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4 possible communication
styles
Attack,
Dominate,
Threaten
Inform,
Persuade,
Direct
Aggressive
Assertive
Passive
Responsive
Question,
Listen,
Summaris
e
Withdraw,
Silent,
Apologise
Characteristics
Assertive
Responsive
Inform
In Control
Convince
Persuade
Influence
Question
Explore
Summarise
Listen
Empathise
Aggressive
Passive
Dominate
Sarcastic
Patronise
Attack
Put down others
Dismissive
Assertive - Responsive
WIN / WIN
Relaxed
Non-threatening
WIN / LOSE
Closed posture
Tense
Aggressive - Passive
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Listening skills
Start-up Effect
(Strong Introduction)
Recency Effect
(Strong Summary/
Ending)
Impact
Repetition
Time
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Work at listening
Resist distractions
Exercise your mind
Keep your mind open
Capitalise on the fact that
thought is faster than
speech
Active listening
Active listening
Showing empathy
Yes, I agree
Uh huh, I see
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2013
I think
youre great
Ref!
Questioning techniques
Open Questions
What, Where, When, Who,
Why, How
To get the candidate talking
and open up discussion
Closed Questions
Did, Can, Was, Were, Is
To confirm facts and close
down discussion
Probe Questions
Why did that happen?
How did that affect you?
To get behind the first answer
Reflective Questions
Do you prefer X or Y?
Remember...
Prejudice is a great time
saver.
It enables you to form
opinions without having to
gather the facts.
(Anon.)