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FORGIVENESS
-Marielle A. Rivera
What is forgiveness?
Psychologist generally define forgiveness as a
conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of
resentment or vengeance toward a person or group who
has harmed you regardless of whether they actually
deserve your forgiveness.
Unlike other traits,
it’s not an action or attitude.
It’s a process.
What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it? How do I cultivate it?
A process of the way we view
someone or something that has happened
WRONGDOING
RESPONSE/REACTION
DECISION TO FORGIVE
FORGIVENESS REVISITED
AGAIN
AGAIN
What is it? What is the result? How do I communicate it ? How do I cultivate it?
Forgiveness is a path to be walked. There
are steps along the way:
Loss
Anger
Acceptance
Learning
Forgiveness
Restoration
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How to forgive?
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Effects of holding a grudge
Bring anger and bitterness into every
relationship and new experiences
Become wrapped up in the wrong that you can’t
enjoy the present
Become depressed or anxious
Feel that your life lacks meaning and purpose or
that you’re at odds with your spiritual beliefs
Lose valuable and enriching connectedness with
others
What if I choose to forgive?
Freedom from resentment and anger
Reduced depression, anxiety, pain
Improved relationships
Psychological well-being _
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Benefits of forgiving someone
Healthier relationship
Improved mental health
Less anxiety, stress and hostility
Lower blood pressure
Fewer symptoms of depression
A stronger immune system
Improved heart health
Improved self-esteem
What if the
person I’m
forgiving doesn’t
change?
What if I’m the
one who needs
forgiveness?
“Forgiveness is a process. A choice you
have to make over and over, everyday
until you’re free from hurt.”
Conclusion:
• The key to all of this is to understand that forgiveness
is a process. It can take time especially if the wounds are
deep. But forgiveness opens the way for you to be
healed. Sometimes, it even restores the broken
relationship. There are stages that we go through
before we forgive others. The truth is immediately
forgiving someone isn’t always the best idea. We don’t
want to deny ourselves the right and the opportunity to
feel the feelings of hurt and betrayal. We can only work
through that which we first acknowledge.
• Forgiveness is an important action that can lead to a
place of greater healing and peace. Forgiving, and
letting go of anger and resentment, has even shown to
benefit a person’s physical health.
Thank You for Listening!
REFERENCES:
https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/topic/forgiveness/definiti
on
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-addiction-
connection/201409/the-psychology-forgiveness
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/roya-r-rad-ma-
psyd/psychological-stages-of-f_b_955731.html
https://faithit.com/forgiveness-quotes/
https://www.slideshare.net/pastorkent/forgiveness-
presentation-13142883
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-
health/in-depth/forgiveness/art-20047692