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There is little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big difference.
The little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether it is positive or negative.
Cognitive
What a person knows about the situation
Affective
How the person feels about it
ASPECTS OF ATTITUDE
Behavioural
How the person reacts
Key Influencers
Formal work teams
WORK CLIMATE
Previous Experience
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Frames of Reference
ATTITUDES +
Informal Groups
GROUP THINK
Perception of need
BARGAINING
INITIATING CHANGE
GAINING COMMITMENT
A personal need to change Commitment to an appropriate course of action The skills they need to maintain that course of action
Just talking and listening can start to have the desired effect
AND / OR Eliminate or reduce the resisting forces - Dont underestimate the value of simple actions
Just talking and listening can start to have the desired effect
Coercive
Imposing the change - use of authority
Reeducative
PUSH
Assertiveness Imposed Targets Blocking
ADVANTAGES
PULL
Incentives Recognition Advancement
Can be extremely successful Appropriate for immediate behaviour change Suitable if not concerned about changing attitudes
Can take much longer Can be more effort May involve more people
AFFECTIVE
THE FEELINGS OR EMOTIONS TOWARD AN OBJECT
COGNITIVE
KNOWLEDGE AND BELIEFS
3 Very Good
1 Very Poor
A weight is assigned to each position on the rating scale. Traditionally, scores are +2, +1, 0, -1, -2,.
Exciting ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : Calm Interesting ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : Dull Simple___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ Complex Passive ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ : ___ Active
3. Players with positive attitudes. They actively participate in life and embrace opportunities. They take risks and are willing to make mistakes. Players enjoy learning and change. They usually are confident and optimistic. Their defining word is "Yes!" Typical phrases: "I can," "I will," "Im sure" and "I choose to." Most of us have some of each type and attitude in us. Often, though, one general attitude predominates. A study of success factors by Telemetrics International found one significant difference between high and low achievers was not education or intelligence but attitude.
We cant control everything that happens to us, but we can control how we react. Recall a challenge you faced in your interactions with others (whether on your current job, in a previous job or in your personal life). Describe (in writing) the situation, the people involved, what was challenging and how you handled it. What were your actions? Your thoughts? Your feelings? What statements did you use? In what tone of voice? What was your body language and facial expression?
The good news is that a negative or neutral attitude can be changed. One way to do this and perhaps the most powerful way is by listening to the way you talk to yourself and turning negative statements to positive ones.
By the time were 17, weve taken in - and recorded 150,000 pieces of negative data: "You cant," "You shouldnt," "Youll only fail," "Dont try," "Who are you to...?" If you fill your mind with negative thoughts, you will have a negative attitude. But these negative thoughts can be transformed into positive thoughts, attitudes and actions.
Monitor self-talk. Catch yourself using negative phrases and replace them. If you sometimes say "Im a failure," use "Ive not yet succeeded." If you say "I messed up," try instead "I was confident enough to try.
As with learning any skill, practice until it becomes a habit. Reframing one or two negative thoughts isnt going to help that much. Remember, youre challenging a lifetime of heavily negative programming. More tips: 1. Stay in the present tense. Where do you spend most of your mental life? Ruminating about the past? Worrying about the future? Planning is effective, but worrying is totally unproductive. Stay focused on what youre thinking, feeling and doing at this time.
2. Talk to yourself in a calm, compassionate manner. Instead of yelling at yourself, try "Its OK, [your nickname], just relax. 3. Talk yourself out of unreasonable expectations and fearful thoughts. How reasonable, realistic or likely are the events youre projecting? If theyre not reasonable, tell yourself to "stop" and reframe your expectations to more likely (and less alarming) ones. 4. Surround yourself with positive people. It is hard to remain positive around nay-Sayers and critics. Separate yourself from relationships that suck your energy, selfconfidence and self-worth. Reach out to those who give you positive strokes and shared values.