DIVORC Group Name :

1.Angga Prasetyo N

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2.Devith Ayunda S.C
3.Dyah Retno Udayanti
4.Dewi Rosawati
5.Ulfatul vaisyah
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The definition of divorce according to Indonesian means "separate" from the basic word "divorce".
According to the term (syara ') divorce is a term for giving up marriage.
The title is lafadz which has been used during the jahiliyah period which is then used by syara '.
Main Factors for Divorce:
 In brief, there are several factors that cause divorce, namely:
 a. Infidelity
 b. Lack of communication
 c. Economy
 d. Don't budge
 e. Parental intervention
 f. Differences in principles and beliefs
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 i. Big difference in marriage

 j. Sex
 k. Lack of trust or insecurity
 l. Lack of maturity
 m. Criminal behavior and prison for crime
 n. Different personal and career goals
 o. Financial Problem
 p. Fidelity
 q. Intellectual dissonance
 r. Sexual dissonance
 s. Conversion of religion or belief
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 Following are some steps to reduce the traumatic impact of divorce.

a. Be honest about the potential for emotional trauma in each of your children.
b. Let your child communicate openly.
c. Give children choices, if possible, to increase their sense of empowerment over their
own lives.
d. Find support for yourself and children.
The solution to the divorce case is that you have to consider again whether it is true that
you have to divorce, you must think carefully about the losses that you will get later.
Divorce will have a bad impact on psychology, parents should prioritize their children’s
fate rather than their respective egos.
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Mr. X, age 49, is a traveling hawker and has one wife, Mrs. 45 years old and
5 children. They live in a small hut that has been damaged, the wife always
asks for more money from the husband, but the husband only gets enough
results. Because of his wife's impatience, she was living well enough, she
also asked to divorce her husband.

1. From the above case, the divorce is in the background behind the
problem .....
a. Religion c. Economy e. Socio-cultural
b. Social d. Political
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1. The answer is C (Economy). Because the reasons of
the wife always ask for more money from the husband,
but the husband only gets enough results from the
results of his hard work as a mere peddler. make the
wife impatient the wife lives well and asks for divorce
from the husband
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Mr. A, a household head in his family. Mr. A has a wife and a child who is still in
the process of breastfeeding. as a decision maker, Mr. A always decides problems
in his family by being silent and without communication with his family members.
Mr. A is too indifferent to his wife who takes care of his household routine only by
himself. So that the problems in the family are not discussed openly. This made
Mr. A's wife feel unappreciated, thus suing for divorce Mr. A.
2. What studies are prioritized on what family structure?
a. Family strength structure
b. Family role structure
c. Role structure
d. Family function
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The answer is B (Structure of family roles) because Mr. A
is the head of the family and as the deliberator. However,
Mr. A is an ignorant person and if there is a problem not
communicated with his family, his role as the head of the
family and making decisions is disturbed.
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In Mr. X's family the family system is not good, his child always asks for more
pocket money, says it to pay for the book and Mr. X's wife always lies. Mr. X's wife
is often found out with his ex-boyfriend and seen by Mr. X. However, his wife
always covers it.

3. In this case, what family coping strategies do not apply to Mr. X's family in
dealing with a problem?
a. Coping strategies with open and honest communication
b. Joint problem solving coping strategy
c. Coping strategies to get information and knowledge
d. Community coping strategy
e. Family support source coping strategies
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The answer is A (coping strategy with open and honest
communication). Because it is clear in the case that the
child always asks for more pocket money, says it to pay
for the book and Mr. X's wife is always lying. Mr. X's wife
is often found out with his ex-boyfriend and seen by Mr.
X. However, his wife always covers it
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A nurse is studying a family. In a family, one family member is found to have TB, a
husband who lives in his in-laws' house, which makes other family members such as
his wife, children and parents-in-law tend to stay away. And her father-in-law asks her
son to leave her husband. Finally the husband felt useless.
4. According to Roger, the assessment that should be carried out on the member
includes ...
a. Biological assessment
b. Psychological study
c. Spiritual study
d. Social assessment
e. All right
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4. The answer is E (All right). Obviously, biological needs
are disrupted because the father is alienated at his father-
in-law's home, psychologically disturbed because he feels
useless, his spiritual is disturbed because his despair and
social are disturbed because of the other family members
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A husband and wife divorced, the child goes with his mother. one day their child misses his
father. They really want to meet his father. Then a diagnosis of Dx appears: the risk of
damage to the parents' closeness with the child to separation.
5. The right nurse's actions as diagosa above are ...
a. Give understanding to Mother to give permission Father and child meet without being
limited
b. Don't Meet Dad and child if you rarely meet
c. spiritual encouragement restores client trust
d. discuss with the client about the problem
e. recommends that Mother pay more attention to her child
 
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5. The answer is A (Give your mother an understanding
to give permission Father and child meet without
limitation) because there is no term ex-child. And
parents are still parents, and ex-wives must understand
about their child's longing for their father.
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Mr. A has a wife. But a few months after 4 years of marriage they always fight because they do
not have children. From mother A always pressed to have her own offspring, but the wife and A
adopted a child from an orphanage who was 9 years old and the mother and A did not
approve of her adoption of a child and wanted her son to divorce his wife and marry someone else .
6. How do husband and wife solve the problems they face so that children can get donations well,
except?
a. Don't fight with your partner in front of the kids or on the phone.
b. Prevent to discuss the details of your partner's negative behavior.
c. fight with a partner in the presence of children and family
d. Develop a relationship that is awake with your partner, as soon as possible, and be polite in your
interactions.
e. Focus on the strength and goodness of all family members
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6. The answer is C, except to fight with a partner in the presence
of children and family. Because fighting in front of the child and
family makes the child traumatized and feels guilty for his
presence for being an adopted child in the family.
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Mrs. R and Mr Y have been married for 7 years and have 3 children who are still small, the first child aged 14
years, the second is 9 years old, the third is 6 years old and his children are cared for by his household assistant.
Because they are all busy with their respective jobs. 2 years later their household always quarreled because of
their work and finally they decided to divorce.
7. What are the negative impacts of divorce on child development, except?
a. Children get less attention, affection, and parents' education demands, especially father guidance,
because their father and mother are busy taking care of their problems.
b. Physical and psychological needs of children become unfulfilled, desires for the hopes of children are not
channeled satisfactorily, or do not get compensation.
c. Children do not get physical and mental training that is indispensable for moral life. They are not accustomed
to good discipline and self-control.
d. Divorce of parents is expected to influence children's learning achievement, both in the field of religious
studies and in other fields. One of the basic functions and responsibilities of parents is to pay attention to their
education seriously.
e. Does not affect the formation of a child's personality
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7. the answer is E does not affect the formation of a child's
personality. because divorce tends to
have a negative impact on children, such as:
 Children get less attention,
 Physical and psychological needs of children become
unfulfilled,
 Children do not get physical and mental training
 Divorce of parents is expected to affect children's
learning achievement,
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In the household, Mr. Z and Mrs. T are blessed with 1 year old child. They are not very suitable
after 2 years of marriage because they are matched by their parents. After a few months they
were still undergoing to make changes but instead they had no match at all and they had a
match with their own past, and finally they decided to separate.
8. What is the impact of the divorce on child psychology, except?
a. Children begin to suffer from high anxiety and fear
b. The child feels pinched in the middle. Because children are very difficult to choose papah
or mamah
c. Children often feel guilty
d. If the two masters are fighting it allows the child to hate one of his parents
e. Sonic and not anxious when they know their parents separated
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8. The answer is E unless the child is happy and not anxious when they know
their parents are separated. Because divorce can affect children's
psychology, such as:
 Children begin to suffer from high anxiety and fear
 The child feels pinched in the middle. Because children are very difficult to
choose papah or mamah
 Children often feel guilty
 If the two masters are fighting it allows the child to hate one of his parents
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Mr. A quarreled with his wife ny P . the husband always compared his wife to
another woman. After a few days the husband boasn when he saw his wife
at home and felt like always being emotional. And at night the wife
admonished the husband for the changed attitude and the husband was
emotional and then they quarreled the husband finally bitched the wife with
3 divorces.
9.What is the law of divorce in Islam?
a. Makruh
b. Sunnah
c. Obligatory
d. Change
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9. the answer is A Makruh. The basis of the Law of the
Talaq is set in the Qur'an according to the Sura Al-
Baqarah. The law can be compulsory, sunnah, makruh
mubah and even haram. In this case the law is unjust
because the husband drops the word talak against his
wife for no apparent reason and the condition of the
household is fine.
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Mr. and Mrs. H have children aged 1 year and want to separate but they fight over child
custody.

10. Mr. and Mrs. H have children aged 1 year and want to separate but they
fight over child custody. How does the law according to Islam treat custody
of minors?
a. Cared for by the mother
b. Cared for by grandmother
c. In foster care alternately
d. Cared for by mother-in-law
e. Fostered by mother and father
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10. The answer is A Fostered by mother. Al Imam
Muwaffaquddin Ibn Qudamah said, if a husband
and wife experience divorce by leaving a child (a
young child or a handicapped child), then the
mother is the most entitled to receive the rights of
hadhonah (caring) than others. We do not know of
a scholar who has a different opinion on this issue.
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