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FAMILY DISPUTES
RESOLUTION MECHANISMS
Special approach to family disputes litigation
Adversarial procedure: too technical, expensive, time consuming, creates
bitterness
In-camera proceedings
ADR
the real purpose of judicial separation is to enable the spouses, now relieved of
their matrimonial duties towards each other, to reconsider their position, taste
single living againand attempt a less emotional and urgent atmosphere to
piece their lives & their futures together once again.
It is, frankly the remedy appropriate to couples who, after a fair trial of marriage
find each others society unbearable It may be that after the chief cause of the
trouble is over, the couple can see their way to coming together again & the
decree can rescinded.
MUSLIM
LAW
IDA 1869
PMDA 1936
SMA 1954
No Provision
SS. 22-26
Ss. 23, 27
1 year limit
Iddat period
Non-resumption
of cohabitation
NOT a ground for
divorce
1 year limit
1 year limit
Adultery
Cruelty
Desertion for
min. 2 yrs.
Same grounds
as divorce
Same
grounds as
divorce
Same
grounds as
divorce
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN
DIVORCE & JUDICIAL
SEPARATION
Divorce
Judicial Separation
Soft remedy
cruelty
IS DIVORCE NECESSARY?
Cheshire, The International Validity of Divorces:
WHAT IS DIVORCE?
Latin divortium, to turn aside/ separate
Golden Key to the Legal Cage of Marriage
Permanent Legally Binding Termination of Marriage
Dissolution of a marriage contracted between a man and a woman by the
THEORIES OF DIVORCE
Fault Theory
1. Fault of one party entitles the other to seek divorce
2. One party is innocent, the other is at fault
Consent Theory
1. No fault on either side
2. As the parties are free to enter into the marriage bond, they should be free to
exit
Irretrievable Breakdown of Marriage
1. Incompatibility of temperament
2. Profound & lasting disruption
DMMA 1939
IDA 1869
PMDA
1936
SMA 1954
Adultery
(s. 497, IPC)
S. 13(1)(i)
S. 2(viii)(b)
Ss. 10(1)(i)
S. 32(d)
within 2 yrs
S. 27(1)(a)
Cruelty
(s. 498-A, IPC)
S. 13(1)(i-a)
S. 2(viii)
S. 10(1)(x)
S. 32(dd)
S. 27(1)(d)
Desertion
S. 13(1)(i-b)
2 yrs
S. 2(iv)
3 yrs
S. 10(1)(ix)
2 yrs
S. 32(g)
2 yrs
S. 27(1)(b)
2 yrs
S. 13(1)(iii)
S. 2(vi)
2 yrs
S. 10(1)(iii)
2yrs
S. 32(bb)
Within 3 yrs
S. 27(1)(e)
Venereal disease in a
communicable form
S. 13(1)(v)
S. 2(vi)
S. 10(v)
2 yrs
S. 32(e)
Within 2 yrs
S. 27(1)(f)
S. 13(1)(ii)
S. 10(1)(ii)
S. 32(j)
within 2 yrs
Not a
Ground
S. 13(1)(iv)
S. 2(vi)
S. 10(1)(iv)
2 yrs
Not a
Ground
S. 27(1)(g)
S. 13(1)(vii)
7 yrs
S. 2(i)
4 yrs
S. 10(1)(vi)
7 yrs
S. 31
7 yrs
S. 27(1)(h)
7 yrs
S. 13(2)(ii)
Not a Ground
S. 10(2)
S. 32(d)
S. 27(1-A)(i)
S. 13(1-A)(i)
Not a Ground
S. 10(1)(viii)
S. 32-A(1)(ii)
S. 27(2)(ii)
Imprisonment
Not a
Ground
S. 2(iii)
7 yrs
Not a Ground
S. 32(f)
7 yrs(after
S. 27(1)(c)
7 yrs
DMMA
1939
IDA
PMDA
1936
SMA 1954
Repudiation of Marriage
S. 13(2)(iv)
S. 2(vii)
Not a
Ground
Not a
Ground
Not a Ground
S. 13(1-A)(i)
1 yr
Not a
Ground
Not a
Ground
S. 32-A(1)(i)
1 yr
S. 27(2)(i)
1 yr
Not a
Ground
No Provision
S. 10(1)(vii)
S. 32(a)
Not a Ground
Bigamy
S. 13(2)(i)
Not a
Ground
Not a
Ground
S. 32(d)
Not a Ground
Not a
Ground
No Provision
Not a
Ground
S. 32(b)
Not a Ground
Not a
Ground
S. 2(ii)
Not a
Ground
Not a
Ground
Not a Ground
Not a
Ground
No Provision
No Provision
S. 32(c)
Not a Ground
Grievous Hurt
Not a
Ground
Not a
Ground
Not a
Ground
S. 32(e)
Within 2 yrs
Not a Ground
Not a
Ground
Not a
Ground
Not a
Ground
S. 32(h)
Not a Ground
ADULTERY
Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person of
opposite sex, the two person not being married to each other
Post-marriage lapse
Voluntary
Burden of Proof on the person alleging adultery
Direct/ circumstantial evidence leading to inferences / confession/ birth of a
child of which the husband couldnt have been the father due to nonaccess (strict proof needed)
CRUELTY
Old English law: Husband could correct his wife by beating
Holmes v. Holmes, (1755) 2 Lee: 161 ER 283:
Husband used to abuse & assault his wife. He insisted upon sexual intercourse in
the presence of two men, & threatened that if she refused, the men would hold
her down. When she escaped through the window, the men followed her at the
instance of the husband and dragged her back by her hair. In spite of all this,
the wife was held not to be entitled to any relief on the ground of
cruelty.
Manu: Husband should beat his wife only with a rope/ split bamboo, so that
& not acc. To rigid tenets of Manu & other law givers of bygone ages.
S. 498A, IPC
Any wilful conduct of such nature as is likely to drive a woman to suicide /or
coercing her/ any person related to her, to meet any unlawful demand for
any property/ valuable security
a sari! rejected
Wife making her grievance in a loud voice not amounting to
cruelty
Husband complained of cruelty from wife: removing mangalsutra
& kumkum, throwing bangles; despite this, he lived with her for
four years and had two children. No cruelty
Used to force wife to adopt American lifestyle, asking her to wear particular
type of clothes, drink wine, mix with his friends, against her wishes, & on
days when she used to observe religious fasts, he used to bring home
chicken, beef & pork & force her to eat them.
Held - cruelty
cruelty
looking after him when he was hospitalised due to accident, subjecting him
to insults & threats even when he was in injured state cruelty
Wifes close connection with another man, her adamant behaviour & suicidal
tendencies
Wife left her husband leaving behind a 2-month old baby, refused to either
return or keep the child with her, child died soon after her leaving
threats to implicate in false criminal cases & merciless beating of children. When
she was pregnant with 4th child, she pushed her 3 children in the well & jumped
after them. while she could be rescued, the children died.
EXAMPLES OF CRUELTY
Removing of mangalsutra when husband still alive is cruelty Do you agree?
Wife refused to prepare tea for her husbands friends + lodged false report on
non-bailable offences against him & his relatives + got rid of her pregnancy:
Cruelty
Forcing a partner to a sexless life damages the physical & mental health of that
partner cruelty
Impotency is cruelty
Husband in his letter to his wife uses vulgar & undesirable language like
Wife comparing husband to barking dog, filing cases against him, allegations of
Allegations of the wife that the husband, who was a practising advocate, was a
lunatic & that there was a streak of insanity running throughout his family: mental
cruelty
G. V. N. Kameswara Rao v. Jabili, AIR 2002 SC 575:
Husband, highly qualified person with 2 doctorates, wife a lecturer, litigating for 15
years: wife quarrelling, behaving in an insulting manner, humiliating the husband
in the presence of outsiders & creating scenes, not doing any household work,
refusing to share bed, etc., filing criminal complaints that she was badly beaten by
husband & his mother
Levelling disgusting accusations of unchastity against the wife by the
she refused to take care of him, she humiliated him in front of her father.
wife
CRUELTY
Intensity, gravity & stigmatic impact of cruelty when meted out even once & the deleterious
effect of cruelty on the mental attitude, necessary for maintaining a conducive matrimonial
home are taken into consideration while granting divorce/ JS
undesirable behaviour of his/her parents or other relatives towards the other spouse, cannot
be completely absolved of the charge of cruelty.
Wife being a victim of gang-rape is NOT cruelty towards husband (Rajesh Kumar Singh v.
CRUELTY - CONCLUSION
Bidyut Kumar Saha v. Tapa Saha, AIR 2007 Gau 1:
Husband filed petition for divorce on ground of cruelty with allegations such as wife
singing hindi cinema songs, spending long time in the bathroom, talking over
telephone with somebody unknown to husband, having tumour on head, offensive
smell coming from mouth, weak memory, etc. NOT cruelty
Sanjay Yadav v. Anita Yadav, AIR 2007 P&H 136:
Husband discovered that his wife was one-and-a-half years older than him filed
for divorce Rejected
Cruelty is a defence in a suit for RCR.
Cruelty is a reasonable ground for wife to seek separate residence and
maintenance
DESERTION
Total repudiation of the obligation of the marriage
Factum of Desertion
Intention to bring cohabitation permanently to an end (animus deserendi)
Absence of Consent
Absence of conduct giving reasonable cause to the spouse leaving the
matrimonial house
case
INGREDIENTS OF
DESERTION:
Factum of Desertion
Animus deserendi
Absence of Consent
Absence of conduct reasonably causing the spouse to desert
Should be there for the min. statutory period prescribed
Desertion may be put to an end by resuming cohabitation, before divorce.
Plaintiff to prove desertion
Constructive desertion: party creating an environment for the other party
to leave
Desertion is not separate living; couple living under the same roof might
SAVITRI PANDEY V.
PREMCHAND PANDEY,
(2002) 2 SCC 73
Desertion for the purpose of seeking divorce under the Act means the
harassment for dowry, it was held that it is not the wife but the husband
who is guilty of desertion.
The cause to leave the spouse must be sufficiently grave & weighty so as
Mere living away from a spouse (for whatever duration) without intention to
If one party impels, by his/her conduct, the other to leave the home, it
GEETA MANGTANI V.
JAGDISH MANGTANI, AIR
2005 SC 3508
Wife was a school teacher working at Gandhidham earning about Rs. 8000
p.m. and the husband was working in Mumbai earning Rs. 1400 p.m.
Wife left the matrimonial home 7 months after marriage for delivery &
never returned
She insisted that unless & until the husband starts earning more & removes
KRISHNABAI V.
PUNAMCHAND, AIR 1967 MP
200
Wife had problems with her sister-in-law, she was prepared to live with the
husband only if he lived separate from his parents. This was construed as
unreasonable and the wife was held to be in desertion.
CONVERSION
After conversion, the convert will be governed by a different personal law
Conversion could mean a radical change in the personality of the convert
Its a ground for divorce in all personal laws, for the non-convert spouse
Only among Muslims it will result in automatic dissolution of marriage
on the ground of cruelty. In the petition, he set out his religion as Muslim at
the time of filing the same.
Even after conversion, the converted party can get divorce on any other
READING OF RELEVANT
GROUNDS OF DIVORCE IN
THE BARE ACTS
MUSLIM LAW
IDA
PMDA 1936
SMA 1954
S. 13-B
S. 23(1)(bb)
S. 14
S. 10-A
S. 32-B
S. 28
Minimum
separate
living for
1 year
2 motions
with a gap
of 6-18
months
Talaq by Husband:
Separation
1) Talaq-al-Sunnat:
for 2 yrs
a) Talaq Ahasan (during tuhr)
b) Talaq Hasan (3 months)
2) Talaq-ul-Biddat (triple talaq)
3) Ila (vow of celibacy for 4 months)
4) Zihar (unjust comparison)
1 yr separation
period
No need of 2
motions with
time gap
Same as HMA
Voluntary
Free consent
Talaq by Wife:
1) Talaq-e-tafwid (delegated
divorce)
Same as HMA
Petition of
fault ground
can be
Same as HMA
was challenged as arbitrary, & ultra vires Arts. 14 & 21, Constitution of
India
Separation period under other personal laws is 1 yr, hence infringes Right
to Equality
SURESHTA DEVI V. OM
PRAKASH, AIR 1992 SC 1904
WHETHER CONSENT CAN BE UNILATERALLY WITHDRAWN?
YES. Consent not irrevocable. It can be revoked before the 2 nd motion
Petitioner married respondent in 1968. They split after 6-7 months. From
1984-85, they started living together due to court orders, after which they
applied for divorce by mutual consent.
After this, wife alleged that her consent was taken fraudulently, due to
HC Consent is irrevocable
SC Consent can be revoked.
than withdrawal
influence, etc.
reason for his action, literally at his whim, even in a jest, or under compulsion, or to please someone,
or in a state of voluntary intoxication, even when no one is present (Sunnis)
He wrote to B from Africa asking her to come to Africa, but he didnt send
It was held that the husband had neglected/ had failed to provide
accordance with the injunctions of the Koran within the meaning of S.2(viii)
(f), DMMA
Formalities:
Oral divorce under Sunni law: Audience is necessary even if it be of just one
person
No need of talaq nama
The utterance of the word should be clear & specific
Wife neednt be informed immediately
Shias require 2 witnesses while giving talaq
Even after uttering talaq, wifes right to maintenance continues till she
TALAQ-A-HASAN: BEST
FORM OF TALAQ
Affords the husband sufficient opportunity to reconsider his decision & to
menstrual cycles)
menstruation
TALAQ HASAN
Husband has to utter the word talaq once every month, for 3 consecutive
halala
TALAQ-UL-BIDDAT (WORST
FORM OF DIVORCE)
Most arbitrary & unfair method of divorce in Muslim law
Not recognised by Shias; Hanafis recognize it
Biddat = sinful
2 main conditions of pronouncing during tuhr, and abstaining from sexual
As a reply to this, husband made vile accusations against the wife, and tired of the court
procedure, and to avoid giving her maintenance, he divorced her in 1987, without
informing her.
Against this wife appealed to High Court, and she got to know that she has been divorced
only in 1990. HC ordered maintenance from 1988-1990, at the rate of Rs. 200 p.m.
Husband appealed to SC. SC held that since he hadnt adduced evidence to prove the
2.
SOME OBSERVATIONS ON
TALAQ
A Muslim male can give talaq by his one sided ex parte decision
Court has no role to play here and it cannot interfere
Wifes consent is not required at all
Even if the wife doesnt desire/ doesnt consent, talaq remains valid
It is the extra-judicial power of the husband to give talaq to his wife even if
TALAQ UNDER
COERCION/INTOXICATION
Sunni law: If the words uttering talaq are express & clear, the talaq is valid,
IMPLIED/CONTINGENT
DIVORCE:
Not recognized by Shias
Meaning of the words used in talaq not clear
I give up all relations with you and shall have no connection of any sort
with you
divorce
goest
Implied divorce (zihar), based on the contingency of wife going to her fathers
house
Amounted to divorce
Husband can cancel his vow & start his married life again
ZIHAR (UNJUST
COMPARISON)
Husband compares his wife to his mother or with any woman coming within
After declaration of Zihar, sexual relations have to stop and the husband
TALAQ-I-TAFWEEZ
(DELEGATED DIVORCE)
Husband delegating the power to give talaq to his wife or to any third party
Contract for this purpose a must
Transfer of authority by one person to another to act for himself
Maharam Ali v. Ayesha Khatun, (1914-15) 19 CWN 1226:
Husband contracted with his wife that if he takes another wife, she would given him divorce. Contract
held to be valid.
In case of differences between the husband and wife, condition that husband will pay
maintenance to wife, and if doesnt give this, wife will divorce him.
In case husband doesnt pay prompt mehr, or if he misbehaves, or takes another wife can
TALAQ BY JUDICIAL
PROCESS
Lian: (Accusation of Adultery)
If husband accuses wife of adultery, wife gets a right to divorce him.
He will have to prove her adultery, otherwise, he will have to release his wife
that marriage than to force them to live together with those prejudices.
TALAQ BY MUTUAL
CONSENT: KHULA &
MUBARAT
When divorce is initiated by the wife and husband consents to
KHULA
Laying down by a husband of his right and authority over his wife for an exchange.
will be liable to pay consideration. Khula obtained under compulsion also is valid.
MUBARAT (MUTUAL
CONSENT)
Fayzee:
In case of Khula, the wife begs to be released and the husband agrees for a
consideration, which is usually a part of the whole of dower while in Mubarat,
apparently both are happy at the prospect of being rid of each other
Some compensation is given by the wife to the husband
Kazi merely declares that marriage has ended
In both Khula & Mubarat observance of iddat period is mandatory
IRRETRIEVABLE BREAKDOWN
OF MARRIAGE
Borrowed from English law
Purpose of law of divorce: NOT to punish the guilty party, but to protect the
innocent party
How can finding fault be insisted by law, (how will it help) when at no cost
Aneel Kaur, Samar Ghosh v. Jaya Ghosh, Bhagat v. Bhagat, Manish Goel v.
Rohini Goel, Sanghamitra Ghosh v. Kajal Kumar Ghosh
If this doesnt happen, if the marriage has broken down beyond repair, it is
When marriages are broken down beyond repair, marriage becomes legal
By refusing to sever the tie, the law does not preserve the sanctity of
marriage, on the contrary, it shows scant disregard for the feelings &
emotions of the parties.
Public interest demands not only that the married status should, as far as
EVOLUTION OF THEORIES
OF DIVORCE
Divorce under
exceptional
circumstances
Divorce on
demand
Divorce on
grounds of
irretrievable
breakdown of
marriage
ELEMENTS OF BREAKDOWN
OF MARRIAGE AS GROUNDS
OF DIVORCE
Disappearance (Civil Death)
Khula, Mubarat
consent is possible.
71st & 271st LCI Reports: recommended adding this as a ground for divorce
Mutual
Consent
Irretrievable
Breakdown
EXAMPLES
Mental & physical cruelty by wife towards her husband + separate living
down
BARS TO MATRIMONIAL
RELIEFS: DIVORCE, JS, RCR
Doctrine of Strict Proof: Preponderance of Probabilities vs. Beyond
Reasonable Doubt
DOCTRINE OF STRICT
PROOF
if the court is satisfied
Preponderance of Probabilities
This loosening of quality of evidence may act as a hurdle in getting a
matrimonial relief
ACCESSORY
Active participation in the crime
S. 23(1)(b), HMA: accessory to adultery
S. 12, IDA: accessory to adultery
S. 35(c), PMDA: general accessory
S. 34(b), SMA
CONNIVANCE
Knowledge of & active or passive consent to the wrong doing
Connivance means where a person knows that a wrongful act is being done
CONDONATION
Inglis v. Inglis and Baxter, (1967) 2 WLR 488:
COLLUSION
One party bribes the other asking them not to oppose their petition
Agreement/ understanding between the parties to present a petition:
1. to put forward true facts in support of a false case, or
2. false facts in support of a true case, or
3. to suppress facts which would prevent the court from granting a divorce
TAKING ADVANTAGE OF
ONES OWN WRONG
One who comes to the court should come with clean hands
S. 23(1)(a), HMA
Doctrine of Sincerity
T. Srinivasan v. T. Varalaxmi, (1998) 3 SCC 112:
Husband obtained a decree of RCR, but he didnt allow his wife to join him, by
driving her away from the matrimonial home. His petition for divorce on the ground
of absence of RCR for more than a year after passing of the decree was denied by
the court.
IMPROPER/UNNECESSARY
DELAY
Law can serve only those who are vigilant about their rights and not those
RESIDUARY CLAUSE/OTHER
LEGAL GROUNDS
S. 23(1)(e), HMA
S. 35(e), PMDA
S. 34(1)(f), SMA
No provision in IDA