Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Intimate Relationships
Close relationship
you offer and are offered
validation
understanding
sense of being valued
intellectually, emotionally and
physically
Characteristics
Behavioral Interdependence
mutual impact on each other
daily activities intertwined
grow together
missed if gone
Characteristics
Need Fulfillment
approval/sense of purpose.
need for intimacy - share feeling
social integration (worries and
concerns).
being nurturant - someone to take
care of.
need for assistance - help when
needed.
affirmation of worth - we matter.
Characteristics
Emotional attachment
Emotional Availability
to give and receive
emotionally
without the fear of
being hurt or
rejected
times to be less
emotionally available
- recovery from loss
Enjoyment
Acceptance
Trust
Respect
Mutual Assistance
Confiding
Understanding
Spontaneity
LOVE
Companionate:
family/close friends
relationship - common
interests/attached/wellbeing/express
reciprocal liking & respect
Passionate:
state of high
arousal/ecstasy of love - agony
of rejection
Passionate Love..
concept of Falling in Love excepted
by culture
suitable love Objectmust
be presented
Object
taught attributes to seek out - parents,
peers, pop culture..
physiological arousal in presence of
person!
Committed Relationships
Feeling of love or sexual
attraction
and a committed
relationship.?
Love without
Sex without
Committed - intention to
perpetuate wellbeing of the
other person, yourself and the
relationship
Success in Committed
Relationships
Marriage - success
based on how long the
couple stays together
Cohabitation - meets
others situations and
needs
Both can be healthy
and successful
Success in Committed
Relationships
Partnering Scripts - what is expected
from society / passed along from
parents - marry and have children
Accountability - responsibility for
personal decisions, choices and
actions
Self-nurturance - developing
individual potential / realistic
/appreciation for self-worth and
ability
Ending a Relationship
The Warning Signs!
Communication breakdown
lack of interest
emotional confrontations
feelings of being unappreciated
/ unwanted / unloved
Autonomy -self-care /
emotionally, socially, and
physically
Deciding to Break Up
Troubled couples decide
relationship not worth
saving
Difficult - strong
emotions, pain, guilt,
revenge, hurt, confusion,
worthlessness
Seek support and help to
cope
XX a Female / XY a Male
Gonads - reproductive
organs / male (testes) or
female (ovaries)
Puberty - sexual maturation
Pituitary Gland - controls
release of hormones from
gonads
Secondary sex characteristics
- associated with gender but
not reproduction
Sexual Expression
What are your Options?
Celibacy - a person not involved in
sexual relationships
Autoerotic behaviours - sexual selfstimulation
Sexual Fantasies - sexually arousing
thoughts and dreams
Masturbation - self-stimulation of
genitals
Erogenous zones - areas of the body
both male and female that when
touched create sexual stimulation
Sexual Expression
Cunnilingus - oral
stimulation of the
female genitals
Fellatio - oral
stimulation of males
genitals
Anal Intercourse
insertion of the penis
into the anus
Sexual Expression
Vaginal Intercourse insertion of penis
into the vagina
Variant Sexual
Behaviour - sexual
behaviours not
commonly practiced