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The Pornography Problem
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What Would Be the Most Perfect
Kind of Recreational Drug to Sell?
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Internet Pornography
Perfect Drug
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Internet Pornography
Destroying Innocence
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Why Is Internet Porn Enticing?
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Appeal of Internet Porn to Youth
Heart
Seeks love and
oneness of heart with
Heart another
Physical Physical instinct
Seeks to substantiate
instinct
love in bodily oneness
Two aspects may get and lineage
confused
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Internet Porn Exploits
Male & Female Fantasies
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Risks of Porn Use
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Damages Ourselves
1. Fascination, disgust
Mixture of guilt, fear,
aggression and
pleasurable arousal
2. Desire for more
daring and exotic
images
Former thrill wears
off; desensitized
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Stages of Porn Compulsion II
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Damages Our Marriage
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Masturbation Multiplies the
Harm of Pornography
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Masturbation without
Images or Fantasies
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Masturbation with
Images and Fantasies
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The Goal Is to Teach Our Brain to
Desire Only Our Spouse
Purity sets up
one arousal
Spouse pathway in the
brain for maximum
fulfilment
Porn Porn and
masturbation
(Partners)
divide pathway
Spouse and weaken bond
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with spouse
Masturbation Damages Lovemaking
in Marriage
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Overcoming the Porn Habit
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Helpful Spiritual Efforts
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Reducing Negatives
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Overview of Basic Strategies to
Reduce Negatives
1. Get informed
Understand the effect of the habit on your
brain, heart, thinking, and your marriage
and other relationships
Learn about the porn business and how
porn is made
Recognize how fake and distorted it is
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Basic Strategies to
Reduce Negatives II
2. Study your habit
Triggers of porn Examine why you like it
use What does it help you
How the urges cope with?
come What would you miss if
Rationalizations you stopped?
Cycles of use Need to find a better
4. Get control
If you cant quit outright, Separate porn from
gradually taper off masturbation
Do the habit on a Learn to
schedule masturbate
Reduce frequency without images
Break up the ritual Giving up porn is
before, during and after harder
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Basic Strategies to
Reduce Negatives V
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Basic Strategies to
Reduce Negatives VI
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Basic Strategies to
Reduce Negatives VII
8. Resist urges as long as possible
Addictions are the habit of satisfying an
urge to make it go away
Urges come on strong, but they will end
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Basic Strategies to
Reduce Negatives IX
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Unhealthy Guilt and Despair Can
Fuel the Habit
Resist all-or-
nothing Stress & Porn
thinking Distress Use
Feeds
self-hatred
and despair
Porn Guilt &
Use Despair
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Get Stronger from Relapses
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Overview of Basic Strategies to
Build Up Positives & Grow
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Basic Strategies to
Build Up Positives & Grow I
Stress release
Problem solving
Self expression
Making friends
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Basic Strategies to
Build Up Positives & Grow IV
Harmless phrases
distractions
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Helpful Resources
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John R. Williams, M.M.F.T.
973.340.8642
John.Coach1@gmail.com
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