality into
life-eros
#7:
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How Can You Be More Inspired
in Your Creative Life?
* The arts
* Your living environment
* Your self expression
* What havent you expressed?
#8:
How Can You Be More Inspired
By Your Playful (Fun) Life?
#9:
How Can You Be More Inspired
in Your Spiritual Life?
dco
But rather as
an expression of
love-ego your love of being
alive and a part of the ongoing
evolutionary expression of
the Life Force
Safe Special
Sexy Feminine
SAFE
Your Unique:
Shadow
Fears
Voice
Self
Aspirations
Unexpressed Self
Wounds
Sexy
Proust
Inner-Outer Connection
Infinite Praise
Special
Feminine
Love is not
a slice of the pie.
It IS the pie
AdamGilad.com/Inspired