Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Presented By
Kevin R. Bochenek, MA, MS
Educational Learning Goals:
Participants will be sensitized
to issues related to children
in foster care.
Participants will learn about
important therapeutic themes
and ways children react to
the foster care experience.
Participants will explore
various therapeutic issues,
aspects of treatment, and
helpful therapeutic
techniques.
Factors Influencing Development:
Eight factors which
influence development
will be explored in the
context of how they
relate to the foster care
experience.
Factors Influencing Development:
Heredity:
Certain aspects of
development are
influenced by biological
factors such as genes.
Factors Influencing Development:
Level Of Environmental
Stimulation:
Development is influenced
by the expectations of
caregivers and those in the
childs environment.
Feeling different
Enormous sense of grief
and loss
Am I worthy of love?
Need for control
Feeling responsible for
younger siblings
Therapeutic Issues:
Learning to trust
Learning to be a kid
Anxiety What is next?
Fitting in
Caught between two worlds
Dealing with
disappointments
Aging out
Coming to terms
Aspects Of Treatment:
Support To The Foster Parents:
A primary goal of therapy for foster children is
to offer support to the foster parents in order to
preserve the placement.
Support includes involving foster parents in the
treatment process, conducting family therapy,
offering parenting suggestions, allowing foster
parents to vent, and to offer phone calls or e-
mails in between sessions.
Aspects Of Treatment:
The Therapeutic Relationship:
It is essential that the therapist take adequate time to develop a
trusting therapeutic relationship.
The child should be clear on confidentiality policies.
It is often helpful when you want to share information about a
session to get the childs permission or have the child tell the
other party.
The therapist must be sure not to put herself in a situation in
which she attempts to rescue the client. Some children will try to
manipulate the therapist to get their needs met.
Therapeutic relationships with foster children can be intense.
The therapist provides a corrective relationship.
Aspects Of Treatment
Three Key Issues:
Consistent therapeutic
relationship is
important.
Treatment issues are
complex.
Course of treatment
Healing takes time.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Individual Therapy:
The therapeutic process is sometimes more important than the
content.
Consistency is extremely important in therapy with foster
children.
It is helpful to give the client some control of the session.
Reducing anxiety by teaching relaxation techniques is often
helpful during the initial stage of therapy.
The therapist must be comfortable confronting tough feelings
and issues directly.
The therapist needs to communicate closely with the foster
parents about the therapy process and goals.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Sibling Work:
Many siblings in foster care do not have healthy
relationships with each other.
Working with siblings can often be challenging;
however, it can be beneficial to improving siblings
relationships, stabilizing a placement, sharing common
experiences, and working on social skills.
Other goals might include processing why they came
into care, expressing feelings surrounding removal,
discussing adjustment issues, discussing visitation, and
developing healthy communication patterns.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Dyad Work:
Putting two foster children together to work on
common treatment goals can be very useful.
A therapy dyad can be a useful precursor to
placing a child in a group.
Many goals can be accomplished in the dyad
including processing feelings of loss, social skills,
communication skills, and relationship-building.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Group Therapy:
Group therapy can be a powerful modality for
foster children because they can share common
issues and realize they are not alone.
Care should be taken in selecting children for a
group.
Groups could be process-oriented or focus on
topics such as social skills and anger
management.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Trauma, Loss, and Adjustment Issues:
The need for trauma and/or loss work needs to
be carefully assessed.
Before embarking on trauma work, work with
the child at developing some basic coping skills.
A supportive therapeutic relationship should
allow for the child to feel safe discussing and
exploring issues related to adjusting to foster
care and to particular placements.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Attachment Issues:
The therapist should involve the foster parents
in the treatment to help build healthy
relationships and attachments for the child.
Therapists should be careful not to have their
foster child become too dependent on them.
For children who develop indiscriminate
attachments, it is important to discuss personal
safety and appropriate boundaries.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Self-Esteem:
Stephanie Marston defines self-esteem as a sense of
feeling lovable and capable. When those two things are
in sync, a person has high self-esteem.
Help the child develop and explore their identity.
Help the child to value their personal history instead of
being ashamed of it.
Help clients develop mastery and competency, in both
subtle and grand ways.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Coping Skills:
Getting needs met
appropriately
Identifying, exploring, and
sharing feelings
Tolerating distress and
reducing anxiety
Communication skills
Anger management skills
Impulse control skills
Problem-solving skills
Self-soothing skills
Self-care skills
Aspects Of Treatment:
Social Skills:
Teaching social skills is critical in helping children
develop appropriate social skills.
The Boys Town model of breaking social skills down
into component parts and preventative & corrective
teaching are valuable ways to approach social skills.
Social skills training is most valuable with the support
of a reinforcing environment.
Role plays are helpful in helping clients learn social
skills.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Teaching Values:
Because of placement changes and disruptions, children in care
may get minimal training in the area of morals and values.
The therapist and the foster parents need to play a critical role in
teaching values such as the golden rule.
Rosen (1998) suggests the importance of training children in out
of home placements in altruism, empathy, generosity, respect for
others, and right & wrong.
Foster children need to learn to take responsibility for their
actions.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Processing Of Permanency Goals:
Children in foster care should be aware of their permanency goal.
The therapist should allow ample opportunity for the child to discuss
her goal and explore feelings surrounding the goal.
If the goal is adoption, all of the childs feelings surrounding adoptions
should be explored.
If the goal is termination of parental rights, the therapist must establish
a safe place for the child to explore his strong feelings related to the
issue.
If the goal is reunification, the therapist should work closely with the
biological family and help the child develop realistic expectations.
If the goal is independent living, this should be incorporated into
treatment. The therapist should be one of many preparing the child
for independence.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Reunification Work:
If the goal is reunification, active steps should be taken to assist
with the process.
Family therapy is essential to prepare for reunification. It should
be scheduled as frequently as possible.
The therapist and foster parents must take a nonjudgmental and
supportive posture towards the biological family.
It is important to remember that most parents who
abuse/neglect their children do love them.
Ideally, the foster parents could be coached by the therapist to
provide parent training for the family.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Reunification Work:
Biological parents can be taught to give supportive
messages to their children regarding their behavior in
the foster home.
While foster parents are assisting with parent-training,
the therapist can work on communication, problem-
solving, and coping skills within the family.
Solution-focused work is helpful in conducting
reunification work.
Aspects Of Treatment:
Reunification Work:
Often the therapist will need to redirect the family back
to the reason for the removal to plan for the future.
Biological parents often minimize the circumstances
surrounding the removal.
It is often helpful for the childs individual therapist to
be the family therapist as well. The therapist is a bridge
between the biological family and the foster family.
The treatment team should be in place prior to the day
of reunification. It is important for therapeutic
relationships to be established so the biological family
will be more inclined to commit to services.
Helpful Therapeutic Techniques:
Letter writing
Journal writing in between
sessions
Nondirective play therapy
Directive play therapy
Use of toy phone
Creating a memory box
Creating a photo album
Empty chair technique
Helpful Therapeutic Techniques:
Creating stories and
metaphors
Puppet play with foster
child puppet
Teaching clients
something in session to
build competencies
Play with animal families,
dolls, or puppets
Use of art therapy
Helpful Therapeutic Techniques:
People who care about
me activity
Body drawing
Celebration ritual
Positive self-statement
journal
Taking care of a baby
doll or stuffed animal
Mapping out history and
placements
Lessons Learned From Foster
Children:
Carl: Repeated re-telling of
abuse story is not
therapeutic.
Nicholas: Abused kids are
hungry for a corrective
experience.
Jason: Some foster children
are eager to push others away
before they pulled away
Jacob & Jaxson: Unresolved
anger can lead to time in jail
Lessons Learned From Foster
Children:
Felicity: Kids can teach
adults.
Tyler: Healing and moving
on takes time and the power
of a loving family.
Anthony: Fitting in at all
costs is important to many
foster kids.
Joe: Unconditional
acceptance leads to healing.
Lessons Learned From Foster
Children:
Stefano: Foster children are
quick to be accused.
Jonathan: Kids can be quite
resilient.
Justin: Relationships can
help to get through a crisis.
Germancy: Dont assume a
foster child has picked up
basic social graces. Pre-teach
to foster children.
Someone Elses Child
Be there for me