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r |ssertiveness is the ability to communicate your
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r |ssertive style of behavior is to interact with
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1. Helps you become self-confident
2. Increases self-esteem
3. Gain respect of others
4. Improve communication skills
5. Improve decision-making ability
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1. Be honest and direct about your feelings,
needs, beliefs.
2. Express yourself firmly and directly to
specific individuals.
3. Be reasonable in your requests
4. State your viewpoint without being
hesitant or apologetic.
5. Be honest when giving or receiving
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7. Recognize and respect the rights of those
around you.
8. Use appropriate tone of voice.
9. Be aware of body posture/language
10. aaintain eye contact.
11. Use ³i´ statements to express self
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r Judging others and refusing to speak.
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|nswer: False. Saying something you know will hurt
others is just being mean. It's important to speak up for
yourself, but you can do that without hurting those
around you. If you know what you are about to say may
hurt someone, but you still feel you need to say it,
consider phrasing your statement as kindly as possible.
For example, say something complimentary or pleasant
at the same time, or acknowledge it's a difficult topic and
handle it discreetly
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being aggressive. Remember, being assertive doesn't mean being impolite.
|s long as you respect that other people have different
feelings and opinions, people will respect you when you speak.
l)|ssertive people are usually conceited and
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