The S&L Matrix

(And how it gets your wiener wet)

1 you want to get the girl.
You need to sleep with her as
quickly as possible.
#easons to SNL
Beauti1ul women have options
"Attraction isn't what you think it is
You could have a strong and compelling
presence. but why not just sweep her o11 her
1eet?
Dates and 'phone game' are time consuming
Don't be 1ooled by a 'number-close artist' /
'makeout artist'
Bottom line: Get her into bed quickly or not at
all
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ow to Approach
Pey"
nlce shoes"
Who lles more"
The S & L Matrix
The realm where your skills o1 seduction are actually
applied
The only things You need to worry about:
1. Logistics
2. Sexual #eadiness
DON'T WO##Y ABOUT ANYTNG ELSE!!
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Mindset
Women Want Sex MO#E than you do!
3 books
4 "Sperm Wars" by #obin Baker
4 "My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday
4 "Why Women ave Sex" By Cindy Meston & David Buss
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The Logistics Axis
The 5 Logistical Questions
1. Who are you here with?
2. ow do you know each other?
3. ow did you get here?
4. What are your plans 1or later?
5. What time do you have to wake up in the morning?
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The S-Axis
Sexual #eadiness
Tools 1or Escalating Along The S-Axis
3 Dimensional Escalation
Touch (play1ul overt)
Touch (discreet sexual)
Set Sexual Frames
Build Sexual Tension
Bait her to invest (verbal)
Bait her to invest (physical)
Baiting her 1riends into escalating 1or you
Logistically escalate
#emove (inoculate against) the 5 objections
Sexually charged language
NLP/Vivid magery
And more...
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Sexual Frames
- Sexually aggressive when she is with someone she really likes or is
attracted to
- Adventurous
- Spontaneous
- Goes 1or what she wants/Does what she 1eels like doing
- Great in bed
- Keeps secrets
- Does the craziest things when she knows she won't be judged 1or it
- Frequently incredibly horny
- Open to new experiences
- Loves the romance and excitement o1 things happening quickly/
Wants to be swept o11 her 1eet
- Uninhibited
- Craves new sexual experiences
- as a naughty side she wishes she could act on more o1ten
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ome exual lramlng 1ools
'We don'L counL'
asslve AccepLance/Compllance
8lame all fllrLaLlon on her
CuallflcaLlon
Why are (new ?ork) glrls so wlld?"
?ou look [usL llke
Lrawberry flelds
1he ad Lory
?ou look llke you're a nlce glrl buL l can Lell you
have a serlous naughLy slde"
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Sexual Tension
The "Gap"
"Natural" Tension
2 Easy Methods
nternally Neutral/Overtly Sexual
nternally Sexual/Overtly Neutral
Don't break sexual tension:
Making out with her in a public place
Popping out o1 sexual 1rames
Being needy
Not being able to handle silence
Being overtly sexual while internally turned on (too soon)
Overtly sexual 'kino' in 1ront o1 her 1riends
Poorly timed "Cocky/Funny
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Baiting to nvest
Festinger & Carlsmith
MASTERS OF PICKUP
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Baiting to nvest
Cognitive Dissonance
Backwards #ationalization
t's not the amount o1 actual investment that counts, it's her
perceived investment
Ways o1 baiting to invest
"old This
"Tell me a joke.
Gravity hook
Prime the pump
ave her quali1y hersel1
Slurpee example
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The "Green Zone"
S AND L Axes igh
"Pull The Trigger"
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Closing Tactics
Light the 1use
ave YOU# logistics 1igured out
Avoid the "bounce
Fear o1 the empty apartment
What i1 she says "We are NOT having sex tonight.
1 she's at your place. She Wants to Fuck!!
What about 'Last Minute #esistance'?
Future meetup
#emember:
'No' means NO.
"We shouldn't. means 'Keep going, please.'
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CuesLlons?
1here's no such Lhlng as a sLupld
quesLlon Cnly sLupld people Cod people
are so fucklng sLupld someLlmes"
Confuclus
We (sometimes) o11er live coaching,
and we'd like to tell you about it
n the style o1.
A #eligious #evival
An in1omercial
An insurance salesman tying to hide the 1act
that he's slowly getting an awkward erection
A homeless man masturbating on the subway
while thinking about how hot the Jonas
brothers would be i1 they were girls.
Nick Quick & Epik
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