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People are just as wonderful as sunsets if you let them be. When I look at a sunset, I
don't find myself saying, "Soften the orange a bit on the right hand corner." I don't try
to control a sunset. I watch with awe as it unfolds.
Carl R. Rogers, A Way of Being
UNIT 2:
PRINCIPLES OF PROFESSIONAL
HELPING
GROUP 1 :LECTURERS
Professional helping requires someone seeking help, someone willing to give help and who
is trained to help, and a setting that permits help to be received and given in privacy.
The helper assists helpee to explore feelings and reactions, gaining insight and
make positive changes in his/her life.
Helping Person
HELPING:
Encompasses/include all the activities we use to assist another
person, whether we have therapeutic relationship or not
Example: Marital partners can help each other deal with
disappointments and frustrations
Helping only requires a person desiring help (a client), someone
willing and able to give help ( a helper) and a conducive setting
(Hackney & Cormier, 2005)
Interviewing
Interviewing
Counselling More emphasis on gaining
More emphasis on the information. Information may
therapeutic relationship be used to help other person
and overcoming normal rather than the client
developmental
hurdles. Growth-oriented
Coaching
A strong form of encouragement
How is professional helping different from friendship?
Friendship- based on the assumption that we are there for each other-a two-way street
No agreement or contract for change, but instead you have an opportunity to care,
show concern, and provide support
How is professional helping
different from friendship?
Professional helper assists clients to deal with their issues
The client welfare is of paramount importance.
You have a contract to help the client make specific changes on his/her life.
Definition of Helping
Helper must develop a helping style that is comfortable and effective for him
Helping process: The helpers personality combined with specific skills produce
a growth condition that lead to definite importance to the person and society
Helper- The helping person
Helpee- The helped person
Definition of Helping
Personality of Helping skills Growth-facilitating Specific outcome
helper conditions
You believe that most people are basically good and striving for self-
improvement.
You enjoy people and believe that people can change
How true is this for you?
How can you grow?
2. Stable and Mentally Healthy
Open-mindedness
Objectivity
Ethical behavior
Helpers
Conceptualisation skills
Intervention skills
Able to deal in affective domain (feeling and emotion), cognitive domain (thinking
and intellectual process), and behaviour domain (actions and deeds)
Characteristics of therapeutic relationship
Teamwork between
client and
counsellor toward a
mutually agreed
goal. Counsellor is
there to give
support and
direction.
Specific contract
Agreement on especially on
compensation for confidentiality. Safety
counsellor , eg fees and trust are
(private practice), not established, honest
gift. disclosure, and
feedback.
Characteristics of therapeutic relationship
Therapeutic factors
- the activities that seem to be used by all effective helpers with
different techniques.
-Awareness of
own needs.
-Awareness
about your
own attitude
towards self -Aware of
and others. motivation to
help.
-Awareness of
own personal
strength,
limitations and
coping skills. -Aware of own
feelings.
Continue
Activity: In small group, list down your hang-ups, prejudice, attitude, and
your personality. What would you like to change or to improve? Share this
with your friends in your group.
Helping Process
Lying Communicator
Honest Communicator
Gestures.
Gestures.
Shift posture.
Not likely to shift body language.
Display increased nervousness.
Less nervous.
Eye contact.
Eye contact.
Look away, maintain less eye contact.
Steady, normal, natural gaze.
COMPETENCE
There are so many approaches to counselling and helping
Counsellor and helpers require appropriate training and practice before meeting with the clients
Responsibilities to keep monitoring the performance and developing the counselling skills
CLIENT AUTONOMY
Respect for the clients right to make the choices that work best for them in their lives is the
principle underlying the client autonomy.
The counsellors/ helpers should not impose the values on clients and where appropriate, should be
prepared to refer clients to others who may more readily understand their concerns.
(Nelson-Jones, 2009)
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Ethical Isssues (cont)
CONFIDENTIALITY
It is said people have three lives: a public life, a private life, and a secret life.
Frequently, counselling and helping deals with materials from clients secret lives,
It is very vital to keep the client information confidential.
CLIENT PROTECTION
The client protection involves an act of looking after clients as persons.
Dual relationship is an ethical dilemma (ethical or unethical)
Emotional / financial exploitation
(Nelson-Jones, 2009)
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THINK ABOUT IT