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Assertiveness:
Assertiveness is the ability to express your feelings, opinions, beliefs, and needs directly, openly and honestly, while not violating the personal rights of others.
Assertiveness is the ability to say yes or no when you want to; it's the freedom to be yourself in all circumstances
- By Susan Walker
Assertiveness is about :
Handling difficult situations more effectively Understanding where you are coming from - what situations you can and can't handle at present Having a sense of self-worth
and responsibilities
Types of Assertion:
Basic Assertion This is a simple, straightforward expression of your beliefs, feelings, or opinions. It's usually a simple "I want" or "I feel" statement.
2. Empathic Assertion
This conveys some sensitivity to the other person. It usually contains two parts- a recognition of the other person's situation or feelings, followed by a statement in which you stand up for your rights.
Types of Assertion:
3. Escalating Assertion This occurs when the other person fails to respond to your basic assertion and continues to violate your rights. You gradually escalate the assertion and become increasingly firm. It may even include the mention of some type of resulting action on your part, made only after several basic assertive statements. For example, "If you don't complete the work on my car by 5:00 tomorrow, I'll be forced to call the Better Business Bureau."
Assertion strategies:
1. Make known your desires and feelings 2. Make a nonassertive person open up 3.Express feelings about a situation without
threatening others
Benefits of Assertiveness:
We create healthy, meaningful relationships
There
is
less
friction
and
conflict
There is increased self-respect as well as respect from others Our self esteem is enhanced & we always feel in control
Our
productivity
at
work
and
the
home
increases
There's less stress, and an overall sense of well-being Our emotional and physical health improves
Sample Situation:
You are at the dinner table and someone starts smoking,
which offends you. (1) Hey, that smoke is terrible!
(2)
(3)
Thank You