LET’S TALK ABOUT TEENS!

Dr. Sandra M. Gossler

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QUICK CHANGES

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WHAT ARE THEY SEEING??

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SEXUALITY: A GIFT FROM GOD

• The purposes of sexual intimacy in marriage

• Knowledge – Genesis 4:1
• Unity – Genesis 2:24
• Comfort – Genesis 24:67
• Procreation – Genesis 1:28
• Relaxation and Play – Song of Solomon 2:8-17
• A Defense Against Temptation – 1 Corinthians 7:2-5

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COMMON MYTHS
• We didn’t really have sex
• We only had sex one time!
• We are both clean – neither of us has any
diseases
• I can’t get pregnant – we used a condom
• I can’t get any diseases – we used a condom
• I can’t get pregnant – I haven’t had my first
cycle
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ARE YOU WILLING TO TALK ABOUT IT?

• I need to talk to my teen about:
• to my son that having sex does not make you a man.
• to my daughter that having sex has more dangers
than pregnancy.
• the dangers of multiple sex partners.

• WHO do YOU want to tell your children about sex?

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THE LIES OF MEDIA

• DISTORTS AND PERVERTS THE ROLES OF MEN AND WOMEN
• TWISTS AND DISTORTS SEXUAL BEHAVIORS
• MOVIES
• INTERNET
• PORNOGRAPHY

• WHAT ARE YOUR CHILDREN WATCHING?

• WHO ARE THEY BEING EXPOSED TO?
• WHAT ABOUT THEIR FUTURE?

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SEXUAL PURITY
PASSION MUST BE HELD BY
PRINCIPLE:

THE LOVE OF GOD

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Las estadísticas muestran

la incidencia alarmante de
la promiscuidad sexual en la sociedad
Relaciones a los 14-15 años
Primera relación entre 11-13
40% de adolescentes embarazadas abortan
+1,000 abortos al día en Perú
Normalización de la homosexualidad

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# PAREJA SEXUAL ESTÁS EXPUESTO A:

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5 31
10 1023
11 2047
12 4095
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 ¿QUIÉN ESTÁ INFECTADO / A?
• Más de un MILLÓN de nuevos casos
reportados A DIARIO
• 536 MILLONES de personas viven con
una infección
transmisión sexual (INCURABLE)
• 2/3 de todas las ITS ocurren en personals
de 25 años o menos
• 25% de todas las nuevas enfermedades
ocurren en los adolescentes

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 ¿QUÉ ES LA GRAN COSA?
INFECCIONES INFECCIONES
BACTERIALES BACTERIALES
(CURABLE) (INCURABLE
• Clamidia • Varrugas genitales
• Tricomoniasis
• Herpes
• Sífilis
• VIH/SIDA
• Gonorrea

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HOW DO WE TALK TO OUR TEENS?

• SHARE THE WORD OF GOD WITH KINDNESS
• GET MOTIVATED
• GET EDUCATED
• GET COMFORTABLE
• MAKE IT AN ONGOING CONVERSATION
• DISCUSS DATING
• LET THEM ASK QUESTIONS
• TELL THEM THE TRUTH ABOUT CONDOMS
• TELL THEM THE TRUTH ABOUT GOD’S PLAN FOR SEX

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THANK YOU
MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU!