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Communication
The evoking of a shared or common meaning in another person
Interpersonal communication is communication between two or more people in an organization.
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The person originating the message. The person receiving a message. A window through which we interact with people that influences the quality, accuracy, and clarity of the communication. The thoughts and feelings that the communicator is attempting to elicit in the receiver.
2008 by South-Western, a division of Cengage Learning
Receiver
Perceptual Screen
Message
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Information fed back that completes two-way communication. The words, their pronunciation, and the methods of combining them used and understood by a group of people. Uninterpreted and unanalyzed facts.
2008 by South-Western, a division of Cengage Learning
Language
Data
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Data that have been interpreted, analyzed, and have meaning to user. The ability of a medium or channel to elicit or evoke meaning in the receiver.
Richness
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Reflective Listening
A skill intended to help the receiver and communicator clearly and fully understand the message sent.
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Reflective Listening
Levels of Verbal Response by Receiver 1. Affirming contact 2. Paraphrasing expressed thoughts and
3. 4. 5.
feelings Clarifying implicit thoughts and feelings Reflecting core feelings not fully expressed Silence and eye contact
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Empathetic Listeners
Use reflective listening skills. They are patient with, and responsive to,
problems that employees, peers, and others bring to them about the work. They respond to and engage the concerns of other people. Able to hear the feelings and emotional dimensions of the messages people send them, as well as the content of the ideas and issues.
2008 by South-Western, a division of Cengage Learning
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Communication that can be aggressive, attacking, and angry, or passive and withdrawing. Communication that is assertive, direct, and powerful.
Nondefensive Communication
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Dominant Defensiveness
Characterized by active, aggressive, attacking behavior. I am right, and you are wrong
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Defensive Tactics
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Nonverbal Communication
All elements of communication that do not involve words.
Four basic kinds are: 1. Proxemics 2. Kinesics 3. Facial and eye behavior 4. Paralanguage
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Figure 7.3
Seating Dynamics
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the employee. Watch your motives. What? Behaviors. Find good ones first, then focus on behavior not meeting standards. Make sure they (and you) understand why their behavior does not meet standards and how to correct it. How do you arrange the meeting? Sends a message before the actual counseling session. In person, e-mail, letter, secretary?
Written? (memo, e-mail, letter, note). Consider speaking to them in person and follow-up in writing. What next? Your behavior following counseling is key.
Need to establish normal relations, follow-up but still be supportive. Build efficacy. Remember procedural justice everyone is watching you.
Assertive Communication
The ability to communicate clearly and
directly what you need or want from another person in a way that does not deny or infringe upon the others rights. Use I-statements rather than youstatements; produce dialogue rather than defensiveness. Matter-of-fact, issue focused and not personal.
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Nonverbal general Attentive listening. Generally assured demeanor manner, communicating caring support. Voice Firm, warm, well modulated, relaxed
Eyes
Open, frank, direct. Eye contact, but not glaring or staring Well balanced, straight on, open, erect, relaxed Relaxed motions
description of the behavior exhibited by the other person 2. The concrete effects of that behavior 3. The speakers feelings about the behavior
I-statement examples
Behavior Effects Feelings When you come late We have to use And I resent that to our meetings valuable time bringing you up-to-date, and others end up doing your share of the work When you interrupt me I lose my train of And that makes me thought and dont get angry to make my point It disrupts the teams And that concerns me ability to complete its mission
Assertive communication
In addition to using I-statements:
Empathize with the other persons position in the situation Specify what changes you would like to see in the situation or in anothers behavior, and offer to negotiate those changes with the other person Indicate, in a nonthreatening way, the possible consequences that will follow if change does not occur.
because I think it is wasting the time of all the other team members and we are never able to get through our agenda items. I would like you to consider finding some way of planning your schedule that lets you get to these meetings on time. That way, we can be more productive at the meetings and we can all keep to our tight schedules.