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Toolkit
Prawin RamBhojan
Table of Contents
I. Determining the current level of conflict level in my work life (self-assessment)
• Avoiding
• Accommodating
• Compromising
• Competing
• Collaborating
Style Explanation
• Avoiding Style (-,-)
– If I ignore the problem, it will go away
– If I confront the problem, I may hurt someone’s
feelings
– Why bother… it won’t change anything
• Accommodating (-,+)
– It’s easier to just give in and give them what they
want
– You will be better liked if you just agree
– By letting the other person win this time, you will
win next time… you have to pick your battles.
Style Explanation
• Compromising Style (-,-)
– It’s only fair because then neither of us get what we want.
– Both parties are on an even playing field
– We can choose to give up something we really don’t need, thereby
winning.
• Competing Style (+,-)
– I’m right and you’re wrong
– There is only one solution
• Collaborating (+,+)
– We can find a solution that works for both of us.
– By asking the other person’s perspective, I can understand them.
– Once we find a common ground, we can work from there.
Conflict Style
If you find yourself adopting a
conflict style that you’re not happy
about…
• 55% on nonverbal
communication
Focus on underlying Issues
• What happened?
– Difference in expectations:
• What did I expect to happen?; What actually
happened? Who did what?
– Intention inventory (Who meant what?)
• Feelings
– Don’t ignore or fail to acknowledge
– Feelings make relationships enjoyable and difficult
conversations difficult (can’t have one without the
other!)
• Identity
– Must face ourselves as well as other person
– Am I competent?; Am I a good person?; Am I worthy
of love?
Communication Tips
Avoid “you” statements
Focus on behavior, not employee
Focus on actions, not intent
Be descriptive and specific (bring data)
Practice active listening skills
Ask open and closed questions to
clarify points
Step 2:
• No interruptions
• No yelling
• Time limit on certain topics of
discussion
• Words to avoid
• Agreement on what to do if you can’t
agree ahead of time
Step 4:
2. Communicate understanding.
Workforce Development
Toolkit
Part VII
Meeting Conflict
1. If you sense a spoken or unspoken conflict in a meeting over an issue, address it.
“There seems to be some disagreement over this issue. Can we take a few
minutes to clarify the issue.
3. Decide if there is time to deal with it today or if another meeting needs to be set
up to give it full attention.
“Since this seems to be quite an important issue and we don’t have much time
today. Let’s agree to meet again to discuss it further. Can we meet on….”
2. Have each group member, share information gathered and give his/her opinion.
3. Make sure everything is put on the table (no unresolved feelings popping up
later)
4. Brainstorm alternatives
5. Agree on best solution using team decision-making steps (see reference list at
end)
• Listen and get answers to: “who, what, when, where, why, how.”
• Due notice
• A review process
• Assure employee that only those who need to know will be informed.
• Describe the behavior you would like to see (what changes must
occur).
LOGISTICS:
Before conducting a termination, you need to:
OBJECTIVES:
* Deliver the message quickly, respectfully, & professionally
* Ensure individual understands that employment if
terminated immediately or in the near future
* Deliver the separation package
* Strongly encourage employees to utilize Employment
commission or through any job search centre
* Provide structure for the next 24 hours
* Ensure to collect agency property before employee leaves
for the day.
Key Points in
Smart Discipline
• Always follow your written policies and past
practices in similar situations
• Lack of consistency will cause a judge to assume
you are discriminating against the employee in some
way.
• Remember that other employees will be watching
you to see if you are fair.
• Always listen to employees and give them a chance
to improve
Top Ways to Get Sued…
Office of
Human Resources
in Conflict Resolution
The Role of HR
If you are in a conflict situation and don’t know how to
deal with it, the Office of HR can:
“Internal Mediation”
- If the conflict issue involves only work
- related situations, your supervisor or a higher level manager can try to assist
the
- two conflicting parties in reaching a solution.
“Mediation”
– Voluntary Process
– Neutral mediators assist discussion
– Parties working out own solutions
– Call HR office or EDR for more information
Thank You
Prawin RamBhojan