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Communication Skills
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Contents
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Effective Communication
Effective Productive
Communication Relationship
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The Success Sequence
Our values
Our Beliefs
(self esteem Effective
and self image) Communication
Our thoughts
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The Success Sequence
Our values,
beliefs, and
thoughts
Self-
What we say fulfilling
and do prophecy
Results
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We communicate to……
• Get information
• Motivate
• Cheat
• Praise
• Make arrangements
• Give advice
• Sell
• Greet
• Abuse
• Etc
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Verbal, vocal and visual
Verbal :
The message that
we deliver
Communication Vocal :
The voice that we
convey
Visual :
Our body language
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Studies tell 70 % of mistakes in the
workplace are a direct result of poor
communication…..
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Causes of Communication Difficulties:
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Causes of Communication Difficulties:
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Communication failures can cause…..
• Loss of business
• Mistakes, inefficiencies
• Lowered productivity
• Poor coordination and cooperation
• Damaged personal or company image
• Frustration, hostility
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Communication failures can cause…..
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Some Common Communication Filters
• Premature evaluation
• Prejudice
• Inattention
• Stereotyping
• Assumption
• Generalizing
• Poor listening skills
• Fixed ideas
• Preconceptions
• Ignoring or distorting information contrary to our beliefs
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Basic Communication Principles
Everything we do is communication
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Basic Communication Principles
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Communication Trilogy
Mutual
respect
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Give Good Information
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Give Good Information
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7 Positive Principles for
Cooperative Communication
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7 Positive Principles for
Cooperative Communication
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7 Positive Principles for
Cooperative Communication
5. Say what you want,
want not what you don’t want
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Assertive Communication
• Make statements that are honest, clear,
Verbally, brief, and to the point
assertive • Use “I” statement : I’d like, I appreciate,
people : I think
• Distinguish between fact and opinion
• Ask, don’t tell
• Offer improvement suggestions, not
advice and commands
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Assertive Communication
• Offer constructive criticism, free of blame,
Verbally, assumptions, and ‘shoulds’
assertive • Ask questions to find out the thoughts
people : and feelings of others
• Respect the rights of others as well as
your own rights
• Communicate mutual respect where the
needs of two people conflict, and look for
mutually acceptable solutions
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Assertive Communication
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Assertive Communication
• Maintain open, steady, relaxed facial
Non
expressions, smiling when pleased,
Verbally,
frowning when angry
assertive
people : • Speak a steady, even pace,
emphasizing key words, with few
awkward hesitations
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Manage your body language
• Sit or stand at right angles and on the same level, and
respect people’s personal space zones
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Manage your body language
• Maintain appropriate eye contact while listening to
encourage the speaker; increase eye contact to apply
pressure; reduce it to lower pressure
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Gather Good Information with
your EARs
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Exploring Questions
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Closed vs. Open Questions
Did you like the candidate? In what ways do you think that
candidate meets our need?
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Some Probing Questions
• For instance?
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Active Listening
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Benefits of Active Listening
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5 Active Listening Skills
• Paraphrasing meanings: Translate into your own words
what the speaker has said
• Reflecting facts:
facts briefly summarize the content, or factual
aspects, of what the speaker has said.
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5 Active Listening Skills
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To listen more effectively…..
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Bad Habits of Poor Listeners
• Interrupting
• Jumping to conclusions
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Good Habits of Effective Listeners
• Looking at the speaker in order to observe body language and
pick up subtle nuances of speech
• Asking questions
• Letting people finish what they are saying before giving their
opinion
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When receiving/listening feedback
• Listen, don’t resist
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When receiving/listening feedback
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When receiving/listening criticism
• Make sure your self image stays positive.
positive
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Thank you
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